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re: Going on a date with a divorced chick (UPDATE page 37)
Posted on 4/12/21 at 12:10 pm to tigerpimpbot
Posted on 4/12/21 at 12:10 pm to tigerpimpbot
Her EX had this right. When he would shut therapy down and blame it all on her, without remorse, he had been beaten into submission by this chick. He probably had the same initial impression as the OP, but kept getting burned till he was like F’ck it; I’m out...Yep, the History is there, the recent actions are there, to prove the past....run!!!
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Posted on 4/12/21 at 12:13 pm to VolsOut4Harambe
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I catch her grinding with and making out with another guy. I get angry as hell and yell at her at the bar, right in front of everyone. She is so drunk that she can barely stand up. The bar announces last call and kicks everyone out, and her friends leave, so I am stuck with her.
This is where you went wrong, son...
Posted on 4/12/21 at 12:14 pm to VolsOut4Harambe
quote:You cannot be this stupid.
Can anyone chime in?
Posted on 4/12/21 at 12:15 pm to VolsOut4Harambe
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I catch her grinding with and making out with another guy. I get angry as hell and yell at her at the bar, right in front of everyone
Mistake one. You should have spun around and left.
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She left her phone in the Uber - so at 4:30am I had to drive all the way down to Bankhead to fetch her phone from some random arse traphouse
Why did you have to do this???
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Am I making the right decision here?
No, but frankly I believe that you are beyond help
Posted on 4/12/21 at 12:15 pm to I Bleed Garnet
quote:She caught him looking at porn or staring at a milf in Target. OP is in trouble and doesn't know it.
Emotionally cheated?
Posted on 4/12/21 at 12:17 pm to VolsOut4Harambe
You’re going to have to tell her that the situation is bothering you and you’re experiencing different emotions than when you entered into an “exclusive” relationship. All of which are consequences of her decisions and actions. You hoped for the best, but the reality is quite different now. Respect yourself enough to not lower your standards. You’re probably a good guy considering you were willing to move on- but by doing that, you’re treating yourself like sh*t.
Posted on 4/12/21 at 12:17 pm to VolsOut4Harambe
Congrats on the sex, but you need to move on. There is no happy ending here, unless you’re a stranger and this chicks half drunk.
Posted on 4/12/21 at 12:18 pm to VolsOut4Harambe
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At the beginning, I was livid with her and was 95% sure that I was going to break up with her, but I gradually experienced a change of heart. She seems very sincere in her apologies and assurances that she is never ever going to put herself in that situation again. I have chosen to forgive her for this one incident and move forward.
I truly wish you luck with her. If the connection the two of you have is real, then do whatever you feel most comfortable with.
That being said, you aren't 100% sure or you wouldn't be asking us here. It's probably started already, but every time you see her texting and smiling on her phone when she's with you, you'll get that little twinge in your head that will leave you wondering what if that's another guy. Regardless of how much you forgive, or try to move forward, that feeling will never go away. You may learn to live with it, but it'll still be there.
Then one day you'll give into the feeling and ask her who she's talking to. If she's cheating, you will feel like shite, and feel like you wasted whatever time you committed to the relationship. If she's not cheating, then you just drove a gigantic wedge between the two of you. She would know you don't trust her, and y'all will end up split anyway.
Posted on 4/12/21 at 12:19 pm to VolsOut4Harambe
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On Saturday, she went to a wedding, for which she did not get a +1, so I didn't go with her. She invited me to meet her and some of the other wedding goers out at the bar afterwards. I show up at the bar, and I catch her grinding with and making out with another guy
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She assured me that she's not a cheater, that she cares immensely about me, and that it makes her absolutely sick to know that she hurt me.
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Run and run fast my boy. But before you do, go out with her and some of her skank arse friends and get a threesome going. If she says no then guilt her into it because of what she did. Skank arse friend will for sure be down. Do your thang with psycho and skank arse friend then call her dirty lesbo cheater and leave and tell her its over.
Posted on 4/12/21 at 12:22 pm to VolsOut4Harambe
You’re an idiot. No, you’re not making the right choice.
Posted on 4/12/21 at 12:22 pm to J_Hingle
Run away, my friend. Run far away. She's going to do it again (or worse)...it's just a matter of time, I guarantee it.
Posted on 4/12/21 at 12:22 pm to Jake88
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She caught him looking at porn or staring at a milf in Target. OP is in trouble and doesn't know it.
My poor baw
Vols is my favorite poster here, hope he gets through this. Will pray for him
Posted on 4/12/21 at 12:23 pm to mule74
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Mistake one. You should have spun around and left.
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She left her phone in the Uber - so at 4:30am I had to drive all the way down to Bankhead to fetch her phone from some random arse traphouse
Why did you have to do this???
quote:
Am I making the right decision here?
No, but frankly I believe that you are beyond help
I regret I have only one upvote to give.
Posted on 4/12/21 at 12:24 pm to VolsOut4Harambe
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VolsOut4Harambe
If you stay with this chick, you're an idiot and probably deserve the shitstorm that's coming.
Posted on 4/12/21 at 12:25 pm to VolsOut4Harambe
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So I find myself in a rather interesting situation....
Nothing interesting about it. Of this story, there are literally zero redeeming points. None. It's not like there is an upside here.
GET. THE F***. OUT.
And sure as heck use a domer if you backslide, you do not want a kid with this one.
Posted on 4/12/21 at 12:26 pm to Saint Alfonzo
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If you stay with this chick, you're an idiot and probably deserve the shitstorm that's coming.
Agreed baw.
Doesn’t matter how fine she is. Even Travis Kelce’s gf fine
You GTFO... NOW
Posted on 4/12/21 at 12:28 pm to shspanthers
She probably gave some guy head while OP was out looking for her phone.
Posted on 4/12/21 at 12:28 pm to VolsOut4Harambe
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Can anyone chime in?
Don’t be a cuck and don’t date emotionally damaged women. Or trust everything she says regarding her sex.
She’ll get drunk again and have toilet sex next with some dude at a bar.
Posted on 4/12/21 at 12:32 pm to VolsOut4Harambe
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She assured me that she's not a cheater, that she cares immensely about me
Her actions would indicate otherwise on both counts.
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I think this one incident is a result of a lapse of judgement and care that stems from these issues. Starting a relationship with a new man in her life scares her to death, and I think she folded to the temptation/lack of concern, with the alcohol as an obvious aid to that notion. This is why I think I am going to let this incident slide. I like her way too much, and vice versa, for me to simply give up here.
Much like training a puppy, if you reward bad behavior and the bad behavior resurfaces then that is on you. Relationships have boundaries that you have to adhere to.
Posted on 4/12/21 at 12:35 pm to Slippy
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She probably gave some guy head while OP was out looking for her phone.
I was wondering myself what happened after he left.
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