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re: Girlfriend is furious that I'm not attending her best friends gender reveal tomorrow.

Posted on 7/15/22 at 7:13 pm to
Posted by Pandy Fackler
Member since Jun 2018
21114 posts
Posted on 7/15/22 at 7:13 pm to
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Why do people think that every little event in their life is a major event in other people's lives?



Because they have too much frickin' time on their hands.
Posted by jennBN
Member since Jun 2010
3242 posts
Posted on 7/15/22 at 7:15 pm to
Its not that big of a deal. Calm down, Francis. Go drink free beer, eat free food and make small talk. Your time isn't that valuable. You might even get laid at the end of the night. Quit whining. You are literally complaining about getting to hangout with a girl you have described as beautiful and you like, who wants you around.
This post was edited on 7/15/22 at 7:17 pm
Posted by Hawkeye here
Member since Jul 2022
194 posts
Posted on 7/15/22 at 7:17 pm to
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If you give in and go to this, she’ll consider you a simp. This is a shite test. Don’t fall for it


Exactly.

And I'm not going to make up excuse that I was called into work either.

I told her that I'm not going, and why I'm not going.
If she doesn't understand, I don't really care.

We aren't even engaged.
In my opinion it's better to find out now how she is going to react in these situations than after I sign a marriage contract.
Posted by shel311
McKinney, Texas
Member since Aug 2004
112626 posts
Posted on 7/15/22 at 7:18 pm to
quote:

Girlfriend is furious that I'm not attending her best friends gender reveal tomorrow
That is what is referred to as a huge red flag.

No chance there aren't a shite ton of other stupid reasons she gets "furious" with you.

In other words, RUN!!!
Posted by jennBN
Member since Jun 2010
3242 posts
Posted on 7/15/22 at 7:18 pm to
quote:

Exactly. Exactly.

And I'm not going to make up excuse that I was called into work either.

I told her that I'm not going, and why I'm not going.
If she doesn't understand, I don't really care.

We aren't even engaged.
In my opinion it's better to find out now how she is going to react in these situations than after I sign a marriage contract.

And I'm not going to make up excuse that I was called into work either.

I told her that I'm not going, and why I'm not going.
If she doesn't understand, I don't really care.

We aren't even engaged.
In my opinion it's better to find out now how she is going to react in these situations than after I sign a marriage contract.


You must be quite the catch.
Posted by pankReb
Defending National Champs Fan
Member since Mar 2009
71769 posts
Posted on 7/15/22 at 7:18 pm to
quote:


In my opinion it's better to find out now how she is going to react in these situations than after I sign a marriage contract.


i mean......this kinda goes both ways
Posted by junkfunky
Member since Jan 2011
35786 posts
Posted on 7/15/22 at 7:18 pm to
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Both are cornfed and hot.


They sweat profusely?
Posted by Hawkeye here
Member since Jul 2022
194 posts
Posted on 7/15/22 at 7:19 pm to
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I work 50/60 hours a week and am on call 24/7


You need a better job.


It's a great job, just demanding and long hours.
Posted by Lakeboy7
New Orleans
Member since Jul 2011
28303 posts
Posted on 7/15/22 at 7:20 pm to
quote:

I told her that I'm not going, and why I'm not going.


Solidarity brother! But on day 27 of no pussy you wont be nearly as strong.
Posted by pankReb
Defending National Champs Fan
Member since Mar 2009
71769 posts
Posted on 7/15/22 at 7:20 pm to
quote:


That is what is referred to as a huge red flag.

No chance there aren't a shite ton of other stupid reasons she gets "furious" with you.

In other words, RUN!!!


y'all think maybe she's "furious" because she wants to show her BF off to and brag to her friends?


also....we need to circle back to my pineapple question. If she's got more than 2 in her place then go.
This post was edited on 7/15/22 at 7:21 pm
Posted by Fat and Happy
Baton Rouge
Member since Jan 2013
19513 posts
Posted on 7/15/22 at 7:22 pm to
There is a time where you have to just say no

I have no idea why guys are so scared to do this
Posted by Frank Black
the dawn of the new millenium
Member since Mar 2004
5326 posts
Posted on 7/15/22 at 7:22 pm to
How are they going to reveal the gender? Are they biologists?
Posted by Hawkeye here
Member since Jul 2022
194 posts
Posted on 7/15/22 at 7:23 pm to
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y'all think maybe she's "furious" because she wants to show her BF off to and brag to her friends?


also....we need to circle back to my pineapple question. If she's got more than 2 in her place then go.


Most of the girls that will be there have already met me, so I doubt that's it.
I'm guessing that since this is "baby stuff" and "couple stuff" that she doesn't want to be there solo.

I don't know about the pineapple stuff.
I don't even know what that means.
Posted by kingbob
Sorrento, LA
Member since Nov 2010
69335 posts
Posted on 7/15/22 at 7:27 pm to
quote:

There is a time where you have to just say no


I don’t think that time is this situation. Gender-reveal parties are usually really laid back and fun. It’s just an excuse for a party, the wife gets to decorate, and for the guy to blow something up.

Coed bridal/baby showers are that time to say no.
Posted by ForeverGator
Elite 8 - 2020 Worst SECRant Poster
Member since Nov 2012
13887 posts
Posted on 7/15/22 at 7:27 pm to
Grow a pair and go. Just make sure to make it conditional to a sexual favor. Gotta work on your game bro.
Posted by Horsemeat
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Member since Dec 2014
15233 posts
Posted on 7/15/22 at 7:28 pm to
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Why do people think that every little event in their life is a major event in other people's lives?
Social media has turned a major percentage of our population into total narcissists.
Posted by Hawkeye here
Member since Jul 2022
194 posts
Posted on 7/15/22 at 7:28 pm to
quote:

There is a time where you have to just say no

I have no idea why guys are so scared to do this


Agree.

If my friends were having a party for Iowa vs Nebraska I wouldn't get mad if she didn't want to go because she worked 60 hours that week and was exhausted and needed to get things done.

The world doesn't revolve around me.

I wouldn't be whining that all of my friends are going to have their girlfriends there.
Posted by 3deadtrolls
lafayette
Member since Jan 2014
6720 posts
Posted on 7/15/22 at 7:33 pm to
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Girlfriend is furious that I'm not attending her best friends gender reveal Instagram posttomorrow


FTFY
Posted by ThatMakesSense
Fort Lauderdale
Member since Aug 2015
15281 posts
Posted on 7/15/22 at 7:33 pm to
You should have just faked the bubble guts morning of.
Posted by Hawkeye here
Member since Jul 2022
194 posts
Posted on 7/15/22 at 7:35 pm to
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You should have just faked the bubble guts morning of.


I'm honest.

I'm not going to set a precedent of making excuses to appease her.

I'm also not going set a precedent of backing down and making her think that she can bully me into getting her way.

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