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re: HOA Drama and Pettiness

Posted on 10/18/19 at 10:59 am to
Posted by DevilDagNS
Member since Dec 2017
3017 posts
Posted on 10/18/19 at 10:59 am to
Saw a post on Nextdoor the other day where a woman was bitching because she is allergic to dogs and asked people not to walk their dogs directly in front of her house "out of respect" for her disability.
Posted by notiger1997
Metairie
Member since May 2009
61784 posts
Posted on 10/18/19 at 11:05 am to
Posted by NorthGwinnettTiger
Member since Jun 2006
53362 posts
Posted on 10/18/19 at 11:09 am to
I was on out neighborhood fb page for about a month. Left that shite because of all the incessant bitching.
Posted by Get Real Bro
Member since Dec 2015
207 posts
Posted on 10/18/19 at 11:09 am to
Been on our HOA Architectural Committee for 8 years now, and thankfully it’s a small, reasonable group on the committee, because the petty complaints go in one ear and out the other. These communities probably all have a few habitual complainers, but most of our neighborhood is pretty laid back. Some HOA By-Laws can be a bit overreaching to me though. Moving back to the country life later this year, but without next door neighbors.
Posted by Thecoz
Member since Dec 2018
3965 posts
Posted on 10/18/19 at 11:17 am to
Hoa areas are ok and in general rules are for the benefit of all in the long run and twenty years from now your resale value will benefit

If your personality is not inclined to others involved in your property buy some acreage.


Both good

But do not get on hoa social media. I have and the experience was just as you said. Jumped off real fast and never look at it again.

Nothing but people complaining and being petty . You will be happier just living there and not being sucked into their smallness

Do not get on the board either it just gets worse
Posted by bhtigerfan
Baton Rouge
Member since Sep 2008
33618 posts
Posted on 10/18/19 at 11:17 am to
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Oh and how can I forget about the lost pets. How the hell can so many people always be missing their cats and dogs? That’s at least half the post.
fricking this.

Every other post is about their missing dog or someone that has found a dog. Apparently the people around here have never heard of a dog collar and dog tags. fricking morons.
Posted by BoogaBear
Member since Jul 2013
7479 posts
Posted on 10/18/19 at 11:45 am to
I'm probably being bitched at on my HOA FB page right now. One of my dumb arse dogs has made it his personal vendetta to escape the yard. The fenced in yard. Into...yep another fenced in yard. He just goes and hangs out in other yards.

The back and one side of my fence was preexisting chain link through the woods. Apparently, they didn't opt for the tension wire at the bottom so you can just push right on through.

Getting a tension wire today and installing it.
Posted by toddzilla
Gulf of Mexico
Member since Nov 2012
1596 posts
Posted on 10/18/19 at 12:00 pm to
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I don't call my dog a "fur baby" but she HATES fireworks and it makes those holidays pretty miserable to see her freaking out, so I understand it somewhat. Some dogs also freak out and will run away to try and get away from the sounds.


My Dog is Scooby fricking Doo. I wrap her up in a Thundershirt and give her a hotdog laced with benedryl. Problem solved!
This post was edited on 10/18/19 at 12:02 pm
Posted by ShakeandBake
Member since Aug 2019
1247 posts
Posted on 10/18/19 at 12:06 pm to
If you want some great lols then checkout the @bestofnextdoor Twitter feed. Good Lord!
Posted by Cold Drink
Member since Mar 2016
3482 posts
Posted on 10/18/19 at 12:20 pm to
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Yeah if you’re buying a 50-100k house. I live in one now that is full of professionals and we don’t have any issues
Do you live in the 1940’s
Posted by toddzilla
Gulf of Mexico
Member since Nov 2012
1596 posts
Posted on 10/18/19 at 12:24 pm to
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@bestofnextdoor Twitter feed. Good Lord!


I stumbled upon the Clay/Lacy shitshow on here. Would have made for an awesome thread on the OT...



There’s a Facebook Group to chronicle the trashiness

This post was edited on 10/18/19 at 12:34 pm
Posted by GrammarKnotsi
Hammond
Member since Feb 2013
10172 posts
Posted on 10/18/19 at 12:25 pm to
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rass clippings, dogs, house colors, etc. Is this normal or is my neighborhood an exception?



lol...wait til you have to replace your mailbox with that new $395 one....F Betty
Posted by Bard
Definitely NOT an admin
Member since Oct 2008
60245 posts
Posted on 10/18/19 at 12:29 pm to
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Lot of passive aggressive bitching on my NextDoor app. Not much of it is HOA related, just a lot of veiled racism, worrying about coyotes, and shaming teenage drivers.




Mine usually consists of someone's dog got loose (again). Someone seen checking parked cars for unlocked doors.
Unkempt house (usually a rental with the actual owners living outside EBR and hasn't been rented out in a while).
Traffic.

And then there's this chick ringing someone's Ring at 2am one morning.
Posted by chryso
Baton Rouge
Member since Jul 2008
13972 posts
Posted on 10/18/19 at 12:35 pm to
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Mine usually consists of someone's dog got loose (again). Someone seen checking parked cars for unlocked doors.
Unkempt house (usually a rental with the actual owners living outside EBR and hasn't been rented out in a while).
Traffic.

And then there's this chick ringing someone's Ring at 2am one morning.


You live in my neighborhood.
Posted by shel311
McKinney, Texas
Member since Aug 2004
112944 posts
Posted on 10/18/19 at 12:39 pm to
quote:

Moved from house with land to a neighborhood with a strict HOA
Why...why would you do that?
Posted by shel311
McKinney, Texas
Member since Aug 2004
112944 posts
Posted on 10/18/19 at 12:42 pm to
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I'd say the biggest con is the HOA stuff. I honestly thought i would like it so it would keep the neighborhood from going down the crapper, but i didn't account for the added extra drama

This is why you need a very seasoned realtor who has worked the area you're looking in for multiple decade, if possible.

Those types know the lay of the land and the rep of every HOA.

Next time, lean on your realtor to ensure you're getting in with a good HOA, and not the type you are stuck with.
Posted by castorinho
13623 posts
Member since Nov 2010
88339 posts
Posted on 10/18/19 at 12:43 pm to
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To the parents of the driver of this white Jeep Grand Cherokee. Please teach your child proper respect on the roadway, and TO PUT HIS PHONE DOWN!!11!111!!! HE ALMOST KILLED ME!!!1111!!
Posted by Eightballjacket
Member since Jan 2016
8090 posts
Posted on 10/18/19 at 12:46 pm to
Go on the FB page and offer free massages to any willing ladies in the neighborhood. Tell them to private message replies, wait a few days, then go back on the neighborhood FB page and say that due to high demand you don't have enough time in the day to offer your services to so many willing ladies. That'll start some shite right there.
Posted by GRIZZ
Morgan City
Member since Nov 2009
6326 posts
Posted on 10/18/19 at 12:52 pm to
I like our HOA facebook page. There's a little bit of pettiness, but for the most part it's proven to be a good place to update neighbors on "ongoings" or hash things out without having to step out of your house.
Posted by Eighteen
Member since Dec 2006
37474 posts
Posted on 10/18/19 at 12:56 pm to
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just a lot of veiled racism,


I've noticed more of the opposite. i.e. someone posts video of a black person pulling on car door handles in their driveway and you have a long line of apologists making excuses for the person/saying not to call the police, etc.

its weird how many bleeding hearts there are out there that make excuses for people clearly committing crimes
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