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re: How to deal with a naggy SO?

Posted on 4/9/22 at 3:30 am to
Posted by SelaTiger
Member since Aug 2016
20600 posts
Posted on 4/9/22 at 3:30 am to
You can’t give an inch. Argue every time you feel you’re in the right. You can even turn the tables and start nagging yourself. 2 can play that game.
Posted by Bullfrog
Running Through the Wet Grass
Member since Jul 2010
58895 posts
Posted on 4/9/22 at 3:36 am to
Flat out ask, “Why are you fighting me on everything?”

When she replies she doesn’t, say, “You just did it again. Stop it. I can’t live this way. So if you want to part ways, this is how you do it.”
Posted by rocksteady
Member since Sep 2013
1754 posts
Posted on 4/9/22 at 4:03 am to
Sounds like you’re not satisfying her enough sexually
Posted by rich4pres
Knoxville
Member since Dec 2016
10536 posts
Posted on 4/9/22 at 4:21 am to
If she is doing this now it isn't gonna work out.
Posted by I Bleed Garnet
Cullman, AL
Member since Jul 2011
54846 posts
Posted on 4/9/22 at 5:37 am to
Well first thing i gotta say to you
Congrats on the sex my baw
Posted by armsdealer
Member since Feb 2016
11938 posts
Posted on 4/9/22 at 5:38 am to
eliminate the naggy SO. Is the fly trap worth it?
Posted by willynilly
Member since Jul 2021
73 posts
Posted on 4/9/22 at 5:45 am to
life’s too short to put up with someone else’s bullshite. Be direct and tell how you feel. If she chooses to continue her behavior, then time to move on.

Stop being a pussy.
Posted by Stealth Matrix
29°59'55.98"N 90°05'21.85"W
Member since Aug 2019
9771 posts
Posted on 4/9/22 at 6:01 am to
Did you try talking to her about why she's so argumentive?
Posted by Macfly
BR & DS
Member since Jan 2016
9475 posts
Posted on 4/9/22 at 6:02 am to
One needs to craft the ability to say yep while not listening.
Posted by SixthAndBarone
Member since Jan 2019
9850 posts
Posted on 4/9/22 at 6:05 am to
PIIHB to establish dominance
Posted by BHM
Member since Jun 2012
3565 posts
Posted on 4/9/22 at 6:06 am to
Listen to her with all your attention but give zreo response. No words or expressions. When she is done, calmly just turn away and ignore her.

Do this several times in a row. Do NOT have sex after one of her bouts for at least 24 hours.

She will either learn that she can't control you and her behavior will not be entertained or you will have to move on.
Posted by Crimson1st
Birmingham, AL
Member since Nov 2010
20455 posts
Posted on 4/9/22 at 6:08 am to
quote:

How to deal with a naggy SO?


People who annoy you? Lol

Seriously though I find nagging by far the worst trait a potential SO can have. I can’t deal with that crap!
Posted by nuRally
Member since Mar 2018
140 posts
Posted on 4/9/22 at 6:13 am to
Scientists have discovered that women often want to complain and someone to listen or to argue with someone. The someone is not important, but there is currently no way to distinguish which situation is which.
Posted by StringedInstruments
Member since Oct 2013
19760 posts
Posted on 4/9/22 at 6:25 am to
You have no obligation to engage in verbal intercourse with your wife. Learn to ignore it.

Some of the best advice I heard about marriage is to treat your wife like the oldest teenager in the house.
Posted by stelly1025
Lafayette
Member since May 2012
9481 posts
Posted on 4/9/22 at 6:30 am to
PIIHB.
Posted by Bestbank Tiger
Premium Member
Member since Jan 2005
75317 posts
Posted on 4/9/22 at 6:33 am to
Does she annoy you?
Posted by SuperSaint
Sorting Out OT BS Since '2007'
Member since Sep 2007
144345 posts
Posted on 4/9/22 at 6:39 am to
quote:

Every suggestion or recommendation I make has to be met with a retort or argument. It doesn’t matter how much sense it makes, she always has to be right about everything. How do you married baws navigate these situations?
the tried and true method of PIIHB

ASSerting dominance of the situation is what she is subtly asking for. Rookie.
Posted by Hangit
The Green Swamp
Member since Aug 2014
43153 posts
Posted on 4/9/22 at 6:40 am to
Ask her if she has any friends that are not so argumentative, and bossy. When she asks why, tell her it is clear she is ready for you to move on.
Posted by ruzil
Baton Rouge
Member since Feb 2012
17904 posts
Posted on 4/9/22 at 6:40 am to
quote:

always has to be right about everything.


Constantly remind her of how smart and beautiful she is.
Posted by pwejr88
Red Stick
Member since Apr 2007
37043 posts
Posted on 4/9/22 at 6:43 am to
quote:

Every suggestion or recommendation I make


There’s your mistake.

Wait for her to ask before you give one, even if you could easily solve the problem. Most of the time women don’t want us to solve their problem. They just want to vent. It’s the hardest thing to do.
Also, treat others how you want to be treated. Approach her and make suggestions how you would want to be approached.
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