re: How would you react if your wife/GF became pregnant with another man's child?

Had a married white co worker once who was pregnant. Baby came out and was the color of an egg plant. It was Kadeem’s baby not her white husband’s.

It would be over. Simple as that

She wouldn't be much of a wife or GF even if he believes he's in love with her now, he needs to try to grow a set of balls to get out.

I had a family member that was newly wed and pregnant shortly after. She'd always had a thing for the BBC she was getting somewhere on the side. What she grappled with asking for family advice, it's 50/50 if this child is coming out with a tan, do I be honest with my husband now to save some shock, or keep it secret and hope for the best?

Luckily the child popped out white, but I've heard of that scenario going the other way.

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How would you react if your wife/GF became pregnant with another man's child?

and you found ouf after they were born?

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If married, it means she cheated on you and that's on her. If, for some reason, you got married only after knowing each other over such a short period that she wasn't showing yet then that's on you for rushing into such a commitment.

If you're dating...

1. If you banged on the first date and dumped in her, that's partially on you for staying with some chick who accepts your wad on the first date.

2. If you didn't bang for a while once you started dating, that's on her because she probably missed a period during that time, experienced swollen/sore breasts (usually within the first week or two of conception), etc. and just didn't tell you.

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especially if you're madly in love with the woman.

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Trust and communication are two of the most important foundational parts of a relationship. Her not telling you about having someone else's frick trophy violates both of those aspects. Most people think of it as a single violation, but it's not. She lied each time the two of you spoke and she didn't tell you, that comes out to being thousands of lies.

The next step in this is to ask yourself why you love someone you obviously can't trust. If you can't answer it other than "I just do" then it's likely not her you love but the idea of her, which often distills down to just wanting the security of being in a relationship.

What would I do?



She's gone. Violation of trust to that level is inexcusable and irreparable, at least for me (the same goes for my wife).

Do you have insurance on it in case it gets burned to the ground by an accidental fire?

Because I have an agent in your area right now waiting to give you a quote, Coyote.

"Be Wary O My Son....A rule going back to the days of yore; best be sure you don't fall for a whore...."

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I imagine it would be difficult to just up and leave, especially if you're madly in love with the woman.

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so, in this scenario I'm assuming she's a billionaire, right?

I'd throw a shower for her and the Jodie, of course!

What sort of dumbass question is this?