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re: Elderly Parent - Dating

Posted on 10/1/19 at 8:23 pm to
Posted by deeprig9
Unincorporated Ozora, Georgia
Member since Sep 2012
64396 posts
Posted on 10/1/19 at 8:23 pm to
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Why do you feel entitled to the fruits of your fathers labor?


He can give his money to whoever he wants. I just want to make sure he isn't conned out of it by a hussy.
Posted by Sweltering Chill
Member since Aug 2017
2150 posts
Posted on 10/1/19 at 8:25 pm to




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she's about to frick me out of my inheritance



Jesus Christ.. “your” inheritance?? The entitlement of some people is astounding.





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Why do you feel entitled to the fruits of your fathers labor



Exactly.

Your Dad doesnt sound like a great guy since he’s (presumably) still married to your Mom, but i’ll never understand people who expect to be left an inheritance .. my Dad did really well, but he may meet some chick (he’s divorced) and she’d be in line for it, or he could just go broke from bad decisions, who knows what could happen.

Either way, i’m planning for my own retirement, and if i get an inheritance form my dad, that’ll be a nice bonus/supplement.
Posted by deeprig9
Unincorporated Ozora, Georgia
Member since Sep 2012
64396 posts
Posted on 10/1/19 at 8:25 pm to
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Your dad married 25 years older? Seems pretty backwards to me
u dumb. My mom is 73. She is stage 999999999999999999999999 dementia. She'll be dead very soon.
Posted by Mr Personality
Bangkok
Member since Mar 2014
27364 posts
Posted on 10/1/19 at 8:31 pm to
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Dad (74) is now dating and has found a "friend" who is 70. Getting serious


Gross

Posted by Rouge
Floston Paradise
Member since Oct 2004
136869 posts
Posted on 10/1/19 at 8:33 pm to
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My mom is 73. She is stage 999999999999999999999999 dementia. She'll be dead very soon.
that reads as very nonchalant

I would be a wreck if I know my mom had an impending death
Posted by deeprig9
Unincorporated Ozora, Georgia
Member since Sep 2012
64396 posts
Posted on 10/1/19 at 8:33 pm to
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Exactly.

Your Dad doesnt sound like a great guy since he’s (presumably) still married to your Mom, but i’ll never understand people who expect to be left an inheritance .. my Dad did really well, but he may meet some chick (he’s divorced) and she’d be in line for it, or he could just go broke from bad decisions, who knows what could happen.

Either way, i’m planning for my own retirement, and if i get an inheritance form my dad, that’ll be a nice bonus/supplement.



OP was tldr, there's alot of other details, that if I posted, would make alot of these types of comments null and void.

I've been begging my father to put my mom in a home for three years, he finally did it earlier this year. For years he changed her diapers and did all the bullshite. She's basically a vegetable at this point. So my dad finally took my advice and put her into a home. Good for him. Adulterer my arse. He is also old, and he also has battled prostate cancer, he might not have a whole lot of time left, so let him adulterer his arse off. And if he wants to spend all of his money having fun, hookers and blow, good for him. If he blows every penny on her, in life, I'm fine with it. After death, that's my money.

Posted by Rouge
Floston Paradise
Member since Oct 2004
136869 posts
Posted on 10/1/19 at 8:35 pm to
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Adulterer my arse


Until death do us part

You and your dad are both shitbags

Congrats
This post was edited on 10/1/19 at 8:37 pm
Posted by VetteGuy
Member since Feb 2008
28547 posts
Posted on 10/1/19 at 8:35 pm to
You worry about money a lot.

Change, or you'll never be happy.
Posted by CaptSpaulding
Member since Feb 2012
6533 posts
Posted on 10/1/19 at 8:36 pm to
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After death, that's my money.


Not if he don’t say it is.
Posted by deeprig9
Unincorporated Ozora, Georgia
Member since Sep 2012
64396 posts
Posted on 10/1/19 at 8:38 pm to
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that reads as very nonchalant

I would be a wreck if I know my mom had an impending death


Newsflash- your mom is going to die. So are you, me and everyone. It is impending.

My mom has been dying for years. I dread opening my email, texts from my dad, etc, and have for a couple years now. It's stressful. But it is what it is.

When it actually happens, I will be sad. But I refuse to be sad for 6 years waiting for it to happen when I can just kick it down the road until it actually happens, then be sad.

I don't know. Everyone has their way of dealing with shite.
This post was edited on 10/1/19 at 8:39 pm
Posted by kywildcatfanone
Wildcat Country!
Member since Oct 2012
119694 posts
Posted on 10/1/19 at 8:38 pm to
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if.your parents aren't divorced, your dad is a huge POS


My first thought.
Posted by GreatLakesTiger24
One State Solution
Member since May 2012
55949 posts
Posted on 10/1/19 at 8:40 pm to
your dad sounds like a POS
Posted by deeprig9
Unincorporated Ozora, Georgia
Member since Sep 2012
64396 posts
Posted on 10/1/19 at 8:42 pm to
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your dad sounds like a POS


I think you're a POS.
Posted by NolaTiger52
New Orleans
Member since Jul 2018
1869 posts
Posted on 10/1/19 at 8:42 pm to
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Until death do us part You and your dad are both shitbags Congrats

I feel like it’s pretty shitbaggy to read a message board post and call someone a shitbag off of a 400 character paragraph. But I guess you know the old saying “takes one to know one”.
Posted by Jorts R Us
Member since Aug 2013
14879 posts
Posted on 10/1/19 at 8:43 pm to
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Should I hire a PI on this bitch?


Nah. Just start hittin it after your pops and get put in her will.
Posted by ldts
Member since Aug 2015
2677 posts
Posted on 10/1/19 at 8:46 pm to
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if.your parents aren't divorced, your dad is a huge POS


I see your point, but I don't know that I can agree with this. If she's in hospice for dementia, she's been in bad shape a while. Even though she's still alive, the woman he married died a while back. I would have agreed with you, until I watched my mama deal with my dad as he went through and died from alzheimers. She didn't date anyone until he died, but I think I could have understood it if she did. Life isn't always so black and white.
Posted by OWLFAN86
The OT has made me richer
Member since Jun 2004
176609 posts
Posted on 10/1/19 at 8:50 pm to
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My mom is 73. She is stage 999999999999999999999999 dementia. She'll be dead very soon.

do we upvote or downvote this?

im confused
Posted by Jopete
New Iberia
Member since Apr 2019
373 posts
Posted on 10/1/19 at 8:50 pm to
maybe you should go get a job and not worry about your 'golden ticket' daddy. you sound just as fricked up as him.
your poor momma don't deserve this. douchebag.
Posted by Buckeye Jeaux
Member since May 2018
17756 posts
Posted on 10/1/19 at 8:50 pm to
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Suggest a prenup to your father explaining it will be a lot less complicated down the line.
But, don't use George Costanza's lawyer/financial-adviser.
Posted by NolaTiger52
New Orleans
Member since Jul 2018
1869 posts
Posted on 10/1/19 at 8:52 pm to
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Your Dad doesnt sound like a great guy since he’s (presumably) still married to your Mom

Unless you’ve seen Alzheimer’s/dementia up and close, you really don’t understand it. OP’s mom has been dead for a long time. What the frick do you expect to happen when a huge chunk of your life goes brain dead? Could you ever possibly imagine how miserable that is? I don’t blame OP’s dad one bit for trying to fill some sliver of his life with a “friend”. He watched the love of his life (presumably) go brain dead in front of his eyes. She has no clue who he is, and no clue what happened in her life. GFY.
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