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re: Has anyone here successfully convinced a woman to like them?
Posted on 9/15/24 at 8:41 am to Saunson69
Posted on 9/15/24 at 8:41 am to Saunson69
Pro tip: Don’t dig too much into women generally or a woman specifically because you may be one of those men who is so underwhelmed at what he finds that he becomes cynical and just begins to see women as broadly interchangeable. Then the last of the Disney that was drilled into you will die and you’ll be one of those men who roams the planet doing things for your own improvement and enjoyment.
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Posted on 9/15/24 at 8:49 am to Lsupimp
I think most people overthink relationships.
Women want to get pregnant and men want to impregnate. Beyond that, it's mostly about making her feel safe and secure. If you can do that, then you're fine.
Women want to get pregnant and men want to impregnate. Beyond that, it's mostly about making her feel safe and secure. If you can do that, then you're fine.
Posted on 9/15/24 at 9:25 am to Saunson69
Girls don’t like boys. Girls like cars and money.
Posted on 9/15/24 at 9:30 am to Lsupimp
Agree with that. Love life and improve yourself. Once you find a woman that does more than a cook, maid, or escort can do then you snatch her up. Otherwise, just outsource those needs
Posted on 9/15/24 at 9:35 am to Saunson69
You can definitely win a woman’s favor but if you pursue this strategy be prepared for a lifetime of doing so. If you choose this route and the sex sucks mark it up as a win then move on
Posted on 9/15/24 at 9:40 am to Saunson69
Sounds like autism.
Posted on 9/15/24 at 9:43 am to Saunson69
Women don’t like men.
They like what men can provide for them.
They like what men can provide for them.
Posted on 9/15/24 at 9:43 am to LouisianaLady
not all women are as accepting of generalized unattractiveness as you are
Posted on 9/15/24 at 9:49 am to Saunson69
The only successful way I've ever had a girl like me who didn't previously was to date a friend of hers and stop pursuing.
I didn't start dating her friend to pursue the girl. I just noticed it happened.
I chased girl A for over a year. Initially there was some chemistry and made out one night but I chased too hard and she backed off to the point where I got friendzoned.
I gave up and moved on. Girl B became single who was good friends with Girl A and we started talking. Very nice very cool girl. We started dating and everything was going great. Then multiple times girl A made passes at me. I rejected her on both occasions.
Then here's the kicker- Girl B and I stop dating, broke up over a stupid fight at a movie theatre. About a week later I'm at a party with Girl A and she couldn't give a frick about me, back to the friend zone.
Women want what they can't have and they don't respect a man that chases too hard.
Best option is to play it cool and if she backs away at all from advances you back away twice as far, become distant and let her know that you wanted her but didn't need her and that she's replaceable.
I didn't start dating her friend to pursue the girl. I just noticed it happened.
I chased girl A for over a year. Initially there was some chemistry and made out one night but I chased too hard and she backed off to the point where I got friendzoned.
I gave up and moved on. Girl B became single who was good friends with Girl A and we started talking. Very nice very cool girl. We started dating and everything was going great. Then multiple times girl A made passes at me. I rejected her on both occasions.
Then here's the kicker- Girl B and I stop dating, broke up over a stupid fight at a movie theatre. About a week later I'm at a party with Girl A and she couldn't give a frick about me, back to the friend zone.
Women want what they can't have and they don't respect a man that chases too hard.
Best option is to play it cool and if she backs away at all from advances you back away twice as far, become distant and let her know that you wanted her but didn't need her and that she's replaceable.
Posted on 9/15/24 at 9:54 am to BabyTac
quote:That shite is pathetic. Seems like every girl I ever dated had one chubby or slightly feminine friend always around and I knew that mfer was just waiting for a chance but like you said- even when the girl is ready to it never happens.
Nothing is more pathetic than a guy that gets friend zoned and still hangs out for months, even years hoping one day he’ll have a chance. It never happens.
I remember trying to get with a girl when I was a sophomore in HS and she was a freshman. She was drunk one night and someone asked her why we didn't hook up and she said I was like "her little brother"
I almost threw up I was so fricking disgusted with myself. I started working out twice a day the next day, that shite was fuel.
Chick ended up getting ran through and I hit one time back home from college but that was a defining moment in my life where I decided I'd literally rather never get pussy than get disrespected to that point.
Posted on 9/15/24 at 9:58 am to Solo Cam
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Has anyone here successfully convinced a woman to HATE them?
This is the thread I will excel in. Someone do that thread. I have so many strategies to share, lol.
Posted on 9/15/24 at 10:01 am to Lsupimp
I was not interested in DW as anything other than a friend but he had other ideas. Alcohol was involved.
Posted on 9/15/24 at 10:03 am to Solo Cam
One thing I've noticed is if a woman says your name a lot in casual conversation, it means she likes you. If she moves closer to you, and is directing her attention to you, then she wants you. As the man, it is the next minute that will determine whether she will become a mate or not.
This is your chance to invite her into your life. If you look her in the eyes and say her name followed by, "you're a beautiful woman. Come with me to, (event, dinner, movie) I'd like to get to know you better" and she declines, then it's okay. You set the tone. She knows that you know that she's attracted to you and now the ball is in her court.
This is your chance to invite her into your life. If you look her in the eyes and say her name followed by, "you're a beautiful woman. Come with me to, (event, dinner, movie) I'd like to get to know you better" and she declines, then it's okay. You set the tone. She knows that you know that she's attracted to you and now the ball is in her court.
This post was edited on 9/15/24 at 10:05 am
Posted on 9/15/24 at 10:14 am to Saunson69
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I have never been able to convince a woman to like me.
Posted on 9/15/24 at 10:26 am to Saunson69
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I wonder who has an easier dating life: a woman that is a 5.5 or a man who is a 9
Know a girl who is... Uh….. less than attractive. Short, overweight, kind of annoying voice… extremely liberal. Being generous and saying a 4.
She regularly pulls lawyers and is currently dating a doctor off of hinge and bumble.
I just don’t fricking get it.
Posted on 9/15/24 at 10:36 am to beerJeep
That’s easy. Women are the sexual gatekeepers. They can let in who they want. Men like sex and aren’t anywhere near as discerning about it. Men are the RELATIONSHIP gatekeepers and control whether that relationship progresses past the sexual. She can screw these guys but she can’t get one to commit. Men will sign up for an evening, but not a lifetime.
Despite what you hear, men tend to become MORE discerning once a relationship has potential. They begin to evaluate her closely after the sex, not before. Thus, men generally struggle to get sex initially and women struggle to find a long term relationship after the sex.
Despite what you hear, men tend to become MORE discerning once a relationship has potential. They begin to evaluate her closely after the sex, not before. Thus, men generally struggle to get sex initially and women struggle to find a long term relationship after the sex.
This post was edited on 9/15/24 at 10:38 am
Posted on 9/15/24 at 10:40 am to Rize
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I tried to hook up with my HR manager 20 years ago and she told me to frick off.
Been married to her since 2008
My wife and I have been together for 21 years. Honestly, if something ever happened to her or our marriage I wouldn't pursue dating ever again. Based on TD, I'm glad that I never had to navigate the modern dating world. It sounds shitty
Posted on 9/15/24 at 10:50 am to fallguy_1978
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I wouldn't pursue dating ever again
More and more men, especially older men just get to the point where they ask themselves if all these girls they are dating actually bring measurable value to their lives. The ones who answer in the affirmative will commit and rewife and the ones who answer no just focus on things and people who do.
My personal highly unscientific theory is that, after a certain age, the vast majority of quality men and women are taken and most singles are just used up retreads looking for their latest FailDrama. People who know how to have successful relationships generally do and vice versa. Difficult people have difficulty.
Also a lot of good people are essentially “ marks” for bad actors- narcissists, abusers, psychopaths, etc. Ask any older single woman about this. There are a lot of toxic human beings running around. I’ve been careful and lucky to avoid this during my single years but I do hear some crazy shite.
Posted on 9/15/24 at 10:58 am to Saunson69
I’m still working on my wife of 24 years.
Posted on 9/15/24 at 11:00 am to Saunson69
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Has anyone here successfully convinced a woman to like them?
Women have always liked me, some have even licked me.
Guess I am just drop dead sexy
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