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re: Elderly Parent - Dating
Posted on 10/1/19 at 8:54 pm to deeprig9
Posted on 10/1/19 at 8:54 pm to deeprig9
quote:With Alzheimers, as you know, your Mother is already dead and gone. Just the body she inhabited is left behind a little longer. people who haven't dealt with it have no clue.
When it actually happens, I will be sad. But I refuse to be sad for 6 years waiting for it to happen when I can just kick it down the road until it actually happens, then be sad.
Condolences!
Far as your dad...just warn him and let him be. Like was said, hookers and blow. Just consider if new sweetheart is a gold digger that your dad got the hooker. The blow was his money in the wind if gold digger is the case.
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Posted on 10/1/19 at 9:02 pm to Sidicous
Maybe this one has Parkinson's and a strong grip?
Let the old man have his fun.
Let the old man have his fun.
Posted on 10/1/19 at 9:08 pm to deeprig9
Rent him a 5-Star "companion" now and again. WAY cheaper than a Golddigger.
Posted on 10/1/19 at 9:08 pm to NolaTiger52
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Unless you’ve seen Alzheimer’s/dementia up and close, you really don’t understand it. OP’s mom has been dead for a long time. What the frick do you expect to happen when a huge chunk of your life goes brain dead? Could you ever possibly imagine how miserable that is? I don’t blame OP’s dad one bit for trying to fill some sliver of his life with a “friend”. He watched the love of his life (presumably) go brain dead in front of his eyes. She has no clue who he is, and no clue what happened in her life. GFY.
This should end the thread for the mouthbreathers who want to judge a man they don't know anything about.
Posted on 10/1/19 at 9:11 pm to Booyow
quote:
Why do you feel entitled to the fruits of your fathers labor?
Because he is the fruit of his fathers loin
I recently told my father that he will be the winner if the last check he writes before he passes bounces.
Posted on 10/1/19 at 9:11 pm to deeprig9
Your pops is looking for a nurse with a purse.
Posted on 10/1/19 at 9:12 pm to Mr Clean
I just upvoted the whole first page
Never done that before.
Not reading the rest.
Never done that before.
Not reading the rest.
Posted on 10/1/19 at 9:17 pm to deeprig9
Never heard of stage 99 dementia
Posted on 10/1/19 at 9:17 pm to Rouge
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if.your parents aren't divorced, your dad is a huge POS
bullshite.
I want to agree with you, but dementia robs people of their humanity.
Posted on 10/1/19 at 9:21 pm to deeprig9
Tell your dad that it's not "til almost death do us part."
Posted on 10/1/19 at 9:22 pm to deeprig9
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she's about to frick me out of my inheritance.
You have no inheritance until it passes down onto you. It's his money, not yours.
Posted on 10/1/19 at 9:26 pm to X123F45
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bullshite.
I want to agree with you, but dementia robs people of their humanity.
Humans are also supposed to have morals too. Just because you’re a 74 year old man who can’t wait for your vegetable wife to die so you can frick some 70 year gold digger doesn’t mean you should.
Posted on 10/1/19 at 9:26 pm to deeprig9
I’m sorry about your mom.
It’s hard to condemn your dad as a cheater in this case... your mom is for all intents/purposes gone (I don’t mean that in a cruel way) and staying married to her allows him to provide for her care and make decisions for her welfare.
I do not begrudge a person dealing with all of that a little companionship.
It’s hard to condemn your dad as a cheater in this case... your mom is for all intents/purposes gone (I don’t mean that in a cruel way) and staying married to her allows him to provide for her care and make decisions for her welfare.
I do not begrudge a person dealing with all of that a little companionship.
Posted on 10/1/19 at 9:28 pm to X123F45
There's alot of people here who have personally dealt with the dementia part of this story. I very much appreciate the validation, but that's not really the validation I was looking for.
I really am concerned about my lonely emotional father getting taken by a hussy, I feel like I have a teenage daughter going on her first date, and I want to sit this bitch down while cleaning a shotgun and have a talk. But the bitch is 70. And it's my dad's girlfriend.
Yall know what I mean? It's weird, and despite the shitposts, I still believe I've come to the right place with this.
I really am concerned about my lonely emotional father getting taken by a hussy, I feel like I have a teenage daughter going on her first date, and I want to sit this bitch down while cleaning a shotgun and have a talk. But the bitch is 70. And it's my dad's girlfriend.
Yall know what I mean? It's weird, and despite the shitposts, I still believe I've come to the right place with this.
Posted on 10/1/19 at 9:31 pm to Parmen
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You have no inheritance until it passes down onto you. It's his money, not yours.
I feel bad for people that only feel this way. It must mean they have no regards for long term family matters. There’s plenty of people this does not apply to like farmers and business owners for instance where this simply isn’t how it works. For one, it’s not about taking care of your kids when you die. For most people your kids are well on their way into careers. It’s your grandkids and assets.
Condolences OP. For you ignorant people here, OP doesn’t care about the money. He cares about some dirtbag women trying to come in and take advantage of his pops.
OP, talk to your pops now about his long term plans. Make sure he has them.
Posted on 10/1/19 at 9:32 pm to MMauler
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Tell your dad that it's not "til almost death do us part."
"Finishing the job" isn't legal here, but it has been talked about. In the context of "if this ever happens to me, my pp7 is under the black socks in my top right drawer"
And it wasn't in jest.
Posted on 10/1/19 at 9:34 pm to deeprig9
I’d talk to your old man about executing a trust regarding your potential inheritance and I’d do that as soon as possible. There’s no telling what this old ladies intentions truly are. People get extremely weird whenever money is involved and you don’t know this woman. At least by having a lawyer execute a trust, she can’t touch your inheritance as a trust, you’ll be protected in case something happens to your old man.
Posted on 10/1/19 at 9:36 pm to baldona
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OP, talk to your pops now about his long term plans. Make sure he has them.
Absolutely this, but be prepared for the possibility that your dad may one day wish to change those plans to include aforementioned hussy.
This is such a tough spot, hopefully a chat with your Dad will reassure you.
Posted on 10/1/19 at 9:39 pm to deeprig9
Tell your dad to dust off that old dick of his, and get it dirty. But don’t commit to any woman, especially who’s got that BS story.
Posted on 10/1/19 at 9:50 pm to deeprig9
quote:
Yall know what I mean? It's weird, and despite the shitposts, I still believe I've come to the right place with this.
Meet her. Talk to her. Talk to him.
My worry for you, her coming from a rough relationship. Those women will always project the previous man's behavior on the current.
And a 70 year old man doesn't need that.
I'd make a credit karma account for her and analyze her credit
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