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re: Do you feel like someones SO is obligated to stay in shape
Posted on 6/21/18 at 1:24 pm to Hawgnsincebirth55
Posted on 6/21/18 at 1:24 pm to Hawgnsincebirth55
I see the reasoning behind your theory..... but if you applied it to both sides, all of us rocking the dad bod would never stand a chance. Don't give the opposite sex any ideas.
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Posted on 6/21/18 at 1:24 pm to olgoi khorkhoi
quote:thats BS. There's no excuse to be a land whale.
y get fat. A lot of them gain 50 lbs during a pregnancy and somethin
Posted on 6/21/18 at 1:25 pm to brian_wilson
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My wife has a friend that is probably about 25 lbs overweight. She works out every day, and watches what she eats. She just can't lose the weight.
bullfrickingshit
science disagrees with you
the friend is lying to you (and probably herself)
Posted on 6/21/18 at 1:25 pm to Rouge
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earning power and importance of physique are quite inversely proportional
To whom?
They are both important to me. Not equally important, but not inversely proportional either.
Posted on 6/21/18 at 1:25 pm to Hawgnsincebirth55
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Hawgnsincebirth55
Pretty sure you're the guy who posted a couple of weeks ago talking about your SO and asking if she moved in or not because she's been gradually bringing over her stuff and not taking it back
So now she's moving in and gaining weight... are you sure you aren't married to this gal?
Posted on 6/21/18 at 1:29 pm to Rouge
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bullfrickingshit science disagrees with you
She could very well have a hormonal disorder (ex: PCOS)that makes weight loss more challenging. And what works for most other women....doesn’t work for her. Maybe she just hasn’t figured out what exactly works with her body.
Posted on 6/21/18 at 1:30 pm to Hawgnsincebirth55
If that's the couple's expectation.
Posted on 6/21/18 at 1:31 pm to lsunurse
quote:quite possible
She could very well have a hormonal disorder (ex: PCOS)that makes weight loss more challenging. And what works for most other women....doesn’t work for her. Maybe she just hasn’t figured out what exactly works with her body.
i'm sure she might retain water in an abnormal matter
but dont say that she CAN'T lost weight
get that gap of calories burned to healthy caloric input far enough, and it is a scientific fact that weight loss will occur
Posted on 6/21/18 at 1:32 pm to Hawgnsincebirth55
If you marry someone based on looks only the marriage will not last long.
Posted on 6/21/18 at 1:32 pm to Hawgnsincebirth55
In the same way that if she started to grow leg and arm hair, being with someone does not obligate you to find them attractive.
Me and mum SO have had this convo before and I know I’d put loads of weight on she’d probably leave me and vice versa. Over time you are going to let go a little bit but I don’t think it’s shallow if it’s extreme
Me and mum SO have had this convo before and I know I’d put loads of weight on she’d probably leave me and vice versa. Over time you are going to let go a little bit but I don’t think it’s shallow if it’s extreme
Posted on 6/21/18 at 1:32 pm to Hawgnsincebirth55
If you make an effort to take care of yourself and your SO doesn't I don't see how there wouldn't be just a little resentment on your part
Posted on 6/21/18 at 1:33 pm to Hawgnsincebirth55
I'm guessing that there are very few women that gain weight and make no effort to lose it. On the other hand, I have several friends that have gained close to 50 lbs in the last 25 years (since we finished high school) and claim that they have no intention to ever go on a diet or start going to a gym.
Guess I'm just pointing out the 'no effort to lose it' part of your post. Everyone has differing views on what that means but nearly all women are trying multiple fad diets, starting New Year's resolutions, etc. to lose weight if they have gained some.
I've also known guys that used to be gym rats or competitive athletes and ballooned when injuries didn't allow them to exercise anymore.
Guess I'm just pointing out the 'no effort to lose it' part of your post. Everyone has differing views on what that means but nearly all women are trying multiple fad diets, starting New Year's resolutions, etc. to lose weight if they have gained some.
I've also known guys that used to be gym rats or competitive athletes and ballooned when injuries didn't allow them to exercise anymore.
Posted on 6/21/18 at 1:34 pm to Hawgnsincebirth55
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while you stay fit and healthy
I feel like if I put the effort in to do the above then I would want my SO to do the same.
Posted on 6/21/18 at 1:35 pm to tom
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It's 40% more person for the same price!
not really, the money you saved originally is now funding their eating habits.
Posted on 6/21/18 at 1:38 pm to Codythetiger
quote:nah shes not gaining weight shes stayed right around 125 130. Im talking about all these other guys i see that live with fat wives when they aren't bad looking at all
So now she's moving in and gaining weight.
Posted on 6/21/18 at 1:39 pm to Rouge
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the friend is lying to you (and probably herself)
Its possible she is a closet eater, but I have eaten a few meals with her and she is very conscious about it.
I do know she exercises, as the ladies will group workout together.
eta: I am somewhat on the flip side of that. It really doesn't matter too much what I eat. If I eat like crap, it will take months for me to gain weight.
This post was edited on 6/21/18 at 1:41 pm
Posted on 6/21/18 at 1:42 pm to Hawgnsincebirth55
It is a respect thing, mostly. If you have expectations in the realm of vanity and aesthetics, then that is something both should maintain out of respect for the other person. If you both look like a bag of potatoes, and happen to love potatoes, then do your thing.
I once had a man tell me "The things you do to get her, you gotta do to keep her. That includes looks as well as actions and personality."
Couldn't have been more right.
I once had a man tell me "The things you do to get her, you gotta do to keep her. That includes looks as well as actions and personality."
Couldn't have been more right.
Posted on 6/21/18 at 1:45 pm to Hawgnsincebirth55
Johnny Sack may have been a POS but he stood by Jenny even though she was twice the woman he married.
Posted on 6/21/18 at 1:46 pm to Hawgnsincebirth55
Good thing my wife doesn’t think like this.
Posted on 6/21/18 at 1:48 pm to Hawgnsincebirth55
Maybe that's what happened with Trump and Marla Maples. Marla was huge into fitness while Trump went bankrupt and gained a bunch of weight (yet said he didn't want to exercise). Marla tries to get him to lose the weight and Trump finds a different reason for divorce.
Obviously joking, I don't think women care as much about their man gaining weight. Or if they did, money would trump that minor issue.
Let's face it, a guy can gain 25-40 lbs from the age of 18-38 and it's honestly not a big deal to anyone. However, our society will not allow a woman to do the same without a few comments from the peanut gallery along the way.
Obviously joking, I don't think women care as much about their man gaining weight. Or if they did, money would trump that minor issue.
Let's face it, a guy can gain 25-40 lbs from the age of 18-38 and it's honestly not a big deal to anyone. However, our society will not allow a woman to do the same without a few comments from the peanut gallery along the way.
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