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Posted on 3/17/17 at 11:51 am to
Posted by StringedInstruments
Member since Oct 2013
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Posted on 3/17/17 at 11:51 am to
Do you know anyone (spouse, kids, parents, cousins, friends, etc) that spent a good amount of time around the dog?

It'd be good to talk to someone that can share in the positive memories of your pet. Tell some silly stories. Reminisce about when you first got him and what it took to get him used to his new home. Those kind of things.

Then like any grieving period, just give it time. I do suggest cleaning up your pet's stuff within the next few days if not immediately. Don't let his toys/bones/bowls be out. You'll just find yourself being sad every time you come home.

Probably take a few weeks to a month or so, but by then, you'll be ready to have a new pup in the house. I also like suggest getting a completely different breed unless you have specific uses for your pet. New breed really helps give you the sense of a totally new experience.
Posted by LNCHBOX
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Posted on 3/17/17 at 11:54 am to
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I do suggest cleaning up your pet's stuff within the next few days if not immediately. Don't let his toys/bones/bowls be out. You'll just find yourself being sad every time you come home.


This. My wife wasn't happy that I stashed all the cat's stuff the day after he died, but it definitely helped. Although, the food bowl area still looks weird missing a bowl.
Posted by boxcarbarney
Above all things, be a man
Member since Jul 2007
22729 posts
Posted on 3/17/17 at 11:56 am to
Damn. A dog dying is the worst. Its been 7 years since my boxer died and I still haven't gotten another.
Posted by The Pirate King
Pangu
Member since May 2014
57676 posts
Posted on 3/17/17 at 11:57 am to
Losing a dog you've had that long is never easy. I lost my first boyhood dog after 14 years this past summer. It's a strange sense of loss that is hard to explain.
Posted by Wolfhound45
Hanging with Chicken in Lurkistan
Member since Nov 2009
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Posted on 3/17/17 at 11:58 am to
Sorry for your loss baw. Been there multiple times. It is tough.
Posted by Lakeboy7
New Orleans
Member since Jul 2011
23965 posts
Posted on 3/17/17 at 12:02 pm to
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. I wish dogs lived as long as we do. Sorry for your loss.


Posted by Gris Gris
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Member since Feb 2008
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Posted on 3/17/17 at 12:05 pm to
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How do u cope with this. I am a wreck


It's hard, but you will cope. It takes time and it's best just to let it all out. Sorry for your loss. I've said goodbye to pets many times. Never gets easier, but I wouldn't change a thing.
Posted by dukke v
PLUTO
Member since Jul 2006
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Posted on 3/17/17 at 12:08 pm to
I have two 4 year olds.... can't imagine a day without them....
Posted by kywildcatfanone
Wildcat Country!
Member since Oct 2012
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Posted on 3/17/17 at 12:08 pm to
Very difficult when you love your pet. Think happy thoughts about your time together.
Posted by Adam4848
LA
Member since Apr 2006
18956 posts
Posted on 3/17/17 at 12:16 pm to
Sorry for your loss, our dog died similarly in the middle of the night. It's hard but with time you'll only think of the good times and the pain will fade.

Go pick out his favorite spot in the yard and bury him with a nice stone to remember him.
Posted by Hester Carries
Member since Sep 2012
22421 posts
Posted on 3/17/17 at 12:17 pm to
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How do u cope with this.


If this is your response to a dog, life is going to be ruff.
Posted by LSURussian
Member since Feb 2005
126962 posts
Posted on 3/17/17 at 12:21 pm to
Been there. It's a sad time. Get another puppy as soon as you can.

Dogs are really special.

I saw a handmade wooden sign in a souvenir shop in Jackson Hole, Wyoming that said, "Every dog owner thinks his dog is the best dog in the world. And every one of them is right."
Posted by Geauxnoose
Member since Dec 2015
538 posts
Posted on 3/17/17 at 12:21 pm to
Sorry about your loss, man. Lost my dog a month ago to two forms of cancer. It will get a little easier every day, but my wife still gets upset about once a week. Kids are pretty resilient.

I can't speak to getting a new puppy. Personally, I feel that the dog I have lost was so unique and fit our family like a glove, and that she's irreplaceable. Only you will know when it's the right time to reintroduce another dog.
Posted by Paul Allen
Montauk, NY
Member since Nov 2007
75184 posts
Posted on 3/17/17 at 12:22 pm to
Sorry for your loss.
Posted by Geauxnoose
Member since Dec 2015
538 posts
Posted on 3/17/17 at 12:24 pm to
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"Every dog owner thinks his dog is the best dog in the world. And every one of them is right."


Truer words have never been spoken.
Posted by alajones
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Member since Oct 2005
34470 posts
Posted on 3/17/17 at 12:25 pm to
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How do u cope with this. I am a wreck


The same way you do with a person. Have a wake with your family or friends. Talk about what you remember, tell funny stories. I garauntee you'll hear ones you haven't heard before.

It helps.
Posted by LSUJuicer
Member since Jan 2013
3354 posts
Posted on 3/17/17 at 12:31 pm to
My dog passed away a month ago. The day after is really hard. I turned my focus to my other dog who had known her his entire life. Took the week off of work to just monitor him. He became depressed and just showed no sign of life. I had not planned on getting another dog but it was apparent he would just depress himself to death. So I looked at dogs all weekend and while I was debating between two...they both were being looked at by other people. As I waited for them to be done looking at both (and crossing my fingers they didn't take both) I walked by another dog I had not seen. Got her in a room, one on one and instantly knew she was the right dog. I was concerned my other dog would not accept her but they said to introduce them by having them meet on nuetral ground while having a walk. They couldn't have been more right he took to her about two weeks quicker than I expected. It's still not his girl but he has someone to spend time with while I am at work. Also I donated her remaining medicine to animal shelters and that gave me some peace. I am sorry for your loss and hope you get through the grieving process quickly.
Posted by Hester Carries
Member since Sep 2012
22421 posts
Posted on 3/17/17 at 12:33 pm to
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The same way you do with a person. Have a wake with your family or friends.


DO WHAT!??! lol
Posted by dukke v
PLUTO
Member since Jul 2006
202853 posts
Posted on 3/17/17 at 12:39 pm to
Spot on!!!!!!
Posted by cajunangelle
Member since Oct 2012
146700 posts
Posted on 3/17/17 at 12:51 pm to
It is a sad thing to endure.
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