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re: How many kids are too much? How many kids do you have?

Posted on 7/20/19 at 4:16 pm to
Posted by northshorebamaman
Cochise County AZ
Member since Jul 2009
37605 posts
Posted on 7/20/19 at 4:16 pm to
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All I know is that I didn’t have gray hair until my daughter became a teenager , keep that in mind
My son is the hellraiser. My daughter doesn't give me any problems. They were the reverse when they were young kids.
Posted by GAAtty70
Member since Nov 2015
905 posts
Posted on 7/20/19 at 4:17 pm to
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I am thinking 2 boys and 1 girl is perfect.


What is the rationale here?
Posted by meeple
Carcassonne
Member since May 2011
10851 posts
Posted on 7/20/19 at 4:18 pm to
I’ve said it before here each time this topic comes up. This is based on science.

In terms of available free time, going from 1 to 2 wasn't very noticeable for me.

Adding the 3rd changed things exponentially in this regard, because you have to factor in that one or both of your oldest children will be involved in some level of activities and require more attention from you. This on top of being limited to what you are able to do with an infant/toddler.

There are many factors here, it's not just an assessment of numbers. That being said, having children has many intangible benefits.

ETA I’ve always heard that if you have three may as well have 4 or more it doesn’t matter at that point based on the science above
This post was edited on 7/20/19 at 4:21 pm
Posted by olgoi khorkhoi
priapism survivor
Member since May 2011
16388 posts
Posted on 7/20/19 at 4:25 pm to
Have 6. It gets easier after 3. We didn’t have more because we’re hitting 40.

My wife and I have good genetics so why not?
Posted by saintsfan1977
Arkansas, from Cajun country
Member since Jun 2010
9984 posts
Posted on 7/20/19 at 4:37 pm to
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4 boys is rough they don’t ever stop yelling and fighting.

My mom and dad know all about that. I grew up with 3 brothers. We fought constantly growing up.
Posted by MMauler
Primary This RINO Traitor
Member since Jun 2013
23920 posts
Posted on 7/20/19 at 4:49 pm to
No more than you can put through college while saving for your own retirement.
Posted by Pecker
Rocky Top
Member since May 2015
16674 posts
Posted on 7/20/19 at 4:51 pm to
0 kids

#DINKLIFE
Posted by momentoftruth87
Your mom
Member since Oct 2013
86110 posts
Posted on 7/20/19 at 5:19 pm to
2 kids right now, 1 more any day. This last wasn't planned and I keep telling my wife this is it, but she looks sexy as frick right now.
Posted by Mr Clean
Power I-Formation
Member since Aug 2006
53141 posts
Posted on 7/20/19 at 5:20 pm to
No human offspring

I’m the proud pet parent of a 1-year-old pit bull named Stella
Posted by TigerTattle
Out of Town
Member since Sep 2007
6688 posts
Posted on 7/20/19 at 5:23 pm to
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How many kids are too much?
1 more than a parent can afford is too many. 3 is a good number.
Posted by PiscesTiger
Concrete, WA
Member since Feb 2004
53696 posts
Posted on 7/20/19 at 5:24 pm to
I have 2. I am done. These people with 4 and 5 just have something I do not understand.
Posted by Oilfieldbiology
Member since Nov 2016
41519 posts
Posted on 7/20/19 at 5:24 pm to
12 kids is too much
Posted by Oilfieldbiology
Member since Nov 2016
41519 posts
Posted on 7/20/19 at 5:27 pm to
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What is the rationale here?


Honest response, boys can’t get pregnant. Seriously
Posted by yellowfin
Coastal Bar
Member since May 2006
98768 posts
Posted on 7/20/19 at 5:30 pm to
I have a boy and girl and we’re done


I’m not sure how many are too many but we decided two was enough for us
Posted by CunningLinguist
Dallas, TX
Member since Mar 2006
19169 posts
Posted on 7/20/19 at 5:34 pm to
One boy and one girl. Too many kids is relative. For us, three would be too much. It’d make the decision to have my wife work not worth it. As is, we still can have a pretty positive cash flow with two kids and one kid rolling into kindergarten to get the daycare costs down to one kid.
Posted by Eighteen
Member since Dec 2006
36936 posts
Posted on 7/20/19 at 5:40 pm to
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one of each


Posted by geauxjo
Gonzales, LA
Member since Sep 2004
15286 posts
Posted on 7/20/19 at 6:16 pm to
5 daughters.

It was ALOT of work when they were young. It’s awesome now.
Oldest is 25. Dental hygienist. Married to a great guy who is AD and head football coach at a private high school. Has a daughter and expecting another.
Second is 23. 1st year teacher this fall. Married to another awesome guy. They have a daughter.
Middle is in college for business.
Last 2 are twins. That’s been a wild ride. Both about to start college.
They are all amazing. I look forward to retirement and spending time with a bunch of grandkids to grow old with.
Posted by pioneerbasketball
Team Bunchie
Member since Oct 2005
139098 posts
Posted on 7/20/19 at 6:18 pm to
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I own 2

Posted by Sinister1
Metairie
Member since Dec 2007
1872 posts
Posted on 7/20/19 at 6:22 pm to
I have 3. 2 girls ages 9 and 2. A boy age 6.
Posted by HoustonChick86
Catalina Wine Mixer
Member since Dec 2009
59210 posts
Posted on 7/20/19 at 6:39 pm to
I have 1, 1 is enough.
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