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re: have you ever loaned money to someone you were dating?
Posted on 5/25/19 at 11:21 am to L1C4
Posted on 5/25/19 at 11:21 am to L1C4
I’ve created payment plans for people that I’ve gone on trips with that didn’t have the cash flow to pay in a single installment. It was never a bad thing and I was happy to make things easier on them.
Generally, these were recent college grads that were making $30-40K.
Generally, these were recent college grads that were making $30-40K.
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Posted on 5/25/19 at 11:21 am to L1C4
Yes. Both ends. If it is true love, it is fine.
If it is the monthly hairstylist or cocktail waitress, hell no.
If it is the monthly hairstylist or cocktail waitress, hell no.
Posted on 5/25/19 at 11:30 am to L1C4
Sometimes I pay the check when BF and I go out to dinner, just to annoy him LOL.
Posted on 5/25/19 at 11:40 am to L1C4
Of course. Lent my ex boyfriend a couple grand when his check was suddenly and unexpectedly garnished by the IRS. He paid it back shortly afterwards. Just look at it as a gift, however. I believe in helping out a partner for a legit reason; not for something frivolous like gambling or beer money.
Posted on 5/25/19 at 11:45 am to TrimTab
Hi TT!
Posted on 5/25/19 at 11:46 am to Diver Diva
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Hi TT!
Hey Diva! How’s Florida weather today? It’s a scorcher down here in New Orleans.
Posted on 5/25/19 at 11:47 am to TrimTab
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Six months or so went by with no mention of it, but I had moved off to work and we split. So I wrote her a letter and asked for it.
I bet her side of the story is more truthful. She dumped you, which hurts your feelings, so you decided to be petty and make a big deal out of a $100. Loser
Posted on 5/25/19 at 12:43 pm to L1C4
unfortunately they are handouts and not loans when dating
Posted on 5/25/19 at 12:44 pm to TrimTab
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unexpectedly garnished
He knew that was coming
Or he is an idiot
Or he had a kid that he didn't know about
Posted on 5/25/19 at 12:50 pm to L1C4
Posted on 5/25/19 at 4:12 pm to TrimTab
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How’s Florida weather today?
It got up to 91° on the mainland. It's beautiful here on the beach, sunny 84°. I spent the afternoon on the beach, just came inside to fix supper.
This post was edited on 5/25/19 at 4:13 pm
Posted on 5/25/19 at 4:59 pm to L1C4
An ex gf asked (jokingly?) to borrow a large sum of money. Broke up a month later. Feels like I dodged a bullet there
Posted on 5/25/19 at 5:47 pm to L1C4
I loaned $100 to a woman who had a great arse.
She never paid me back.
I wish I would have just offered $400 in exchange for sex in a nice hotel room.
She never paid me back.
I wish I would have just offered $400 in exchange for sex in a nice hotel room.
Posted on 5/25/19 at 5:50 pm to The Torch
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still feel bad for even asking her to pay it back
But you don’t feel bad for kicking a dog.
Paws before drawers
Posted on 5/25/19 at 6:27 pm to L1C4
I got a girl pregnant once, and gave her $10,000 to disappear.
Posted on 5/25/19 at 6:37 pm to L1C4
Never someone I was dating as a loan. Like said by others, it's a gift.
Now, I have loaned money to friends and family in the past and it's about 60-40 on the payback, with 60 being the side that did return my money.
Now, I have loaned money to friends and family in the past and it's about 60-40 on the payback, with 60 being the side that did return my money.
Posted on 5/25/19 at 7:23 pm to L1C4
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have you ever loaned money to someone you were dating?
As a general rule of life I dont lend money to anyone.
If I have money to give I give it unconditionally, and expect to never see it again.
Posted on 5/25/19 at 8:02 pm to L1C4
If you are dating as in just met and started talking, that's a weird situation.
If in a relationship...that's you girl if she needs your help you find a way to help. Or another guy will happily step in and do it for you. Capitalism bro. Deal with it.
If in a relationship...that's you girl if she needs your help you find a way to help. Or another guy will happily step in and do it for you. Capitalism bro. Deal with it.
Posted on 5/25/19 at 8:26 pm to The Torch
Loaned 5K to a girl I wanted to bang. Never hit it and she did pay it back.
Posted on 5/25/19 at 8:27 pm to Popths
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Loaned 5K to a girl I wanted to bang. Never hit it and she did pay it back.
She did a cost benefit analysis and decided she'd rather pay the money back
This post was edited on 5/25/19 at 8:31 pm
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