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re: Funerals - is wearing jeans and unbuttoned Polo shirts trashy?
Posted on 7/10/17 at 3:11 pm to HubbaBubba
Posted on 7/10/17 at 3:11 pm to HubbaBubba
I like the young ladies' attire. Most, if not all prior to 40 don't own a dark, modest dress. We get the cocktail dress and the FM shoes. 
Posted on 7/10/17 at 3:12 pm to HubbaBubba
At a minimum.... slacks, button down shirt, and a tie or a coat. In the winter I'll wear a suit. In the summer I usually go open collar dress shirt with a sports coat, especially if I am going to the cemetary. I'm fat and it's hot outside.
But it's a sign of the times. I went to a funeral in Mississippi for my wife's grandmother (no pics of either) and 0 out of 6 pallbearers were wearing a suit. However, a lot of the family was.
But it's a sign of the times. I went to a funeral in Mississippi for my wife's grandmother (no pics of either) and 0 out of 6 pallbearers were wearing a suit. However, a lot of the family was.
Posted on 7/10/17 at 3:12 pm to HubbaBubba
Maybe that's all they had
At least your cousins didn't get stoned at their dads funeral, inside the car that my mom gave them.
Or my other cousin that almost collapsed while all us male grandchildren were pallbearers for my grandpa
At least your cousins didn't get stoned at their dads funeral, inside the car that my mom gave them.
Or my other cousin that almost collapsed while all us male grandchildren were pallbearers for my grandpa
Posted on 7/10/17 at 3:14 pm to lsucoonass
quote:Jesus! That's sad.
At least your cousins didn't get stoned at their dads funeral, inside the car that my mom gave them.
Posted on 7/10/17 at 3:15 pm to c on z
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New York Yankees Fan
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I don't see the big deal honestly.
I'm not shocked
Posted on 7/10/17 at 3:15 pm to LSUFanHouston
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But it's a sign of the times.
It is, and it is rather strange. In the past, things seemed much more democratic (but not in a bad way), in that even people of limited means took pride in dressing nicer (e.g., a suit for men). Now, it seems as if that same group takes pride in dressing as slovenly as possible in some sort of feigned insult to people of more substantial means.
Posted on 7/10/17 at 3:16 pm to lsucoonass
For my dad's funeral (during the end of deer season) many of the guys from the hunting camp still had on their camo.
My dad wouldn't have had it any other way.
It's all on what you think the deceased would want
My dad wouldn't have had it any other way.
It's all on what you think the deceased would want
Posted on 7/10/17 at 3:17 pm to HubbaBubba
I usually wear dress shorts at least
Posted on 7/10/17 at 3:17 pm to lsucoonass
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Maybe that's all they had
Possible.
In the example I stated, most of the pallbearers were grandsons, almost all of which have plant/oilfield jobs.
I'm sure they could afford a $200 suit from Suitmax.
Posted on 7/10/17 at 3:19 pm to lsucoonass
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It's all on what you think the deceased would want
Posted on 7/10/17 at 3:24 pm to LSUFanHouston
quote:K&G would have been an even better option for oilfield baws...
I'm sure they could afford a $200 suit from Suitmax.
Posted on 7/10/17 at 3:27 pm to HubbaBubba
I came to a total change of mind when I worked in Houston and the husband of a co-worker died suddenly. At the funeral I was shocked that none of his seven children (five sons) were wearing suits.
Then I became ashamed of myself for putting what they were wearing ahead of the tragedy of losing their Father, suddenly and none of them through high school. Since then attitude and reverence matter.
Then I became ashamed of myself for putting what they were wearing ahead of the tragedy of losing their Father, suddenly and none of them through high school. Since then attitude and reverence matter.
Posted on 7/10/17 at 3:35 pm to HubbaBubba
Depends on where it's at. Went to one a few years ago in a small town in Mississippi. I was in a suit, but the locals all wore their finest wranglers and shite kickers
This post was edited on 7/10/17 at 3:36 pm
Posted on 7/10/17 at 3:37 pm to HubbaBubba
Yeah
They showed up for my dads ceremony which was after the funeral and didn't smell any drugs on them. But you could tell how severe their drug abuse was by looking at them.
They showed up for my dads ceremony which was after the funeral and didn't smell any drugs on them. But you could tell how severe their drug abuse was by looking at them.
Posted on 7/10/17 at 3:38 pm to HubbaBubba
Haven't seen such dress in BR at 2 funerals I attended this year.
I'd wear a suit or jacket, slacks and dress shirt.
I'd wear a suit or jacket, slacks and dress shirt.
Posted on 7/10/17 at 3:39 pm to HubbaBubba
quote:this is very relevant to the topic
but on paper, he was probably worth $7-8 Million or more.
Posted on 7/10/17 at 3:41 pm to HubbaBubba
Depends. Look at the attire for Gregg Allman's funeral. Would normally say trash, but appropriate given who he was.
If an old rancher who never had a suit himself dies, I don't think it's disrespectful to wear the best of what you have to the funeral.
Funerals are for the living anyways. It's a sign of respect to the family left on earth.
If an old rancher who never had a suit himself dies, I don't think it's disrespectful to wear the best of what you have to the funeral.
Funerals are for the living anyways. It's a sign of respect to the family left on earth.
This post was edited on 7/10/17 at 3:43 pm
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