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re: Have women bitten off more than they can chew w/(family courts/marriage/divorce)
Posted on 1/27/23 at 8:05 am to Hobie101
Posted on 1/27/23 at 8:05 am to Hobie101
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Sorry it didn't work out for you.
You have found a good place with like minded people to blame your problems on others.
You chose to get married.
Oh I've never been divorced.
No, I gave up dating women my age and married a much younger woman.
My last girlfriend finally found a new man to raise the 4 children she had by 3 different fathers. She was supermodel hot, but not worth losing my own identity.
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Posted on 1/27/23 at 8:07 am to theunknownknight
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That’s what women don’t understand - men get, overall more attractive as they age, so they are going to want a women their age at 35 when they can easily find a more suitable 27 year old…leaving the 35 year old former tattooed up whores drinking wine wondering where all the “good men” are.
The ones who take care of themselves do, but these men are already in the top 10%. I see a lot more fat tubs of lard dressed like they're in middle school out and about than slim, fit, successful men in their mid 30s who are having issues picking up women.
I think this just boils down to different experiences.
Posted on 1/27/23 at 8:11 am to theunknownknight
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If you believe a 35 year old bachelor, especially one that has a career, is screwed, you are in for a world of hurt. That’s a man in his “dating prime”. 20-27 year olds throw themselves at these guys for money and stability
100% true. Men hit peak years for what women consider "valuable" later in life.
It is true men must become while women are.
I know some men care about what a woman makes (I still think its a minority), but I never have and never will.
The qualities of a good woman to me has zero to do with the school she went to or the job she has.
I know when men and women are young looks are a big factor, but as women age we all know that changes. It never really changes for men. Men dont "settle" for a woman because she has a good job.
This post was edited on 1/27/23 at 8:12 am
Posted on 1/27/23 at 8:11 am to Odysseus32
quote:now do women instead of men
I see a lot more fat tubs of lard dressed like they're in middle school out and about than slim, fit, successful men in their mid 30s who are having issues picking up women.
Why aren’t the female equivalents pairing with these fat, slovenly males?
Posted on 1/27/23 at 8:12 am to Odysseus32
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I see a lot more fat tubs of lard dressed like they're in middle school out and about than slim, fit, successful men in their mid 30s who are having issues picking up women.
There are plenty of non-fat guys dressed fine who are successful and have been removed from the dating pool almost entirely...at least until they're old enough to date post-wall women who have resigned to settling.
Dating apps have all sorts of data relating to this. Outside of the top 10-20% of looks, men barely get any attention.
Posted on 1/27/23 at 8:12 am to Odysseus32
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The ones who take care of themselves do, but these men are already in the top 10%. I see a lot more fat tubs of lard dressed like they're in middle school out and about than slim, fit, successful men in their mid 30s who are having issues picking up women.
I think this just boils down to different experiences.
I disagree. You dont see chubby men calming it is a new "shape" and asking for acceptance.
These chicks these days think being overweigh is trendy.
The reality is they are just fatties. Just like the men you are talking about only delusional.
This post was edited on 1/27/23 at 8:13 am
Posted on 1/27/23 at 8:13 am to kingbob
Yall need to quit chasing girls and find a good woman
Posted on 1/27/23 at 8:14 am to GreatLakesTiger24
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now do women instead of men
Why aren’t the female equivalents pairing with these fat, slovenly males?
Yes. Obesity and undesirable traits aren't just sprinkled among the male population.
This disconnect in potential partners of similar status is the primary issue.
Posted on 1/27/23 at 8:14 am to wadewilson
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Nice job taking those quotes out of context.
Lmao add whatever context you would like to square those two quotes
Posted on 1/27/23 at 8:14 am to theunknownknight
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they were in front of them ALL along, they were “just friends” or “not good enough”
I literally had two women in the past 2 months tell me something along the lines that “if this was the 1950’s, you would be the perfect husband and I’d want to marry you, but I don’t want that now.” These women don’t want romantic relationships with stable and emotional supportive providers. They want sex from broke, f$&k boi chads. They all are broken by so much trauma that anything smacking of stability terrifies them. They get games because they WANT games. They don’t want to be pursued, but to pursue. They’d rather try and make a toxic serial abuser care than be cared for.
This post was edited on 1/27/23 at 8:17 am
Posted on 1/27/23 at 8:15 am to Odysseus32
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The ones who take care of themselves do, but these men are already in the top 10%.
What do you mean by “the ones who take care of themselves”?
Because I know a lot guys who have done exactly everything on your list above and beyond and still had to deal with women going after the “slobbier” 6’3 250k guy with mommy/daddy money
The top guys with money and status trump attractiveness to women
And the elite attractive guys trump really attractive guys who are “put together”
That Venn diagram leaves a lot of good men out of the equation
This post was edited on 1/27/23 at 8:16 am
Posted on 1/27/23 at 8:17 am to dyslexiateechur
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Hell, Gwen Stefani is having a baby in her 50’s. Women aren’t nearly as limited as men think we are. Or at least the ones in my circle aren’t.
I can’t think of anything worse than having a baby in my 50s even from the dudes perspective. Has to be miserable for the woman, and quite unfair to the kid having a parent in their 70s when entering college.
Posted on 1/27/23 at 8:18 am to JohnnyKilroy
You're not worth my time.
Posted on 1/27/23 at 8:18 am to GreatLakesTiger24
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Why aren’t the female equivalents pairing with these fat, slovenly males?
I don't see why everyone is missing this. I agree that women need to also take a look at themselves.
But this board is mainly men. You can only take care of yourself. If there are a number of women out there who are delusional, let them be.
Can we not agree that the women who want refined men and men who are "undesirable" both might need to shape up? If that's the scenario, most of us here are men. Maybe we should be explaining to men that all you can do is be the best version of yourself. Blaming women, while maybe it feels good and maybe even you're right, does nothing to solve the problem.
Aren't we trying to solve a problem? Or are we just bitching?
Posted on 1/27/23 at 8:18 am to easyas123
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How is that right? We had our kids early and now they are all grown and gone. We can still travel, enjoy life (while we are still healthy) and enjoying watching our grandkids grow up!
We have no family or friend help. Most people in their 20s do the shuck and strut. Always dropping their kids off and relying on family for babysitting/everything while they still try to go "live".
Our road is much harder but more mature so we can handle it.
This post was edited on 1/27/23 at 8:20 am
Posted on 1/27/23 at 8:18 am to SlowFlowPro
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SlowFlowPro
quote:wait what
It's not just my wife.
Posted on 1/27/23 at 8:19 am to burger bearcat
It’s not only the rigged court system, it’s women themselves. The world is full of self obsessed sluts who think the world revolves around them and their feelings. The supply of “wife material” women is scant.
I can’t blame young men for not wanting to marry them, especially when she can, at any given time, decide she’s “not happy” and take his children, half his worldly possessions and turn his entire world upside down.
And it makes me pity both young men and young women. Most of them will go through life not knowing the joy of building a life and raising a family with their best friend. And they won’t even know what they’ve missed until they’re far too old to do anything about it. They’re doomed to grow old and die alone. That’s a cruel fate I’d not wish on anyone.
I can’t blame young men for not wanting to marry them, especially when she can, at any given time, decide she’s “not happy” and take his children, half his worldly possessions and turn his entire world upside down.
And it makes me pity both young men and young women. Most of them will go through life not knowing the joy of building a life and raising a family with their best friend. And they won’t even know what they’ve missed until they’re far too old to do anything about it. They’re doomed to grow old and die alone. That’s a cruel fate I’d not wish on anyone.
Posted on 1/27/23 at 8:19 am to kingbob
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I literally had two women in the past 2 months tell me something along the lines that “if this was the 1950’s, you would be the perfect husband and I’d want to marry you, but I don’t want that now.” These women don’t want romantic relationships with stable and emotional supportive providers. They want sex from broke, f$&k boi chads. They all are broken by so much trauma that anything smacking of stability terrifies them. They get games because they WANT games. They don’t want to be pursued, but to pursue. They’d rather try and make a toxic serial abuser care than be cared for.
And when they hit the wall, it's nothing but "where are all the good men"?
Posted on 1/27/23 at 8:20 am to SlowFlowPro
quote:on one hand i believe this and it adds up, but honestly i definitely don't consider myself top 10-25% in looks and can get some real play from good looking girls on dating apps, especially hinge. and fwiw, my occupation isn't one that's prestigious/notoriously high paying, and even though i do pretty well (better than most lawyers / other professionals my age) there wouldn't be a way to know that based on an online profile.
Dating apps have all sorts of data relating to this. Outside of the top 10-20% of looks, men barely get any attention.
i have a theory that a lot of guys are a little too down on their own looks and it gets in their head.
This post was edited on 1/27/23 at 8:23 am
Posted on 1/27/23 at 8:20 am to JohnnyKilroy
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