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re: Do you ever 100% get over an ex?

Posted on 8/9/20 at 10:15 pm to
Posted by OysterPoBoy
City of St. George
Member since Jul 2013
35522 posts
Posted on 8/9/20 at 10:15 pm to
quote:

still find myself wondering what she’s doing or who she is with.


The only real way to find out is to break into her house and smell her panties.
Posted by fr33manator
Baton Rouge
Member since Oct 2010
124576 posts
Posted on 8/9/20 at 10:17 pm to
Posted by Langland
Trumplandia
Member since Apr 2014
15382 posts
Posted on 8/9/20 at 10:17 pm to
quote:

I still go back to social media of college exes to see what they are doing.


This is sad as frick.
Posted by Nole Man
Somewhere In Tennessee!
Member since May 2011
7212 posts
Posted on 8/9/20 at 10:19 pm to
Never goes away if it was serious enough
Posted by RealityTiger
Geismar, LA
Member since Jan 2010
20455 posts
Posted on 8/9/20 at 10:24 pm to
quote:

Never goes away if it was serious enough
bullshite. You get over it. Give it more than a few years. Find a new girl. Get married, have kids, etc. You get over the other ones. In some cases (or most cases) you find that you upgraded BIG time by not staying with the past girls.
Posted by WaltTeevens
Santa Barbara, CA
Member since Dec 2013
10990 posts
Posted on 8/9/20 at 10:24 pm to
I have an ex I think about from time to time. She broke up with me, so that makes it easier to get into the "What if?" train of thought. Just try to remember that it would never be the same even if you did happen to find each other again.

It's never worth loving someone who doesn't love you back.
Posted by keakar
Member since Jan 2017
30128 posts
Posted on 8/9/20 at 10:24 pm to
quote:

My girlfriend and I broke up last fall and still find myself wondering what she’s doing or who she is with.


translation - my girlfriend/woman i dated once is still on my mind so i now stalk her
Posted by BamaCoaster
God's Gulf
Member since Apr 2016
5307 posts
Posted on 8/9/20 at 10:25 pm to
Time wounds all heals.
Posted by jcaz
Laffy
Member since Aug 2014
15724 posts
Posted on 8/9/20 at 10:28 pm to
Nothing wrong with curiosity. When you spend years caring and loving someone it's not natural to just pretend they never existed. Just don't let it consume you or future relationships.
Posted by HempHead
Big Sky Country
Member since Mar 2011
55518 posts
Posted on 8/9/20 at 10:34 pm to
Faded loves, and memories
How they take the best of me
This old chain around my shoulder's
Only makin' me look older
Than I am, but I'll get over you someday

Faded loves, and memories
Where I go, they follow me
And I just can't seem to lose em
So I might as well just use 'em
One more time one more sad ol' country song

Faded loves, and memories
Yesterday they let me be
Some girl smiled, so I walked over
Flipped her hair and brushed her shoulder
So I guess I'm getting stronger everyday
Faded loves and memories

Posted by dcrews
Houston, TX
Member since Feb 2011
30223 posts
Posted on 8/9/20 at 10:35 pm to
quote:

when this feeing will finally go away.


When you are in a relationship with your next gf.
Posted by MrFreakinMiyagi
Reseda
Member since Feb 2007
18967 posts
Posted on 8/9/20 at 10:55 pm to
Yes
Posted by Walt OReilly
Poplarville, MS
Member since Oct 2005
124694 posts
Posted on 8/9/20 at 10:57 pm to
Been 17 yrs for me and I still think about her daily

It’s pretty fricking sad yes I know
This post was edited on 8/9/20 at 10:59 pm
Posted by Patfic15
Baton Rouge
Member since Sep 2018
3274 posts
Posted on 8/9/20 at 10:59 pm to
People come and people go. Some are meant for novels, others simply chapters. Appreciate them both for the words they said and those you wish they would have.
This post was edited on 8/9/20 at 11:15 pm
Posted by LSUgirl4
Member since Sep 2009
39501 posts
Posted on 8/9/20 at 11:23 pm to
quote:

Been 17 yrs for me and I still think about her daily

It’s pretty fricking sad yes I know
not sad. love is love is love. xo
Posted by rowbear1922
Lake Chuck, LA
Member since Oct 2008
15182 posts
Posted on 8/9/20 at 11:27 pm to
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MadeFromScratch


Just from looking over your posts since you started, whose alter are you?

For serious answer, it depends how it ends. My long time GF cheated on me and I didn't give a shite about what she was doing once I got over the initial hurt and shock of finding out.

A more recent girl I was seeing was divorced with kids and still hurt from the divorce 3 years before so she ended things unexpectedly bc she still wasn't ready for a relationship. That hurt more than the girl cheating.
Posted by SEClint
New Orleans, LA/Portland, OR
Member since Nov 2006
48769 posts
Posted on 8/9/20 at 11:28 pm to
Depends on the ex
Posted by Ross
Member since Oct 2007
47824 posts
Posted on 8/9/20 at 11:31 pm to
Sometimes it takes a long time to get to 100%, but you’ll find 80-90% is more than enough to live life and find someone else.

Once you find that someone else and really get serious, you’ll find 100% is pretty easy to achieve.
This post was edited on 8/9/20 at 11:32 pm
Posted by X123F45
Member since Apr 2015
27487 posts
Posted on 8/9/20 at 11:40 pm to
I've gotten over all of them.

But I still remember the one I should have married and instead self destructed.

It's been 15 years. I still remember little things from time to time. Hope she's doing well. And I hope her husband continues to be the man i wasn't mature enough to be back then.
Posted by Lima Whiskey
Member since Apr 2013
19408 posts
Posted on 8/9/20 at 11:44 pm to
Yes

It may take a few years though. I thought I was going to marry one of my exes. And it was ugly for a while. Now, I don’t feel anything toward her. I just don’t.
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