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Posted on 10/29/24 at 8:56 am to
Posted by JoylessMurderball
Member since Sep 2024
189 posts
Posted on 10/29/24 at 8:56 am to
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Just wanted to thank everyone on here. A few months ago I posted asking for prayers on our first ultrasound after we had a miscarriage. All has gone well since then and my wife is scheduled for an induction this morning for our first child. Ready to embark on the best and most important job of my life. Any and all pointers appreciated!


Amazing man. Congrats! A doctor recently told me that over 50% of women who get a positive pregnancy test lose the baby. The gift of live is such a miracle and should be aways celebrated as such!
Posted by bradygolf98
Member since Jan 2021
3242 posts
Posted on 10/29/24 at 8:58 am to
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We did some sleep training and she’s been sleeping 8hrs at 3mths old and 10-12hrs a night ever since then.

This is one of the best things my wife and I did with our daughter. We didn't start it until she was about 5-6 months old and the first 3-4 nights were terrible for my wife, she just couldn't stand to hear her baby crying herself to sleep.

But after the initial frustrations it's definitely worth it. She sleeps from 7:30 to 6:30 everyday now.
Posted by LRB1967
Tennessee
Member since Dec 2020
22895 posts
Posted on 10/29/24 at 9:02 am to
Congratulations on your new arrival. Welcome to fatherhood!
Posted by TGR
NOLA
Member since Feb 2007
6293 posts
Posted on 10/29/24 at 9:04 am to
Congrats! My wife and I had our first ultrasound last Tuesday and baby on the way in May.
Posted by Impotent Waffle
Baton Rouge
Member since Sep 2007
10105 posts
Posted on 10/29/24 at 9:15 am to
Congratulations!
Posted by Nutriaitch
Montegut
Member since Apr 2008
10555 posts
Posted on 10/29/24 at 9:16 am to
quote:

All has gone well since then and my wife is scheduled for an induction this morning for our first child.


there is not another feeling in the world anywhere close to that feeling you get when you see that child for the first time.

it's the one moment in life where you truly know and feel unconditional love.

quote:

Any and all pointers appreciated!


you will screw up. it's unavoidable and it will happen.

best advice I can give is to do the best you can do and do it your way.
not every kid is the same. so what worked for your mom raising you may not work for you raising your kid.
and what works for this kid may not work for your next one.

there is not "instruction manual" you got to figure it out.
and you'll be surprised how fast you and mom do figure it out.


Posted by Nutriaitch
Montegut
Member since Apr 2008
10555 posts
Posted on 10/29/24 at 9:19 am to
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Be ready for your world to turn upside down. Things that you never imagined would be funny will crack you up. Things you never thought would bother you will turn you into a blubbering pile of jelly.



and that kid will somehow swing you to both of these extremes in the blink of an eye.

you go from:
"awe! that's the cutest thing I've ever seen in my life"
to
"get back here you little bastard so I can wring your neck!"

in an instant.
Posted by biglosdaddy
south louisiana
Member since May 2007
1019 posts
Posted on 10/29/24 at 9:38 am to
My first just turned 6 months. Still hard to believe.

Dance parties are the best! Also, Gregorian chant is a cheat code and helps us get her to sleep!
Posted by Keltic Tiger
Baton Rouge
Member since Dec 2006
21500 posts
Posted on 10/29/24 at 10:36 am to
As soon as you obtain all the required "legal" documents, open a college savings account in the baby's name & make it a mthly regular payment. And don't use the money for daily life-needs. Lesson learned here.
Posted by Gris Gris
OTIS!NO RULES FOR SAUCES ON STEAK!!
Member since Feb 2008
49636 posts
Posted on 10/29/24 at 10:39 am to
Congratulations! Report back after the birth!
Posted by Masterag
'Round Dallas
Member since Sep 2014
19954 posts
Posted on 10/29/24 at 11:01 am to
congrats, baw! just keep 'em alive, they'll be fine.
Posted by arleen1013
Member since Jan 2021
110 posts
Posted on 10/29/24 at 4:11 pm to
only one book worth reading: Mom's on call.

staple them schedules everywhere and drill em in.

eat, diaper, sleep, diaper, repeat. for like 2-3 months.

didn't "click" for me w/ my first one for 3 months. when they can realize you and smile, I reckon.

be the gopher. Tell wife to clear her throat for a while. buy more burp cloths and onesies and bibs.

godspeed brother.
Posted by Camijoe
Member since May 2024
450 posts
Posted on 10/29/24 at 11:29 pm to
Damn, it's been 6 hours. No up date?
Posted by ManWithNoNsme
Member since Feb 2022
924 posts
Posted on 10/29/24 at 11:34 pm to
Congratulations man!
Posted by BhamBlazeDog
Birmingham
Member since Aug 2018
3801 posts
Posted on 10/30/24 at 12:05 am to
We’re still here! They just broke her water. Been a 17 hour day so far and going to hopefully not be too long of a night. She’s kicking arse though! (No pics)
Posted by Othello
the Neptonian Steel Mines
Member since Aug 2013
24873 posts
Posted on 10/30/24 at 12:12 am to
Congratulations!

Posted by Red Stick Tigress
Tiger Stadium
Member since Nov 2005
20105 posts
Posted on 10/30/24 at 4:05 am to
Congratulations!
Posted by BilJ
Member since Sep 2003
162004 posts
Posted on 10/30/24 at 5:48 am to
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First 6 to 8 weeks are tough and will test you and your wife. It’s short term and goes by quick, so just be there to help each other.


This only seems tough on #1….a toddler quickly makes you realize how easy the newborn stage is
Posted by Syd
Member since Sep 2012
4679 posts
Posted on 10/30/24 at 5:53 am to
Do not let the kid sleep in your bed.
Posted by KiwiHead
Auckland, NZ
Member since Jul 2014
35788 posts
Posted on 10/30/24 at 6:06 am to
My sincerest congratulations. Do yourself a long term favor......put yourself on call at least 3 nights exclusively a week to feed the baby and let your wife sleep
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