re: How to deal with women who just use others

Bed them.

Never heard of the guy but I’ll have to check it out. I’m starting to think it’s just the younger women like this but maybe it’s just a type.

The same way you deal with a shark. Get away and stay away. Who wants to deal with that shite?

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Anything I can say to these sharks to get under their skin while the brother in law is trying to test the tires.

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We’ve already established that he shouldn’t be dealing with women like this…why are you trying to engage with them?

I think all men have been used at one point or another by a woman. Manipulation (in an evolutionary biological sense for reasons related to survival as the physically weaker sex) is baked into women, and some fight the tendency nobly and others use it in the most destructive and cynical manner. My own mother would casually do the most manipulative things to me, for instance and I had to minimize my contact with her because of it. I think the important thing is figuring out if you subconsciously think you deserve it, figuring out why you feel that way, and putting an end to it. Being Captain Save A Ho is not a good strategy for a happy life.

Avoid them

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How do you deal with these women when they try to pull that bull shite on you?

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Bang their Moms in front of them to assert dominance.

Duh.

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How do you deal with these women when they try to pull that bull shite on you?

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Ignore them

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Don't

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Easiest answer, why would op even ask

I'm tempted to say "just avoid them entirely," but if you can't quite stomach that, my suggestion is to be very realistic and up-front about things.

Make it clear that you realize every interaction the chick has with another human (except, perhaps, for some gigachad that got away) is transactional.

Make it clear that you have the money or whatever it is she wants, and that you're willing to part with it- and make it really clear that you will not be doing so unless sexual favors are forthcoming.

You have to figure out how to make these things clear. Just articulating them verbally may not work, or may even be counterproductive. It's no different from buying a car, and not from a nice premium brand. It's like buying a Mitsubishi. You will need to be on your toes, and to be a-hole about it.