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re: How long of a dry spell can you put up with in a relationship?

Posted on 2/29/16 at 1:19 pm to
Posted by Ross
Member since Oct 2007
47827 posts
Posted on 2/29/16 at 1:19 pm to
So if seven days go by and no sex, you're starting to think about leaving. Would you feel the same way one year into the relationship? Two?

Out of curiosity only.
Posted by Mr Personality
Bangkok
Member since Mar 2014
27364 posts
Posted on 2/29/16 at 1:22 pm to
Your penis is small and your SO is now addicted to the BBC
Posted by Ross
Member since Oct 2007
47827 posts
Posted on 2/29/16 at 1:23 pm to
This may be true, but my micropenis has nothing to do with the question.

How long would you last if the sex stopped?
Posted by fr33manator
Baton Rouge
Member since Oct 2010
135035 posts
Posted on 2/29/16 at 1:24 pm to
Now, if we go more than a couple instances of seeing each other and don't bump uglies, I'm starting to get antsy.
Posted by Breesus
Unplug
Member since Jan 2010
69549 posts
Posted on 2/29/16 at 1:25 pm to
Dude get over it. Your girl is getting plowed down like a boring drill through butter right now.

Also,

quote:

if seven days go by and no sex, you're starting to think about leaving. Would you feel the same way one year into the relationship? Two? 


High stress full time job providing for a family with your soul mate and partner in life, then yes it's OK that sometimes you just want to sleep.

Young and early on in the relationship, less than a year or two, and she tells you she's done with it altogether? Something is going on.
Posted by Ross
Member since Oct 2007
47827 posts
Posted on 2/29/16 at 1:26 pm to
quote:

Dude get over it. Your girl is getting plowed down like a boring drill through butter right now.




I'm actually gonna keep it up just to see if you run out of euphemisms.
Posted by Ace Midnight
Between sanity and madness
Member since Dec 2006
96252 posts
Posted on 2/29/16 at 1:27 pm to
30 - 45 minutes.

Posted by Rhino5
Atlanta
Member since Nov 2014
30970 posts
Posted on 2/29/16 at 1:30 pm to
quote:

Let's say you have been with the person for a significant amount of time, and they say they don't feel like being physically intimate anymore.

That's the fat lady singing isn't it? Guess you could try counseling to see if it reignites anything.
Posted by AUCE05
Member since Dec 2009
45424 posts
Posted on 2/29/16 at 1:31 pm to
Gonna need a baseline on the sexual activities for your relationship before giving an honest assessment.
Posted by Breesus
Unplug
Member since Jan 2010
69549 posts
Posted on 2/29/16 at 1:31 pm to
quote:



I'm actually gonna keep it up just to see if you run out of euphemisms. 





I assure you ill run out of euphemisms before your girl runs out of tube steaks to marinate ten at a time in her steam chamber.
Posted by Ross
Member since Oct 2007
47827 posts
Posted on 2/29/16 at 1:31 pm to
quote:

That's the fat lady singing isn't it? Guess you could try counseling to see if it reignites anything.



Oh it most definitely is. But I was curious what the tipping point is for your average poster here.

Personally, after two weeks I'm wanting answers. After a month, I'm getting pretty frustrated with it. Two or so months is when I'm probably having a very real discussion about the future of the relationship.
Posted by Rhino5
Atlanta
Member since Nov 2014
30970 posts
Posted on 2/29/16 at 1:35 pm to
quote:

Oh it most definitely is. But I was curious what the tipping point is for your average poster here.

1 week and I start bitching. Can be mitigated with other activities in the meantime.
Posted by Hawkeye95
Member since Dec 2013
20293 posts
Posted on 2/29/16 at 1:36 pm to
the wife and I went 5 weeks once, and that put a terrible strain on our relationship. We were going through issues at the time, but we both quickly recognized that it was a problem.

We both have a one week rule, sex at least every week. Gets hard when the rents are visiting tho
Posted by ShoeBang
Member since May 2012
22345 posts
Posted on 2/29/16 at 1:36 pm to
quote:

Personally, after two weeks I'm wanting answers. After a month, I'm getting pretty frustrated with it. Two or so months is when I'm probably having a very real discussion about the future of the relationship.


The saying is true:

If he isn't getting it at home, he's going to go find it somewhere else.

Same for women. if they aren't feeling loved and taken care of, they will find it somewhere else. Maybe the "no more sex" was a cry for help. Maybe you are being insufficient somewhere else in the relationship and she is closing down shop. Take a hard look in the mirror first. If you can find nothing you have done or have been doing that could affect her, then call it quits.
Posted by HeavyCore
Member since Sep 2012
2552 posts
Posted on 2/29/16 at 1:38 pm to
After 3 days or so.
Sometimes you just have to tell them whats happening.
Posted by N2cars
Member since Feb 2008
40354 posts
Posted on 2/29/16 at 1:38 pm to
24 hours, unless I'm traveling.
Posted by p0845330
Member since Aug 2013
6163 posts
Posted on 2/29/16 at 1:39 pm to
quote:

they say they don't feel like being physically intimate anymore


Bye
Posted by Hammertime
Will trade dowsing rod for titties
Member since Jan 2012
43031 posts
Posted on 2/29/16 at 1:41 pm to
quote:

they say they don't feel like being physically intimate anymore.
Either let her know you're planning on picking up a side piece or GTFO. Homie don't play dat
Posted by Topwater Trout
Red Stick
Member since Oct 2010
70178 posts
Posted on 2/29/16 at 1:43 pm to
quote:

Either let her know you're planning on picking up a side piece or GTFO.


I doubt either of these will work
Posted by LSUwag
Florida man
Member since Jan 2007
18142 posts
Posted on 2/29/16 at 1:43 pm to
Get out now. It will only get worse as time goes on.
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