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re: I Come to the OT for some help today.
Posted on 6/5/17 at 3:24 pm to RLDSC FAN
Posted on 6/5/17 at 3:24 pm to RLDSC FAN
You have gotten some good advice so far so I will just add some different tidbits. Keep hitting the gym, but even harder than you had planned.
Take the jujitsu class but never think of competing. Those guys have been training since they were 3 years old.
Read the books that some of the popular movies are based on. Once you are through, watch the movie, then go to the movie board and gripe about the movie only loosely following the book.
How in the blue hell does Tom Cruise play a 6'5" character?
Get the divorce done ASAP. If she comes back it is only to get her financial ducks in a better row so she can really frick you over later. Once it is over you will be surprised how much vitamin P throws itself at you.
Your goal, once it is over, is to nail her best friend and sister. (Unless they are pigs.) Pics of Ex, best friend and sister?
Take the jujitsu class but never think of competing. Those guys have been training since they were 3 years old.
Read the books that some of the popular movies are based on. Once you are through, watch the movie, then go to the movie board and gripe about the movie only loosely following the book.
How in the blue hell does Tom Cruise play a 6'5" character?
Get the divorce done ASAP. If she comes back it is only to get her financial ducks in a better row so she can really frick you over later. Once it is over you will be surprised how much vitamin P throws itself at you.
Your goal, once it is over, is to nail her best friend and sister. (Unless they are pigs.) Pics of Ex, best friend and sister?
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Posted on 6/5/17 at 3:25 pm to RLDSC FAN
My advice is simple...find out who this person is and lock her up ASAP
Posted on 6/5/17 at 3:34 pm to Hangit
No sisters, she has 3 brothers. Her friends would grade out to an OT 2.Posted on 6/5/17 at 4:02 pm to RLDSC FAN
here is what I did
Gym
drink like cooter brown
buy a dog
buy a drumset
slay a lot of vagina (not newly divorced neighbor though)
Gym
drink like cooter brown
buy a dog
buy a drumset
slay a lot of vagina (not newly divorced neighbor though)
Posted on 6/5/17 at 4:03 pm to RLDSC FAN
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No sisters, she has 3 brothers. Her friends would grade out to an OT 2.
Wow. Sorry for the alternative but you now have to wait until she gets in a relationship. Once she gets locked down you have to send an OT9 to him (Documented) and build the devil's triangle with them. Avoid eye contact.
Nugget had a good piece of advice as well. Once this settles out, get a side job delivering pizza. Do it in a college area. It will help fill your time and get you in the presence of other people. Some of those other people will have what you are looking for.
Work your magic.
Posted on 6/5/17 at 4:10 pm to Hangit
Almost all of us have gone through a really tough time. We are all just walking each other home. Read the Bible, work out, cut yourself some slack, and just take one day at a time. When your head fills up with anxiety, ask yourself, is what I am worrying about a problem right now? It usually isn't! You are worrying about the future. Reel yourself back in and breathe. You can do it my man!!!
Posted on 6/5/17 at 4:25 pm to RLDSC FAN
Posted on 6/5/17 at 4:32 pm to S
Baron Davis
Posted on 6/5/17 at 4:45 pm to Paul Allen
Nick Collison
Posted on 6/5/17 at 4:46 pm to S
JJ Stokes
Posted on 6/5/17 at 5:49 pm to RLDSC FAN
so sorry for what you are going through, it does suck.
you are doing all of the right things and have gotten some good advice here, also some really interesting "wisdom"
--continue to work out and ramp it up.
--join a rec sports league/team that practices at night, plays on the weekends-basketball, flag football, soccer, tennis, kickball whatever. it's a workout, will get you out of the house and you will meet new people
--get up a couple of hours earlier than your normal so it will be easier to sleep at night.
--find a support group that meets at night.
--reading books is a great, healthy way to distract yourself. social media not so much.
--get out of town on the weekends, if possible plan so you do not get back home until monday morning just in time to get to work. sunday nights are the worst when you are alone and hurting.
--travel to places you have never been, it is a great way to get a fresh perspective.
--getting a pet is a good idea if you have the time to care for it and space.
--some people find journaling/writing to help (just imagining all of the "dear diary" comments on this thread if anyone actually reads all of this
--do not make any major decisions about moving away at this point, but do spend some time researching other "dream" places to live. maybe plan a visit.
--volunteer for a cause that you believe in. one of the perks of helping others is that it will help you.
--learn something new--take a class, find a new hobby.
--always, always friends/family. they will help and one day they will have problems and you can pay back the time they spent with you now and with greater understanding and empathy.
and it WILL get better with time. the crap part is that you are going to feel bad and hurt but you will and can get through that. sometimes you just have to feel all of the pain to start healing.
best of luck, you are going to be OK! keep us updated
you are doing all of the right things and have gotten some good advice here, also some really interesting "wisdom"
--continue to work out and ramp it up.
--join a rec sports league/team that practices at night, plays on the weekends-basketball, flag football, soccer, tennis, kickball whatever. it's a workout, will get you out of the house and you will meet new people
--get up a couple of hours earlier than your normal so it will be easier to sleep at night.
--find a support group that meets at night.
--reading books is a great, healthy way to distract yourself. social media not so much.
--get out of town on the weekends, if possible plan so you do not get back home until monday morning just in time to get to work. sunday nights are the worst when you are alone and hurting.
--travel to places you have never been, it is a great way to get a fresh perspective.
--getting a pet is a good idea if you have the time to care for it and space.
--some people find journaling/writing to help (just imagining all of the "dear diary" comments on this thread if anyone actually reads all of this
--do not make any major decisions about moving away at this point, but do spend some time researching other "dream" places to live. maybe plan a visit.
--volunteer for a cause that you believe in. one of the perks of helping others is that it will help you.
--learn something new--take a class, find a new hobby.
--always, always friends/family. they will help and one day they will have problems and you can pay back the time they spent with you now and with greater understanding and empathy.
and it WILL get better with time. the crap part is that you are going to feel bad and hurt but you will and can get through that. sometimes you just have to feel all of the pain to start healing.
best of luck, you are going to be OK! keep us updated
This post was edited on 6/5/17 at 6:24 pm
Posted on 6/5/17 at 6:22 pm to RLDSC FAN
Did y'all have kids?
Posted on 6/5/17 at 6:55 pm to FLAK88
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So I typed an e-mail and dumped all the texts and calls into a spread sheet and sent it to his wife and asked if she could help me understand why her husband is calling and texting my wife so much. All holy hell broke loose after that.
Like a boss!
Posted on 6/5/17 at 7:02 pm to UncleRuckus
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Find some good documentaries to watch when you're home alone.
These is one on Netflix called "Virgin School". I promise.. If he watches that, it will make him feel 10x better about himself.
Posted on 6/5/17 at 7:06 pm to RLDSC FAN
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RLDSC FAN
Hey man, like I said in my last post.. If you have Netflix watch "Virgin School". Its a documentary about a 26 year old virgin who needs help learning how to do sex. There are some parts that are so ridiculous you will laugh at and it will make you feel a lot better. You will be thankful you are not that guy.
Posted on 6/5/17 at 7:26 pm to RLDSC FAN
I'm going through a similar situation. You're not alone brother.
Posted on 6/5/17 at 7:30 pm to RLDSC FAN
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She basically said she doesn't love me anymore.
frick that bitch
Posted on 6/5/17 at 7:51 pm to thelawnwranglers
Thanks to everyone that's contributed to this thread, it's much appreciated. Some great advice. I just got home from the gym and I'm exhausted now. God bless the gym, it's so freaking helpful during these times.
Posted on 6/5/17 at 8:57 pm to RLDSC FAN
If ya need a beer buddy let me know. If your profile is legit we don't live that far apart. Cheers my friend.
Posted on 6/5/17 at 9:00 pm to RLDSC FAN
Have y'all hired attorneys and got the ball rolling? Your attorney is going to tell you not to speak to her at all. At some point she is going to want to talk to you and explain how it is all your fault. She will also want reassurance that you are OK with all of her bad actions.
Take your attorney's advice and do not speak with her. After the divorce is final, do not speak to her. When you are both old and retired and you see her in the grocery store, do not speak to her. She opted to not be in your life. So be it.
frick her and Bama, that's why.
Take your attorney's advice and do not speak with her. After the divorce is final, do not speak to her. When you are both old and retired and you see her in the grocery store, do not speak to her. She opted to not be in your life. So be it.
frick her and Bama, that's why.
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