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re: Etiquette when talking to people who stutter?

Posted on 2/15/20 at 8:51 am to
Posted by Saint Alfonzo
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Posted by Rize
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Posted by rondo
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Posted on 2/15/20 at 8:52 am to
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Christians guy who does outreach with the hearing impaired from learning sign language



The term you're looking for is Deaf


And did you really need to ask how tp handle a stutterer when you have been friends with this guy for 20 years?
Posted by SelaTiger
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Posted on 2/15/20 at 8:55 am to
The best thing you can do is stutter a little too but not to make fun of them, to make them feel better.
Posted by Boston911
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Posted on 2/15/20 at 9:04 am to
quote:

when he gets stuck on a word and starts to stammer

Have you ever considered slapping the frick out of him to set if it works like a Control-Alt-Delete?
Posted by TigerintheNO
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Posted on 2/15/20 at 9:09 am to
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He’s been your friend for 20 years. Just ask him.
Posted by QJenk
Atl, Ga
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Posted on 2/15/20 at 9:18 am to
My lil cousin used to studder. Probably about from the time he could talk up to about 15. He may still does it occasionally now on a few words, but he's light years better than what he was as a child.

But during his entire childhood, I made constant never ending jokes about it too. I think that's why he doesn't like talking to me now.

I consider this particular cousin one of my favorite cousins. But i dont think the feeling is reciprocated. Now that I think about it I was an a-hole while we were kids. I should really call him to apologize. This might be why he never answers the phone or calls me back ever lol.
Posted by TT9
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Posted on 2/15/20 at 9:19 am to
Have patience
Posted by Mizz-SEC
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Posted on 2/15/20 at 9:24 am to
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Don’t say the word for him.


D-d-d-d-don’t say the word for him.
Posted by Mr. Hangover
New Orleans
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Posted on 2/15/20 at 9:29 am to
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I have a friend I have known for close to 20 years who stutters pretty bad.


quote:

I have never known if when he gets stuck on a word and starts to stammer if I should just say the word knowing what he is trying to say


You’ve been friends for 20 years, just ask him
Posted by TheHarahanian
Actually not Harahan as of 6/2023
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Posted on 2/15/20 at 9:36 am to
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You haven't figured this out in 20 years?


Maybe he’s only completed one full sentence in that time.
Posted by TIGRLEE
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Posted on 2/15/20 at 9:41 am to
I stutter back
Posted by MrFreakinMiyagi
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Posted on 2/15/20 at 10:01 am to
“How many syllables, Mario?!?!”
Posted by McCaigBro69
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Posted on 2/15/20 at 10:14 am to
I have a pretty bad stutter.

I never was offended by someone finishing my sentences. I thought it was more funny than anything else. Others may feel differently. It’s a self-esteem thing with some people.
Posted by Nicky Parrish
Member since Apr 2016
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Posted on 2/15/20 at 10:17 am to
I remember Richard Pryor in one of his stand up routines doing a bit about a stuttering Chinese or Japanese. How could you tell they were stuttering.That was pretty funny.
Richard Pryor was one of a kind.
Posted by ruzil
Baton Rouge
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Posted on 2/15/20 at 10:27 am to
Just slap him in the back when he hangs up on a word. That usually fixes it.
Posted by NoSaint
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Posted on 2/15/20 at 10:29 am to
quote:

have a friend I have known for close to 20 years


Maybe ask him if he finds it helpful or not?
Posted by Them
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Member since Nov 2008
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Posted on 2/15/20 at 10:41 am to
I’ve stuttered my whole life.

Sit there and let him say what he wants to say on his own time. He does the same for you, I’m sure.

Don’t EVER talk over him unless it’s a life or death situation.

Finishing sentences is incredibly rude. He already knows what he wants to say.

And I second everyone else saying that if you’ve been friends with homie for 20 years just...ask him. With all the speech therapy work he does, I can’t imagine he’s sensitive about his speech. I know I’m not.
This post was edited on 2/15/20 at 10:43 am
Posted by mouton
Savannah,Ga
Member since Aug 2006
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Posted on 2/15/20 at 10:43 am to
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You’ve been friends for 20 years, just ask him


Maybe I should have clarified. We have been friends/business associates for twenty years with about a ten year gap with no contact. We aren’t hang out and bbq together type friends though we have become closer friends the last few years which is why I wonder about this.
Posted by eScott
Member since Oct 2008
11376 posts
Posted on 2/15/20 at 10:44 am to
Has he tried singing the words?
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