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re: For parents with toddlers that kept getting out of bed, help

Posted on 9/25/23 at 9:25 pm to
Posted by gmac8604
Green Bay, WI
Member since Jun 2012
1234 posts
Posted on 9/25/23 at 9:25 pm to
You could try Velcro.
Posted by SouthPlains
Member since Jul 2023
963 posts
Posted on 9/25/23 at 9:28 pm to
My daughter is 1. She’s slept every single night of her life in our bed. She has night terrors. So does my wife.

For the last 13 months, I’ve been the epitome of sleepless rage.

I can’t help you OP, I just wanted to bitch to someone who isn’t a woman because I’m surrounded by these absolutely vile creatures 24/7.
Posted by LCA131
Home of the Fake Sig lines
Member since Feb 2008
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Posted on 9/25/23 at 9:30 pm to
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Our 1.9 year old will sleep in his room pretty much all night.


Metric? Seriously? Don't teach them this. There are 2 types of countries in this world. Those that have put men on the moon and those that use the metric system.

On topic... Let him sleep on the floor for another week or three... Then tell him the doctor may need to see him for a shot if it goes on after that.
Posted by LemmyLives
Texas
Member since Mar 2019
10077 posts
Posted on 9/25/23 at 9:30 pm to
This is what I slept on for years (tatami mats).

Posted by LemmyLives
Texas
Member since Mar 2019
10077 posts
Posted on 9/25/23 at 9:34 pm to
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She has night terrors. So does my wife.


Wonder where your daughter got it from. Beware, she's going to learn plenty from her mom about how to be anxious, OCD, etc., if you don't get mom some sort of therapy. Mom can have her own issues, but it's critical to the health of the child that the negative behaviors not become a model for your child.

Since you're not getting laid at night, and you're likely going to work, just start sleeping in a different room.
Posted by Frac the world
The Centennial State
Member since Oct 2014
19308 posts
Posted on 9/25/23 at 9:34 pm to
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You care too much. Put down some pillows and blankets and let him make a pallet in his bedroom. My rule is… if they ain’t screaming but they breathing, they good


That’s what I’m gonna start I think. He’s fine, he’ll eventually learn to get back in his bed. Just hard with the first, because you do love the fact he wants to be near you but gotta draw some boundary lines for the future.
Posted by STEVED00
Member since May 2007
22811 posts
Posted on 9/25/23 at 9:36 pm to
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Our 3 year old comes into our room every night between 2:00-4:00 and gets in our bed. It honestly doesn’t bother me at all. I know it won’t last forever and I cherish that the little guy wants to be near his mom and dad.


This.
Posted by LCA131
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Posted on 9/25/23 at 9:37 pm to
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Just hard with the first, because you do love the fact he wants to be near you but gotta draw some boundary lines for the future.



The future is now. I understand the sentiment, but the quicker the unwanted behavior is addressed, the easier it is to stop it.
Posted by The Levee
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Member since Feb 2006
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Posted on 9/25/23 at 9:38 pm to
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Posted by Eighteen
Member since Dec 2006
36419 posts
Posted on 9/25/23 at 9:40 pm to
Ours did the same thing. Age 2 we moved her to a bed because she started climbing out of crib.

Every night she would move all her bedding to the ground by door and would sleep which was fine. Slept all night like normal.

Then our friend gave us one of these toddler bed rails and she loved it and never got out of bed again. I think they need the security of being “in bed”



She used that until she moved into a bunk bed which also had a slight rail on it.
This post was edited on 9/25/23 at 9:42 pm
Posted by tgrbaitn08
Member since Dec 2007
148031 posts
Posted on 9/25/23 at 9:41 pm to
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OWLFAN86i slept on the floor all through HS beds were too soft


You slept on dirt floors.

You didn’t have beds in Mexico
Posted by jcaz
Laffy
Member since Aug 2014
17647 posts
Posted on 9/25/23 at 9:44 pm to
I thought I was gonna be clingy with my girl but after being exhausted for the first 4 months of her life I finally adopted an attitude that makes me the totalitarian dad at my bedtime lol
Posted by OWLFAN86
Erotic Novelist
Member since Jun 2004
188762 posts
Posted on 9/25/23 at 9:47 pm to
yes from the slums of Montery to the OT Teir 1


Im regressing
Posted by BobABooey
Parts Unknown
Member since Oct 2004
15438 posts
Posted on 9/25/23 at 9:48 pm to
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But I had zero tolerance with mine.

Yes, Mommie Dearest.
Posted by Monahans
Member since Sep 2019
1732 posts
Posted on 9/25/23 at 9:48 pm to
bang his mom
Posted by HouseMom
Member since Jun 2020
1387 posts
Posted on 9/25/23 at 9:55 pm to
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The little baw will not stay in there, been almost two weeks. Bedtime now takes about an hour and a half because he keeps getting out. If we lock the door, he will lay down on the floor by his door and sleep like a dog.


I'm sure this will sound harsh, but I promise he will be okay if he sleeps on the floor. He has a comfy bed near him that he is choosing not to sleep in.

If you don't like this method, sit outside of his bedroom at bedtime. The SECOND he walks out of his room, pick him up (without any talking whatsoever), and put him back in his bed. Rinse, repeat. It may take a few days, but he will get the point.

You have to establish dominance and "out will" a toddler. Trust me on this. Establishing bedtime routines will save your sanity.
Posted by slackster
Houston
Member since Mar 2009
89580 posts
Posted on 9/25/23 at 9:59 pm to
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Our 3 year old comes into our room every night between 2:00-4:00 and gets in our bed. It honestly doesn’t bother me at all. I know it won’t last forever and I cherish that the little guy wants to be near his mom and dad.


I get what you’re saying, but this can and will last longer than you want if you’re not careful.
Posted by LemmyLives
Texas
Member since Mar 2019
10077 posts
Posted on 9/25/23 at 10:05 pm to
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totalitarian dad at my bedtime lo

Bedtime at 8 means you are in bed at 8, not starting the routine of brushing, etc. With me, anyway. With the ex-wife, they may not be in bed until 8:30.
Posted by Jcorye1
Tom Brady = GoAT
Member since Dec 2007
74967 posts
Posted on 9/25/23 at 10:10 pm to
Nevermind, I don't have a kid.
This post was edited on 9/25/23 at 10:15 pm
Posted by X123F45
Member since Apr 2015
28706 posts
Posted on 9/25/23 at 10:16 pm to
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Just moved my 2 year 9 month old son into a “big bed” because he was climbing out of crib


How the hell is no one acknowledging this?

My little guy isn't even a year and is about to have to be converted to no front rail because he can climb.

Same for my niece.

How did you make it that far?
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