How humiliating and degrading is Reconciliation?

WAT?

That's the point. Face what you have done wrong, atone, and promise to not do it again.

You worried she's gonna spill all your secrets?

What did you make her do to you that you're so embarrassed about the priest finding out?

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Idk what this is, but it sounds trashy.

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you not knowing what it is, is trashy

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You worried she's gonna spill all your secrets?

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i mean, do people really let all the cats out of the bags during reconciliation or can we just lump it under other stuff that i can't recall? i remember i made a list when i was young and priest told me to speak from the heart but afterwards i looked at the list and left out most of the stuff i remembered. waste of a trip.

Wtf? Get a grip.

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id is having 1st reconciliation... almost want to call in sick for her sake

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Her sake or yours? You afraid of something she might say?

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That's the point. Face what you have done wrong, atone, and promise to not do it again.

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what's the point in facing it if you face zero reprecussions? and not do it again, oh it's always done again.

Auditing

Scientology apparently stole this idea from Catholics & they call it "auditing". Usually used for blackmail later by them

Tell your daughter she is and will always be the sum total of all her actions. There's no forgiveness and you are ultimately the exact person you've always been. If she's upset with some action she's made in the past effect that by being who you want to be...but never forgive or forget what you are capable of.