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Friends and family disappear when go through tough times

Posted on 5/18/19 at 5:38 pm
Posted by Ponchy Tiger
Ponchatoula
Member since Aug 2004
50011 posts
Posted on 5/18/19 at 5:38 pm
Always heard people say this but never knew it was true until now.
Posted by OWLFAN86
Erotic Novelist
Member since Jun 2004
197943 posts
Posted on 5/18/19 at 5:38 pm to
my phone has been acting up,
Posted by X82ndTiger
USA
Member since Sep 2004
2542 posts
Posted on 5/18/19 at 5:40 pm to
Not always true but in general most people are selfish and run in the face of others going through something. Hope everything goes well for you.
Posted by FightingTigers7
Metairie
Member since Jan 2012
1261 posts
Posted on 5/18/19 at 5:40 pm to
hang in there Ponchy
Posted by Bustedsack
Member since Dec 2017
4387 posts
Posted on 5/18/19 at 5:40 pm to
Tell us your story.
Posted by OysterPoBoy
City of St. George
Member since Jul 2013
45507 posts
Posted on 5/18/19 at 5:42 pm to
Maybe they feel like they’d be bothering you.
Posted by redstick13
Lower Saxony
Member since Feb 2007
41364 posts
Posted on 5/18/19 at 5:43 pm to
I found the opposite to be true.
Posted by Jax Teller
Member since Aug 2018
4703 posts
Posted on 5/18/19 at 5:44 pm to
What's wrong? I'm going through a similar situation.
Posted by TigerJeff
the Emerald Coast
Member since Oct 2006
16356 posts
Posted on 5/18/19 at 5:44 pm to
Correct
Posted by Janky
Team Primo
Member since Jun 2011
35957 posts
Posted on 5/18/19 at 5:45 pm to
My brother is going through some bad stuff right now. I sent him a text saying I would not insert myself into the situation unless asked. If asked I will do whatever I can to help. Nothing worse than someone trying come in and play hero.
This post was edited on 5/18/19 at 5:50 pm
Posted by Wolfhound45
Member since Nov 2009
127594 posts
Posted on 5/18/19 at 5:45 pm to
In
Posted by FightinTigersDammit
Louisiana North
Member since Mar 2006
46425 posts
Posted on 5/18/19 at 5:46 pm to
Nobody loves you when you're down and out.
Posted by Richard Flagget
Member since Mar 2018
394 posts
Posted on 5/18/19 at 5:46 pm to
Just because time are tough doesn’t give you the excuse to start blowing more than the average Sunday landscaper.
Posted by Woodreaux
OC California
Member since Jan 2008
2790 posts
Posted on 5/18/19 at 5:47 pm to
No they don't. Adversity just exposes the pretenders.
Posted by Paul Allen
Montauk, NY
Member since Nov 2007
78655 posts
Posted on 5/18/19 at 5:48 pm to
quote:

I wanted to try and play hero.


That’s utterly selfish and disgusting on your part.
Posted by lsuwontonwrap
Member since Aug 2012
34147 posts
Posted on 5/18/19 at 5:48 pm to
Well, we don't care either so there's that.
Posted by jimbeam
University of LSU
Member since Oct 2011
75703 posts
Posted on 5/18/19 at 5:49 pm to
You find out who your friends are

SOMEBODY’s GONE DROP EVERYTHANGGG
Posted by Janky
Team Primo
Member since Jun 2011
35957 posts
Posted on 5/18/19 at 5:50 pm to
frick off. You know what I was trying to say.
Posted by Paul Allen
Montauk, NY
Member since Nov 2007
78655 posts
Posted on 5/18/19 at 5:51 pm to
Careful how you address me
Posted by LouisianaLady
Member since Mar 2009
83165 posts
Posted on 5/18/19 at 5:54 pm to
I think empathy is hard for a lot of people because most of us forget how badly things hurt when it’s not happening to us. I can’t fault people for it because we all do it.. but it does suck.

Look at people who are widowed. They get calls and cards and so much food at first. But 2-3 months in, they’re back in the empty house hardly hearing from anyone. It’s easy to get angry at their loved ones, but life goes on for all of them. They still have work, the kids still have school, etc.
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