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re: Fellas, would you be ok with your girlfriend/wife having a male trainer at the gym?
Posted on 5/9/25 at 1:27 pm to BluegrassBelle
Posted on 5/9/25 at 1:27 pm to BluegrassBelle
quote:Did I say it did?
Making a decision to hire a trainer who is male versus female, doesn't indicate that a woman has intent to be unfaithful.
quote:Fair enough
And depending on the gym or setting, sometimes you don't get to make that designation.
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Posted on 5/9/25 at 1:29 pm to Oates Mustache
quote:
I agree with you, but it's also not that simple. There are so many additional factors that go into this equation, like marital health, partner attention, etc.
You get some hunky dude touching (and yes they do touch) a chick while teaching them form, technique, etc., primitive feelings and emotions change and definitely weaken that marital bond that might be shaky already.
It's the fragility of human emotions on display and it happens a lot unfortunately.
That's my larger point (that I posted in the next post). If you're afraid of your partner/spouse cheating there's bigger issues in the relationship or within yourself.
Make sure you pick a good partner that shares the same values and work to maintain a healthy relationship and the odds of them stepping out is pretty low.
Posted on 5/9/25 at 1:29 pm to Oates Mustache
I think it's OK if it's in a group session. I see these crossfit gangs all the time where the trainer is instructing about ten people. The risk there is your wife ends up f-ing someone in the crossfit group.
Posted on 5/9/25 at 1:30 pm to Oates Mustache
quote:just like a hot, fit young female trainer squeezing her buns in front of a married dude to show him how to properly squat
You get some hunky dude touching (and yes they do touch) a chick while teaching them form, technique, etc., primitive feelings and emotions change and definitely weaken that marital bond that might be shaky already.
Posted on 5/9/25 at 1:31 pm to Nayab
My name is Jody Deep and I’m a personal trainer. I specialize in housewives and long term girlfriends/fiancees. I’ll whip them back into shape for you! I’m a great gift for Mother’s Day as well!
Hit me up at deepfitforher@jody.org
Hit me up at deepfitforher@jody.org
Posted on 5/9/25 at 1:32 pm to Nayab
No. My wife isn't a cheater and if she was, she'd find a way.
Also, aren't all those male trainers at the gym gay?
Also, aren't all those male trainers at the gym gay?
Posted on 5/9/25 at 1:40 pm to real turf fan
quote:
Now ask (former Patriots QB) Tom Brady this question.
I can't recall the comedian but he observed that if Tom Brady and Elvis can't trust their wives with their trainers (Elvis' wife cheated with her karate instructor) what hope is there for us lesser men!
Posted on 5/9/25 at 1:41 pm to GreenRockTiger
quote:
just like a hot, fit young female trainer squeezing her buns in front of a married dude to show him how to properly squat
Of course. I've spent countless years in the gym, the stories I could tell. It's not restricted by gender at all. The gym is a strange setting where narcissistic people (of varying degrees) congregate. It's very easy to sway from the righteous path, especially if your marriage is weak.
I've seen way too many people ruin their lives from gym stuff.
This post was edited on 5/9/25 at 1:42 pm
Posted on 5/9/25 at 1:44 pm to Buckeye06
quote:
Olympians have coaches and trainers.
The vast majority of people are Olympic level athletes who need training. This was a great point
Posted on 5/9/25 at 1:46 pm to lsupride87
quote:agree to disagree. Opportunity matters.
If she is going to cheat on you she is going to cheat on you
As I said in my previous post, my reply was geared towards private training. If it's public training, then it takes extra effort to plan the cheating, which at that point I wouldn't consider a "mistake."
Posted on 5/9/25 at 1:46 pm to Oates Mustache
quote:yep!!
I've seen way too many people ruin their lives from gym stuff.
One of my teachers in high school ruined her 25+ year marriage with her personal trainer -lost her job at the school too
Trainer eventually left her for a younger woman
Posted on 5/9/25 at 1:47 pm to Nayab
If you can’t trust your wife to have a male trainer then you should probably find a better wife.
Posted on 5/9/25 at 1:50 pm to Buckeye06
quote:
Olympians have coaches and trainers. Should they not have trainers either?
I realize that I said "anyone," so apologies for that. I meant why would anyone not training for the olympics or a pro sports league need a personal trainer.
This post was edited on 5/9/25 at 1:52 pm
Posted on 5/9/25 at 1:51 pm to Nayab
Wife? at the gym?
Posted on 5/9/25 at 1:52 pm to castorinho
quote:Not trying to call you out or be a dick but that to me comes from the mind of a cheater
Opportunity matters.
Similar thought to me how alcoholics need to stay away from alcohol to avoid drinking
This post was edited on 5/9/25 at 1:54 pm
Posted on 5/9/25 at 1:52 pm to jchamil
quote:
The vast majority of people are Olympic level athletes who need training. This was a great point
The point went way over your head. If the best athletes in the world need trainers, than people going to the gym likely need them more.
Most of those athletes already know how to train. Majority of people going to the gym load up a bar then do quarter squats, and look and laugh at guys doing 225 arse to grass
Posted on 5/9/25 at 2:00 pm to lsupride87
quote:
Not trying to call you out or be a dick but that to me comes from the mind of a cheater
Similar thought to me how alcoholics need to stay away from alcohol to avoid drinking
You're not wrong, but you can't deny that opportunity is part of the equation. This is just my opinion, but I think there are tons of people who would never seek out an affair, but also don't have the willpower to turn it down under the right circumstances. It's not the worst idea to avoid social settings where you know damn well there will be temptations.
Posted on 5/9/25 at 2:02 pm to Cliff Booth
quote:Of course opportunity is. Just like to commit fraud you have to have opportunity
You're not wrong, but you can't deny that opportunity is part of the equation
But only a cheater can cheat. Opportunity is only part of the equation. And if opportunity is the thing stopping your spouse from cheating you are in a bad spot. And I would rather than bandaid make go ahead and be ripped off then trying to go through my relationship worrying about her being in situations where she might have opportunities to cheat
This post was edited on 5/9/25 at 2:03 pm
Posted on 5/9/25 at 2:13 pm to Buckeye06
quote:
The point went way over your head. If the best athletes in the world need trainers, than people going to the gym likely need them more.
They need trainers to put up elite times/distances/etc. Regular people don't need a trainer to get in shape. John Doe CPA doesn't need to pay a trainer to shave a 1000th of a second off of his 100M time
Posted on 5/9/25 at 2:40 pm to GreenRockTiger
quote:
I’m not, and I’m not particularly enticed by other penises as well
But…you are heterosexual correct?
And in a scenario (death, divorce, knock on wood) where your husband was not your husband, you would be “enticed by other penises” and absolutely not “enticed by lesbian vagina” right?
This isn’t me saying heterosexuals shouldn’t have opposite-sex trainers, this is me giving an answer to:
quote:
So, like I asked- what’s the difference?
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