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re: Girl stopped responding to texts....

Posted on 3/31/16 at 10:33 pm to
Posted by Mr. Hangover
New Orleans
Member since Sep 2003
34932 posts
Posted on 3/31/16 at 10:33 pm to
From the sound of it you sound like you should be more worried about what your parents are going to think about your report card this semester. I know middle school can be rough, cheer up kid
Posted by BilJ
Member since Sep 2003
163111 posts
Posted on 3/31/16 at 10:33 pm to
the send me an email sounds more like she rekindled with the ex she was using this cat to make jealous
Posted by Havoc
Member since Nov 2015
39565 posts
Posted on 3/31/16 at 10:34 pm to
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Young padawan.... read this:


Preach brotha.
Posted by Swagga
504
Member since Dec 2009
19413 posts
Posted on 3/31/16 at 10:37 pm to
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My god. Some of these responses are priceless. It's retrospective like I said. I'm over her. Just wanted to see what the alpha male OT response is to this phenomenon


Despite all the alphas in here I can assure you most in this thread have experienced a similar situation at some point. Take all the advice given and ignore her. You'll understand when you're older and smashing some other chick as a girl is blowing up your phone.
Posted by Tactical1
Denham Springs
Member since May 2010
27179 posts
Posted on 3/31/16 at 10:39 pm to
She is fricking someone else, move on.
Posted by NIH
Member since Aug 2008
124949 posts
Posted on 3/31/16 at 10:41 pm to
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the send me an email sounds more like she rekindled with the ex she was using this cat to make jealous



yeah, can't have this dude texting her while her BF is in bed next to her.
Posted by TJGator1215
FL/TN
Member since Sep 2011
14174 posts
Posted on 3/31/16 at 10:41 pm to
She found a better deal. Move on. She may text outta the blue in a few months. Ignore her. You should be not a backup plan.
Posted by Hangit
The Green Swamp
Member since Aug 2014
47713 posts
Posted on 3/31/16 at 10:48 pm to
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She may text outta the blue in a few months.


No. No She won't. She has filed him away under "Dudes that were too timid to make a move."

He just needs to run through some quantity for a while and find the quality later.
Posted by lsuwontonwrap
Member since Aug 2012
34147 posts
Posted on 3/31/16 at 10:49 pm to
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If anything, it's made me more cynical.


You weren't even in a relationship and you got ghosted. Oh boo hoo. Get over it. We've all been there.
Posted by BoomerJam
Lumpkin Street
Member since Sep 2010
1102 posts
Posted on 3/31/16 at 11:00 pm to
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Just wanted to see what the alpha male OT response is to this phenomenon.


I think the response is that you're a beta.



With that said, go out and have fun and don't worry about this chick in all seriousness.If you really cared about her, which is unlikely given you dated for a month, do what you can to get your mind off it. It won't take as long as you think. If she ever hits you back or wants to talk, ignore her or just use her and never talk to her again.
This post was edited on 3/31/16 at 11:01 pm
Posted by Beetlejuice
Member since Apr 2013
578 posts
Posted on 3/31/16 at 11:03 pm to
Move on.

The 20 year older you will be thankful that you did.

She's not that in to you.
Posted by CelticDog
Member since Apr 2015
42867 posts
Posted on 3/31/16 at 11:08 pm to
move on.

Posted by razorbackfan4life
Northwest Arkansas
Member since Apr 2011
9562 posts
Posted on 3/31/16 at 11:11 pm to
She either used you or just isn't into you. She's a whore. Time to move on.
Posted by DrSteveBrule
Baton Rouge
Member since Sep 2009
12546 posts
Posted on 3/31/16 at 11:13 pm to
I've dealt with a few hot/cold chicks throughout my life and it's gotten easy to get over them now. Just realize it's not you, it's their indecisive arse.

That said, if you start texting and blowing them up, you ruin your chances forever. Just block them from your mind by getting a job or a hobby.
Posted by CelticDog
Member since Apr 2015
42867 posts
Posted on 3/31/16 at 11:14 pm to
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She answered. Said to email her. No response to the email.


Christ man. Yes, move the fuck along.

Put your attention on someone else.

Go out with friends. Stay sober. Get in shape. prepare for the next big thing.

She is done with you.
Hit a pillow, and then stop talking about her to your friends or us.
Posted by Havoc
Member since Nov 2015
39565 posts
Posted on 3/31/16 at 11:14 pm to
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Actually had a crazy ex try to fake a pregnancy. Saw her in a grocery store a few months back, she tried telling me she basically had ovarian cysts and this is why she lost it, etc. Still not buying it.

Uh actually I believe that's true, as far as a cyst causing missed periods which is then interpreted as pregnancy until tests are run.

Had a young romance end quite abruptly when that happened and the girl had to tell her parents that we'd been active through the course of finding out what was/wasn't the problem.
Posted by SabiDojo
Open to any suggestions.
Member since Nov 2010
84835 posts
Posted on 3/31/16 at 11:17 pm to
You need to start hitting the gym, breh. Get ripped. Then carry an extra shirt with you everywhere you go. If you see her, change shirts. I don't care where you are, just do it. Once she sees those washboard abs she'll be so obvious even strangers could tell she's thirsty. Then, laugh at her and tell her to get lost once she tries to talk to you.
Posted by fr33manator
Baton Rouge
Member since Oct 2010
135033 posts
Posted on 3/31/16 at 11:18 pm to
frick her mom
Posted by Havoc
Member since Nov 2015
39565 posts
Posted on 3/31/16 at 11:18 pm to
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At a minimum they want to be wanted. Here is a good rule of thumb. Make them turn it down instead of never offering it. If she has been in a car with you for two weeks she is beyond interested. This girl did not dump you. She gave up on you. Go find another one. Let her know you want her. Actions speak louder than words.

That's pretty insightful, although she may have started off with him as "borderline" and it just went downhill from there.
Posted by Havoc
Member since Nov 2015
39565 posts
Posted on 3/31/16 at 11:21 pm to
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Despite all the alphas in here I can assure you most in this thread have experienced a similar situation at some point. Take all the advice given and ignore her. You'll understand when you're older and smashing some other chick as a girl is blowing up your phone.

I've known many otherwise high level Alphas who just lost it on a certain chick for some reason, maybe the chick herself or something else they had going on.
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