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re: Guy leaving his wife for the other woman... does it ever work out?

Posted on 12/28/21 at 5:36 pm to
Posted by Zap Rowsdower
MissLou, La
Member since Sep 2010
13243 posts
Posted on 12/28/21 at 5:36 pm to
If she’ll cheat with ya, she’ll cheat on ya.
Posted by Bigfishchoupique
Member since Jul 2017
8352 posts
Posted on 12/28/21 at 5:36 pm to
You make think the grass is greener on the other side of the fence. It is,but the water bill is much higher.
Posted by BuckeyeFan87
Columbus
Member since Dec 2007
25239 posts
Posted on 12/28/21 at 5:43 pm to
Failure rate is high, but it sounds like he already failed his marriage, so
Posted by Hangover Haven
Metry
Member since Oct 2013
26522 posts
Posted on 12/28/21 at 5:45 pm to
I know someone who tried to pull that off...

She turned out to be bat shite crazy, and just used him for everything she needed...

Then she left him... Everyone in his family tried to talk him out of it, but he knew better...

This post was edited on 12/28/21 at 5:49 pm
Posted by billjamin
Houston
Member since Jun 2019
12480 posts
Posted on 12/28/21 at 5:49 pm to
Know a guy who left his wife to be with a high school ex who was supposed to leave her husband. After he pulled the trigger she got cold feet and stayed with the husband, so he’s left out in the cold. He ended up finding a new chick and they seem happy enough for swingers who look like you know most swingers look.
Posted by latxwoman
Member since Mar 2019
749 posts
Posted on 12/28/21 at 5:50 pm to
My Dad left my Mom for my stepmother. They have been married for 48 years. She's crazy, and mean as heck. I think he's scared to leave.
Posted by arcalades
USA
Member since Feb 2014
19276 posts
Posted on 12/28/21 at 6:28 pm to
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Left my wife at the time and 20 years later and 2 kids couldn’t be happier.
yeah, well wait until you stand before Christ. won't be so happy then.
Posted by mattz1122
Member since Oct 2007
52775 posts
Posted on 12/28/21 at 6:29 pm to
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yeah, well wait until you stand before Christ. won't be so happy then.
Posted by mattchewbocca
houma, la
Member since Jun 2008
5370 posts
Posted on 12/28/21 at 6:31 pm to
Friend of mine left his wife for a girl in Australia. As far as I know he’s still very happy.
Posted by lsunurse
Member since Dec 2005
128950 posts
Posted on 12/28/21 at 6:32 pm to
Ask the poster Liz

She is engaged to the guy (who has kids) who cheated on his wife to be with her.
Posted by Ponchy Tiger
Ponchatoula
Member since Aug 2004
45109 posts
Posted on 12/28/21 at 6:33 pm to
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Conventional wisdom is that they don't, but I'm familiar with a guy who had an affair, dumped his first wife and married the sidepiece. He and wife #2 have been married 20+ years and counting.


From what I have seen the times when it does work out like this. The wife was the one that ruined the marriage, of course it never looks like it at time because the wife plays the jilted wife card. But over time ppl figure out the wife was coo coo for coco puffs.
Posted by 4cubbies
Member since Sep 2008
50076 posts
Posted on 12/28/21 at 6:37 pm to
Wait, you we’re married to your first wife for 17 years then married someone else, had two kids and have been married for 20 years? How old are you? 70?
Posted by OldmanBeasley
Charlotte
Member since Jun 2014
9691 posts
Posted on 12/28/21 at 6:41 pm to
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She is engaged to the guy (who has kids) who cheated on his wife to be with her.

She must be quite a gal
Posted by DesScorp
Alabama
Member since Sep 2017
6484 posts
Posted on 12/28/21 at 6:50 pm to
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Do these work out? I would think the failure rate is pretty high.


If you're rich enough, it always works out for the guy, because there's always a new model waiting.
Posted by 4cubbies
Member since Sep 2008
50076 posts
Posted on 12/28/21 at 6:51 pm to
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mattz1122


Hey!! Hope all is well for you, bud.
Posted by DesScorp
Alabama
Member since Sep 2017
6484 posts
Posted on 12/28/21 at 6:51 pm to
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Conventional wisdom is that they don't, but I'm familiar with a guy who had an affair, dumped his first wife and married the sidepiece. He and wife #2 have been married 20+ years and counting.


This is basically Tom Hanks' whole marital history. He and Rita Wilson were cheating on their spouses.

Edit: Add Bruce Springsteen and Patty Scialfa, and Steven Spielberg and Kate Capshaw. Same thing. All were cheating on their respective spouses, all married, all still together.
This post was edited on 12/28/21 at 6:54 pm
Posted by GreenRockTiger
vortex to the whirlpool of despair
Member since Jun 2020
41390 posts
Posted on 12/28/21 at 6:56 pm to
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homewrecking tart

If this is her personality - then she’s not going to settle down with anyone
Posted by fr33manator
Baton Rouge
Member since Oct 2010
124081 posts
Posted on 12/28/21 at 6:57 pm to
While it hurts at first, usually the partner that gets left ends up better off for it in the long run.

Their cheating partner is just the one they ended up with. If it wasn’t them it would be someone else. They’ll paint this horrible picture (which is rarely the whole truth) to justify it.

But in the end, it’s the jilted partner that’s free of a cheating spouse and gets a chance at freedom and happiness again
Posted by t00f
Not where you think I am
Member since Jul 2016
89788 posts
Posted on 12/28/21 at 6:58 pm to
Did she get the clit test in the lab?
Posted by DesScorp
Alabama
Member since Sep 2017
6484 posts
Posted on 12/28/21 at 7:01 pm to
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If she’ll cheat with ya, she’ll cheat on ya.


Depends. If she's looking for an upgrade in status (see: Hypergamy) and you're at the top of your respective tree, you basically win the game.

You don't see Capshaw, for instance, cheating on Spielberg. Because he's Steven-Fakakta*-Spielberg.

As mentioned before, the more likely danger is that he'll trade YOU in for a newer model. Because female beauty fades, but wealth and status don't. It's a man's world.

*That's Yiddish for "fricking" for you uncultured goyim.
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