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Helping others right now if you are able

Posted on 4/14/20 at 9:26 am
Posted by deaconjones35
Thibodaux
Member since Sep 2009
9901 posts
Posted on 4/14/20 at 9:26 am
I’ve debated on whether I should post this or not. With so many negative things coming out during the past few weeks, I figured I would share only in the hopes that it would inspire some of you to help others if you are able. There are a lot of elderly people and children that are struggling out there and it isn’t very hard to find them.

For the past 3 weeks my wife (no pics) and my 13 year old daughter (don’t even think about it) have been packing brown bag lunches on Fridays and driving around neighborhoods that we know have children that are largely unsupervised and in need of some food and encouragement. It has grown from 25 bags the first week to over 50 bags last week. It includes food, snacks and sometimes a small toy. My wife and daughter really enjoy interacting with the kids (and sometimes their parents), but my wife said sometimes it really upsets her to see how some of these kids are living.

This led to her posting on a local FB page asking if anyone knows elderly people or children that need help. We have delivered groceries to around 15 families and even had Rouses or Walmart deliver to families that are further away than what we want to travel. Almost all of the families have been very grateful, and we will not judge why they are in their current predicament, because it doesn’t matter to us really. Some of the families we delivered to even gave us packs of water or other things that they had to help donate even though they obviously didn’t have much as far as material things.

Again, just wanted to post this to encourage anyone that can help out your community to do so. It’s not hard to find the people that need help and there are several ways to do it.
Posted by shawnlsu
Member since Nov 2011
23682 posts
Posted on 4/14/20 at 9:32 am to
That is awesome.
My wife and 6 year old daughter have been sewing masks for the last 4 weeks. Wife is working from home a full 8-10 (TWSS) hours a day, but spends countless hours in front of that sewing machine. So many that I had to remind her for the first time in a while about the secks.
She is a shining example of what I wish this world was. Its not in her DNA to think of herself first, and that's what I love most about her.
ETA: Just made a run to Women's Hospital this morning with her latest shipment of masks that will go to 16 more nurses there.
This post was edited on 4/14/20 at 9:34 am
Posted by TigersSEC2010
Warren, Michigan
Member since Jan 2010
38535 posts
Posted on 4/14/20 at 9:37 am to
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So many that I had to remind her for the first time in a while about the secks


You’re married. We know this is a lie.
Posted by kciDAtaE
Member since Apr 2017
17804 posts
Posted on 4/14/20 at 9:37 am to
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Helping others right now if you are able


I am. I’m staying home.
Posted by TIGRLEE
Northeast Louisiana
Member since Nov 2009
31493 posts
Posted on 4/14/20 at 9:38 am to
American spirit .. can’t beat it.

MSM doesnt like stories like this.
Good for you baw.
Posted by tigerinthebueche
Member since Oct 2010
38241 posts
Posted on 4/14/20 at 9:44 am to
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have been packing brown bag lunches on Fridays and driving around neighborhoods that we know have children that are largely unsupervised and in need of some food and encouragement. It has grown from 25 bags the first week to over 50 bags last week.



thought we had to leave the schools open to feed these kids?

also, you're gonna get sued by these people or carjacked.
Posted by statman34
Member since Feb 2011
3853 posts
Posted on 4/14/20 at 9:45 am to
I think doing this is a great example of actually helping people in need and we need more people like you doing that sort of thing. Too many times celebrities and other people think donating random money to causes is the way to go but after the flood I really saw that doing something directly for a family was way more helpful than sending money to the redcross or things like that. Nice job.
Posted by deaconjones35
Thibodaux
Member since Sep 2009
9901 posts
Posted on 4/14/20 at 9:58 am to
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thought we had to leave the schools open to feed these kids?


I guess most schools are, but a lot of the parents aren't bringing them. Again, not for us to judge.
Posted by JDPndahizzy
JDP
Member since Nov 2013
7031 posts
Posted on 4/14/20 at 10:00 am to
Very thoughtful of you and your family.
Posted by LouisianaLady
Member since Mar 2009
83170 posts
Posted on 4/14/20 at 10:00 am to
The schools are not open. There’s a nonprofit feeding over 30k kids across south Louisiana via mobile trucks every single day. The governor has endorsed and given them money to do this.

I may or may not work for their sister company.

Great thing you’re doing, OP. Namely the focus on the elderly. They need help too and they often don’t have anyone to help.
This post was edited on 4/14/20 at 10:01 am
Posted by In The Know
City of St George, La
Member since Jan 2005
6795 posts
Posted on 4/14/20 at 10:01 am to
Who the hell would downvote this?
Posted by Cold Drink
Member since Mar 2016
3482 posts
Posted on 4/14/20 at 10:04 am to
That's awesome. Serious question because I wouldn't mind following your example: how do you find these neighborhoods/areas? Do you just pack a bunch of lunches in a car and drive around to poorer parts of town and look for people walking around? I'd hate to come across like I'm assuming someone needs charity just because of where they live. Am I overthinking?
Posted by Cold Drink
Member since Mar 2016
3482 posts
Posted on 4/14/20 at 10:07 am to
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Who the hell would downvote this?


When you see just 1 or 2 DVs on these kinds of threads lots of times someone just fat-fingered it on mobile and doesn't know the trick to correct. I've been guilty of that myself

I just assume that's the case rather than thinking it's purposeful by some party pooping troll.
Posted by deaconjones35
Thibodaux
Member since Sep 2009
9901 posts
Posted on 4/14/20 at 10:10 am to
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Do you just pack a bunch of lunches in a car and drive around to poorer parts of town and look for people walking around? I'd hate to come across like I'm assuming someone needs charity just because of where they live. Am I overthinking?


We were very familiar with the neighborhood that we first went into, so that helped us. You need to be careful to make sure you don't put yourself into a dangerous situation if you aren't familiar with the area. My suggestion is ask a local church or find a local FB page and start asking around. Some people aren't comfortable just driving around passing out stuff, so a good alternative is maybe finding a family or two and bringing groceries to them or having them delivered after making contact with them.
Posted by Chef Free Gold Bloom
Wherever I’m needed
Member since Dec 2019
1364 posts
Posted on 4/14/20 at 10:11 am to
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Helping others right now if you are able
i pay taxes and make too much to get the stimulus and am still working because I’m essential.

You’re welcome.
Posted by SlidellCajun
Slidell la
Member since May 2019
16937 posts
Posted on 4/14/20 at 10:16 am to
Thumbs up to you.

The same People That complain about the government giving handouts, are the ones that won’t lift a finger for a person in need.

Many on the left want to turn the government into a giant charity to take away the deductibility for us to give through charity.
This post was edited on 4/14/20 at 10:19 am
Posted by Cold Drink
Member since Mar 2016
3482 posts
Posted on 4/14/20 at 10:19 am to
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make too much to get the stimulus


Every time someone says this I auto assume they vacation at 40A.
Posted by HoustonChick86
Catalina Wine Mixer
Member since Dec 2009
59323 posts
Posted on 4/14/20 at 10:46 am to
That is very nice of your family to help others in need.
Posted by shawnlsu
Member since Nov 2011
23682 posts
Posted on 4/14/20 at 11:31 am to
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Letting your 6 year old make masks and spread her germs is reckless and careless of you as a parent, especially to healthcare workers.

Not if she hasn't been around anyone other than her mother and myself for 4 weeks. Her mother was teaching her one of the most important lesson in life, IMO. We have saved enough to be comfortable through this, and we enjoy helping out where we can. Voluntary charity is one of the most beautiful things in the world.
And why would you come start crap in a thread like this?
Posted by The Sea Otter
AR-Kansas
Member since Mar 2019
583 posts
Posted on 4/14/20 at 11:33 am to
That's awesome!!
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