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re: Dudes dropping out of dating game.
Posted on 1/7/24 at 2:43 pm to Ancient Astronaut
Posted on 1/7/24 at 2:43 pm to Ancient Astronaut
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Coffee dates are beta
You're a dumb arse. You're getting a quick introduction to someone you might be interested in, there's less pressure, and you can bounce early if you know it's not going to work out.
This post was edited on 1/7/24 at 2:44 pm
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Posted on 1/7/24 at 2:55 pm to Bernie Bierman
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This thread has inspired me to finally ask out a girl from work (different department).
Slow down, playa. Ain't nobody recommending this.
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What do you say we get a cuppa a joe at (name of coffee shop) after work?” Assertive, or too creepy?
Saying it like that is creepy. I also wouldn't recommend coffee AFTER work. Most people are trying to wind down after work, not get a caffeine buzz. I would suggest a bar in this scenario and I would suggest wording it like this. "I'm headed to (place of business) after work for happy hour. Do you want to join me?" You might only get two shots at this, so when you ask her make sure it's when you just had a good conversation with her. She might turn you down the first time because she is busy that day after work. If you ask her again on a different week and she gives you the same response that she is busy then move on.
This post was edited on 1/7/24 at 5:40 pm
Posted on 1/7/24 at 2:55 pm to Ancient Astronaut
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Coffee dates are beta
Coffee dates are beta? I'm sorry if I don't want to drop 30 bucks on dinner for some woman there's 50/50 chance I'll know we aren't compatible from a couple minutes after the date began. Or try to force conversation for hours with someone I'm not compatible with.
Coffee dates are quick and cheap, seems like a pretty damn good option for a first date for me. Some of y'all are so into calling stuff "alpha" or beta," it's like, come on...
Posted on 1/7/24 at 2:56 pm to pelicansfan123
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I'm sorry if I don't want to drop 30 bucks on dinner for some woman there's 50/50 chance I'll know we aren't compatible from a couple minutes after the date began.
Are you taking her to Jersey Mike's?
Posted on 1/7/24 at 2:57 pm to Ancient Astronaut
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Coffee dates are beta
Correct
Coffee enema dates are sigma
Posted on 1/7/24 at 2:58 pm to Rouge
I’m glad my wife is cool and I don’t have to deal with this shite.
Posted on 1/7/24 at 2:58 pm to fallguy_1978
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don't want to drop 30 bucks on dinner
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Are you taking her to Jersey Mike's?
Posted on 1/7/24 at 3:03 pm to BK Lounge
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And ur post proves that marriage is not some ‘end all, be all’ goal to pursue..
I agree with that. We should just be saying “relationships”
I’m a believer in long-term monogamous relationships, but it doesn’t have to be an actual marriage.
Posted on 1/7/24 at 3:12 pm to Bjorn Cyborg
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And many of those had chances to marry and either chose not to, or fricked it up due their own issues. Doesn’t make the idea false. People with Downs Syndrome marry. Obese people marry.
You come off as highly judgmental. You have no idea why people don’t get married yet you just assume they’re the problem. I don’t think you have any idea what you’re talking about within this thread.
Posted on 1/7/24 at 3:16 pm to Bongo
I know as much about this as you or anyone else. It’s all opinions.
Posted on 1/7/24 at 3:18 pm to Bjorn Cyborg
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I’m a believer in long-term monogamous relationships, but it doesn’t have to be an actual marriage.
100%
Im not religious, and im not a huge fan of governement .. so why on earth would i want to enter into a governmental religious contract ??
Posted on 1/7/24 at 3:22 pm to fallguy_1978
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Are you taking her to Jersey Mike's?
I meant 30 bucks on her, but that was probably a little conservative too haha
Posted on 1/7/24 at 3:30 pm to pelicansfan123
quote:Why not just a skype date. Save on that cup of cappuccino too.
Coffee dates are quick and cheap
Posted on 1/7/24 at 3:30 pm to Bjorn Cyborg
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If you read the whole exchange you would see that my point was that he “sounds” like an incel, using the language and talking points. Not that he was one. I said that he needed to get that out of his system and get back out there, because that attitude can bleed into his personal life and social conversations. I also apologized for the harshness of my post and said I was confident that he could find whatever he is looking for. So perhaps your post is the lazy one.
Gaslight all you want to but you inferred the guy was an incel. His post was thoughtful and in no way "incel"
Its annoying that men cant have real conversations about their real experiences without the conversation immediately going to "you sound like an incel"
Posted on 1/7/24 at 3:33 pm to TheMT83
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definitely focused on cutting out sugars, red meat and some of the pre-processed foods.
Why are you cutting out red meat?
Posted on 1/7/24 at 3:38 pm to pelicansfan123
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I meant 30 bucks on her, but that was probably a little conservative too haha
So, Canes.
Posted on 1/7/24 at 4:09 pm to Bjorn Cyborg
Sure, it’s all opinions. But if you’ve been out of the dating world for the past 10-12 years, your opinion is a bit less informed than that of those currently in the dating pool.
Posted on 1/7/24 at 4:23 pm to Bernie Bierman
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For the boomers that are pulling girls in their 20s
Boomers aren’t pulling girls in their 20s
Posted on 1/7/24 at 5:03 pm to BK Lounge
el gaucho is the man, bruh.
He'll weld you up in that Tesla so tight even Elon won't be able to get you out.
He'll weld you up in that Tesla so tight even Elon won't be able to get you out.
Posted on 1/7/24 at 5:37 pm to N2cars
I just got liked by this “girl” on Bumble. Yeah, I know it’s a scammer but I’m bored and will play along at least until the offer to invest in cryptocurrency comes along.
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