re: Has anyone here successfully convinced a woman to like them?

Only until the post nut clarity kicks in.

Maybe try a few on the FSU Pom Pom squad?

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I find it easier if they're just into you from the start.

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Very much this. I've got too much shite to do to worry about convincing someone to like me, regardless of romantic interest.

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Convince them to like you? Are you serious? You had about 60 seconds where you first met them when you got put in the "could frick," box, or the "he could frick my friends," box

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I had a girl that I was hanging out with almost every day for like two months. We went out a lot, spent our weekends together, partied etc. she was out of my league by a long shot. One night I decided it was going to progress or I was cutting her off. I told her as much. I hit that night.

Hindsight being what it is, I should have left it alone

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Has anyone here successfully convinced a woman to like them?

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Nope. But I've convinced a multitude of them to dislike me.

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Nothing is more pathetic than a guy that gets friend zoned and still hangs out for months, even years hoping one day he’ll have a chance. It never happens.

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Nothing to do with this specific topic, mostly in general. You are more pathetic.

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Has anyone here successfully convinced a woman to like them?

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No. I'm fat, I look rather rugged. I tend to look slightly wild and unkempt if I'm not in a suit. I'm loud, brash, vulgar, and more than a little self involved. I'm generally an a-hole. I have very little patience. I talk down to anyone who has disappointed me.

But I've always had a way of getting them to wish that I liked them.

Usually because all of those poor qualities are also supplemented by a savior complex for females or kids.

And once I see a woman or child in trouble, I'm equally as kind, patient, and selfless as I am a prick 99% of the time.


It attracts a very particular type of woman.... One who is willing to tolerate someone with a broken set of morals who is nonetheless loyal and honest to a fault.



I think it would have gone over quite a bit better 50 years ago.

Convinced my wife to marry me.

Outkicked my coverage like you wouldn’t believe, still married after 40 years and she looks 20 years younger than a woman in her 60’s and still puts up with me.

Damn I’m good

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a man who is a 9

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You aren't a 9 as a male or you would not be asking this question. A 9 as a male doesn't have to convince a woman of anything, they will just do what that want.

From what I've seen, if a woman selects you for anything other than pure attractiveness, you will be trying to make up for it your entire relationship just to keep her happy. Good luck with that.

Oh and to answer the other part of your question, a 5.5 woman will have an active dating life because some men will chase anything that moves to have a chance at getting laid. But, these days a 5.5 woman will always ultimately select 8, 9, 10 men and aren't settling for anything less.

But the Chad type men they are chasing aren't committing to relationships bc they've realized they don't have to. The dating apps will just send them an endless supply of poon. That's why you see the trends of people staying single, less people getting married, etc.