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re: How my carats did you go for

Posted on 10/29/19 at 9:51 am to
Posted by rilesrick
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Posted on 10/29/19 at 9:51 am to
I make 100k I spent 15K all were happy.
Posted by X123F45
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Posted on 10/29/19 at 9:52 am to
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Go for the CZ, she'll never know.


From a scientific standpoint, platinum and moissanite over diamonds and gold.
Posted by FLObserver
Jacksonville
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Posted on 10/29/19 at 9:53 am to
why bother spending big when more than half the time she gonna be divorcing him anyway He could have spent that money elsewhere.
Posted by X123F45
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Posted on 10/29/19 at 9:53 am to
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I make 100k I spent 15K all were happy.


The day I spend 15k on jewelry with no moving parts


God damn
Posted by SuperSaint
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Posted on 10/29/19 at 9:54 am to
My girl wants yellow gold, the jeweler told me I could go with a less perfect clarity and most wouldn't notice do the color of the metal.

Any opinions on that?
Posted by X123F45
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Posted on 10/29/19 at 9:56 am to
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Any opinions on that?


True and false. The gold will hide the color under some light. But if super bright it'll look like shite.
Posted by RogerTheShrubber
Juneau, AK
Member since Jan 2009
299716 posts
Posted on 10/29/19 at 9:59 am to
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Succumbing to materialistic whims of females will only set unreasonable expectations for said females because you will eventually find yourself in a situation where you are unable to out do yourself.


Truth

Women are super materialistic and in some arms race with other women. It's up to the men to be adults and squash this shite.
Posted by glorymanutdtiger
Baton Rouge
Member since Jun 2012
4611 posts
Posted on 10/29/19 at 10:02 am to
Get a good one piece center stone of a carat and some little ones to enhance it.

Like the other poster said 3 carats of tiny stones has no value. They don't buy back anything less than 0.25 carat.
Posted by Ssubba
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Posted on 10/29/19 at 10:04 am to
Am I suppose to tell her how much I spent?
Posted by Hangit
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Posted on 10/29/19 at 10:12 am to
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Am I suppose to tell her how much I spent?


That's funny Baw. She will know how much you spent when she goes through your phone and wallet. You will have the receipt in your wallet, and mention in a text how much you spent, to a friend.

I bought mine when the diamond merchants only demanded two months salary. I wonder when they will kick it to four? I was making $25k in 1991 and spent a little over $4k for a flawless 1.06c. Prices and demands have escalated.
Posted by YumYum Sauce
Arkansas
Member since Nov 2010
9653 posts
Posted on 10/29/19 at 10:13 am to
just go to a store that will buy a specific diamond for you, then mount it how you want it. You'll save a ton.
Posted by mikelbr
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Posted on 10/29/19 at 10:17 am to
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My buddies all seem to be going for three stone rings, but they are spending some serious money.

Is this the new normal?


If you spend more than $3500 on a ring, you're stupid.

If you marry a chick who is mad b/c you won't spend more than $3500 on a ring, you're stupid.

Posted by X123F45
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Posted on 10/29/19 at 10:27 am to
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If you spend more than $3500 on a ring, you're stupid.



I'm not spending anything

But I'd raise that to 9k or so for a 100k salary.
Posted by Jizzy08
Member since Aug 2008
12434 posts
Posted on 10/29/19 at 10:28 am to
Clarity over carat. But the real answer is, spend a little time researching, buy something you can afford and if the bitch doesn’t like it, re-evaluate your commitment to her bc that’s a red flag. My fiancé would rather us not be in debt than to have some exorbitant ring. Not to mention, the ring itself shouldn’t be the thing saying you care for her.
Posted by SuperSaint
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Posted on 10/29/19 at 10:29 am to
The three month salary thing is a joke


No way I’m spending 3 months of salary on a god damn ring


Us men are fricking ourselves
Posted by Hogbit
Benton, AR
Member since Aug 2019
3091 posts
Posted on 10/29/19 at 10:38 am to
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3 yrs salary
no way im pissing that much away on jewelry
Posted by Evil Little Thing
Member since Jul 2013
11638 posts
Posted on 10/29/19 at 10:40 am to
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My girl wants yellow gold, the jeweler told me I could go with a less perfect clarity and most wouldn't notice do the color of the metal.


Cut has the biggest impact on sparkle. There are plenty of stones in the SI range that are “eye clean” in that you can’t spot inclusions unless you’re looking with a loupe, or the inclusion is hidden under a prong. If the cut is bad, even the cleanest stone will look dull.
Posted by mikelbr
Baton Rouge
Member since Apr 2008
49099 posts
Posted on 10/29/19 at 11:07 am to
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But I'd raise that to 9k or so for a 100k salary


If you think the cost of an engagement ring should directly correlate to your salary, you're stupid*.


*unless you're a multi-millionaire by the time you're getting engaged. Then buy whatever you want but chances are you make $250k or less and $3500 cap still applies.




Posted by DivotBreath
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Posted on 10/29/19 at 11:08 am to
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My girl wants yellow gold, the jeweler told me I could go with a less perfect clarity and most wouldn't notice do the color of the metal. Any opinions on that?


Think about what you’re asking . . . the jeweler trying to sell you the diamond with less than perfect clarity is like a used car salesman trying to sell you a car and telling you not to worry about the strange noise the engine makes because the body is in great shape.
Posted by Epic Cajun
Lafayette, LA
Member since Feb 2013
37472 posts
Posted on 10/29/19 at 11:28 am to
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Clarity over carat.

For sure. If you buy a large diamond of shitty quality, it will be more noticeable.

Also, agree about buying something you can afford. Only an idiot would put themselves in debt by buying a diamond. At the same time, it should be a bit of a sacrifice, IMO. Guys who balk at spending 5k on a diamond for their SO, but pay a 1k car note have fricked up priorities.

I went with ~1.5 carat high quality, solitaire, pear shaped. Large enough, but not gaudy.
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