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re: Found out I'm "related" to this girl I started seeing...***Update Page 12
Posted on 1/29/18 at 11:13 am to Commandeaux
Posted on 1/29/18 at 11:13 am to Commandeaux
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Commandeaux
First thread I’ve ever bookmarked, for the updated smashing later and the guilt and confusion that sets in.
Oh and can we please have pics of this broad? It’ll help with that honesty you’re looking for
Posted on 1/29/18 at 11:13 am to Commandeaux
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Short version. I started going out with this girl two weeks ago. Everything is awesome. I really like her. My cousin found out and called me and said that we cant see each other anymore. It turns out that my mother and her grandmother are first cousins.
Are we related?
Yes you are. I think that would make you 3rd Cousins once removed.
Her Mother and your Mother are 2nd Cousins. She and your mom are 3rd Cousins. You'd be once removed. I guess it just depends on the family as to what I'd do. If this is a side of the family you never see and it's not like y'all will be showing up to family events as cousins and lovers then who cares.
Posted on 1/29/18 at 11:14 am to Commandeaux
Bigger question is do the you tell the GF and if you don't, is she freaked out when she eventually finds out you hid it?
Posted on 1/29/18 at 11:15 am to Displaced
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and thought we would be able to relate
..... Nice
Posted on 1/29/18 at 11:15 am to Commandeaux
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I met her in church
Oh those God chicks are the best freaks. Congrats on the future butt play.
This post was edited on 1/29/18 at 11:16 am
Posted on 1/29/18 at 11:15 am to Ed Osteen
Sounds like the beginning of a great porn.
Posted on 1/29/18 at 11:15 am to Displaced
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and thought we would be able to relate .....
Nice
Posted on 1/29/18 at 11:16 am to baldona
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I literally never see that part of my family. I mean how often do even the most redneck coonarse people see their 2nd cousins? He didn't even know this girl was related, doubt 'family' is gonna be weird about it.
I came from a family that is about 2 generations removed from being "rednecks" but our family still has remained pretty geographically close in central Virginia. Before I went to college and moved to Louisiana I saw my 2nd cousins (and their parents aka my moms 1st cousins) multiple times every year. Now I doubt I'll see them much at all for the rest of my life.
Posted on 1/29/18 at 11:16 am to Commandeaux
take her to a nice dinner and then ask her to take a blood test.
Posted on 1/29/18 at 11:16 am to Commandeaux
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All of this is coming from church elders. Hell it may not even be true.
Why even risk it?
Are you able to sleep well at night knowing you only might have banged your cousin?
Posted on 1/29/18 at 11:17 am to Evil Little Thing
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if my child married my first cousin’s child
Whoa there, clingy. We're talking about sex here. No need to even bring mom into this equation, unless he has a very weird relationship with her. And in that case, I feel like this would be a non-issue.
Posted on 1/29/18 at 11:18 am to Commandeaux
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we both had bad divorces
Jesus dude. I thought you were like some 20 year old at ULL or something
Posted on 1/29/18 at 11:18 am to TheHarahanian
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Your children will be "retarded" if you continue.
They will barely have any of the same genetic material. The guy would have 12.5% of the grandparents DNA and the girl would have like 6%. (I think. I may have done math wrong but who cares). So at most they share 6% of the common DNA.
Posted on 1/29/18 at 11:18 am to Commandeaux
The law statute is fairly strict with defining incest. The reasons are obvious when an innocent life can be maimed at conception. But in this case, if one uses well-informed, rational thinking there is simply no reason, legal or moral, that could justify calling the OP's relationship with this girl wrong or weird in any way.
Posted on 1/29/18 at 11:18 am to GRTiger
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Whoa there, clingy. We're talking about sex here. No need to even bring mom into this equation, unless he has a very weird relationship with her. And in that case, I feel like this would be a non-issue.
I was wrong anyway. First cousin’s grandkid. So now it’s not weird.
Posted on 1/29/18 at 11:19 am to Commandeaux
3rd cousins - all is ok
Posted on 1/29/18 at 11:20 am to TurkeysAndBees
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But in this case, if one uses well-informed, rational thinking there is simply no reason, legal or moral, that could justify calling the OP's relationship with this girl wrong or weird in any way.
Unfortunately that's not how the judgement of those around us work in the world. Technically that shouldn't matter but we all know it does.
Posted on 1/29/18 at 11:20 am to Displaced
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Why even risk it?
He can sleep well when he’s dead.
Posted on 1/29/18 at 11:21 am to Commandeaux
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My cousin who told me not to see her is the one that fixed us up
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Why fix us up if youre gonna tell us to stop seeing each other. weird.
Your cousin wanted to see if you were fine with cousin f'in. Now that she knows you are, she is going to make her move
Posted on 1/29/18 at 11:22 am to Commandeaux
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turns out that my mother and her grandmother are first cousins.
Only if it's true maternal...meaning, is her grandmother first cousins thru marriage? The way I see it....wait a minute. How are they first cousins? Is her grandmother parent your mom's uncle or aunt?
Explain the family tree in detail. If my aunt remarried to a guy with a kid, that kid would be my 1st cousin, but on paper only...no genetic relation.
But your mom being 1st cousin with her grandma means their parents were siblings..
But the girl is AT BEST your 4th cousin....plow away
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