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re: Do we have any Splenda Daddies on the OT?
Posted on 12/19/21 at 10:52 am to dyslexiateechur
Posted on 12/19/21 at 10:52 am to dyslexiateechur
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Would you date a dude who had this kind of arrangement in the past?
Would you date a guy that fricked around just for the sake of fricking around when he was single?
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Posted on 12/19/21 at 10:54 am to dyslexiateechur
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Would you date a dude who had this kind of arrangement in the past?
He's probably not going to tell you that
"Hey, we've been dating for 6 months and things are going great. Have I mentioned to you that I rented a 20 yr old prostitute for a few years?"
This post was edited on 12/19/21 at 10:57 am
Posted on 12/19/21 at 11:01 am to dyslexiateechur
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Would you date a dude who had this kind of arrangement in the past?
Say you are dating a girl 1-2 times per week at around $100 per date (food, drinks, fuel). That could be $800 / month without trying hard.
If you are in the game, you pay. It is just called different things.
This post was edited on 12/19/21 at 11:45 am
Posted on 12/19/21 at 11:11 am to LSU Grad Alabama Fan
Get yours man, I have zero issue with this if everybody involved is crystal clear on the arrangement. Hell, probably go this route myself were I to get divorced.
Posted on 12/19/21 at 11:29 am to LSU Grad Alabama Fan
Didn't click on thread because of odd title but I wish I had. Props to you for finding an arrangement that works for both of you.
Lol at the people hating on you telling you to go find girls at the bar for cheaper and whatnot. Screw em
Lol at the people hating on you telling you to go find girls at the bar for cheaper and whatnot. Screw em
Posted on 12/19/21 at 11:32 am to LSU Grad Alabama Fan
I can totally understand where you’re coming from on this. I’m in my 50s and happily married. I have a friend I grew up with who I still hang out with when his schedule allows, and for the past 15-20 years we hit Visions every few months. He travels a lot for work and we lived a couple hours apart, so whenever he’s in town we just meet up at the club for a few beers. Recently he was about to become single again so we went on a binge and hit the club every week for a couple months.
I’ve talked to a lot of girls there over the years and occasionally you hear some interesting stories, but most are vapid, superficial conversations. But at the start of this weekly binge, I met a 22 year old girl that I really connected with. She was very intelligent and was moving to the northwest in the spring to pursue a degree in Sociology with a minor in film (on scholarship). We’d talk for hours each weekly visit , and I’m normally very antisocial - I just don’t talk to people. The irony is that we had a lot in common because I had kids her age and was very involved in my kids’ lives, so we read a lot of the same book series, watched the same movies, etc. She wanted to meet outside the club and wanted to frick me (no discussion of money), though I’m sure she would eventually be seeking an “arrangment”. I turned her down, of course.
The point I’m getting at is that IF I were single and didn’t want the entanglements of a relationship, hanging out with and fricking a hot college chick once or twice a week would certainly have its appeal and would be worth an easily affordable amount of money. With this chick there would have been no delusions about a real long term relationship due to the age gap, but we legitimately enjoyed each other’s company and had good conversations. It would be a mutually beneficial arrangement, and very different from hirong a random escort on occasion. I think the OP has a good thing going as long as the boundaries and expectations don’t get blurred by either party.
ETA: This girl was bi and had both a boyfriend and a girlfriend in open relationships. Their standing rule was “if you’re not coming home tonight, call and let your SO know so they don’t have to worry about you”. Otherwise they don’t discuss who’s fricking who and when.
My wife has never cared about me going to the strip club because she knows my morals. Though during those couple months she was only mildly amused when I’d come home and joke about my 22 yr. old girlfriend that I keep turning down for sex.
I’ve talked to a lot of girls there over the years and occasionally you hear some interesting stories, but most are vapid, superficial conversations. But at the start of this weekly binge, I met a 22 year old girl that I really connected with. She was very intelligent and was moving to the northwest in the spring to pursue a degree in Sociology with a minor in film (on scholarship). We’d talk for hours each weekly visit , and I’m normally very antisocial - I just don’t talk to people. The irony is that we had a lot in common because I had kids her age and was very involved in my kids’ lives, so we read a lot of the same book series, watched the same movies, etc. She wanted to meet outside the club and wanted to frick me (no discussion of money), though I’m sure she would eventually be seeking an “arrangment”. I turned her down, of course.
The point I’m getting at is that IF I were single and didn’t want the entanglements of a relationship, hanging out with and fricking a hot college chick once or twice a week would certainly have its appeal and would be worth an easily affordable amount of money. With this chick there would have been no delusions about a real long term relationship due to the age gap, but we legitimately enjoyed each other’s company and had good conversations. It would be a mutually beneficial arrangement, and very different from hirong a random escort on occasion. I think the OP has a good thing going as long as the boundaries and expectations don’t get blurred by either party.
ETA: This girl was bi and had both a boyfriend and a girlfriend in open relationships. Their standing rule was “if you’re not coming home tonight, call and let your SO know so they don’t have to worry about you”. Otherwise they don’t discuss who’s fricking who and when.
My wife has never cared about me going to the strip club because she knows my morals. Though during those couple months she was only mildly amused when I’d come home and joke about my 22 yr. old girlfriend that I keep turning down for sex.
This post was edited on 12/19/21 at 3:37 pm
Posted on 12/19/21 at 11:38 am to BluegrassBelle
I have in the past but that didn’t work out so well for me.
Posted on 12/19/21 at 11:52 am to LSU Grad Alabama Fan
I see you go raw. The PT is definitely ready for baw paw 2.0.
Posted on 12/19/21 at 12:07 pm to Mo Jeaux
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Why
Dude is banging a chick who could be his daughters age… for money… then “counseling her in life choices.” If that’s not cringe, I don’t know what is.
Posted on 12/19/21 at 12:33 pm to Deactived
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Lol at the people hating on you telling you to go find girls at the bar for cheaper and whatnot. Screw em
It's not really cheaper for a lot of men. In my case where my bonus is based on how much time I spend working, time spent in bars, lounges is money lost and is a cost I tack on to dating.
This post was edited on 12/19/21 at 12:34 pm
Posted on 12/19/21 at 1:40 pm to LSU Grad Alabama Fan
After reading this thread, i bet a lot of guys will worry if their college student daughters suddenly stop asking for money.
Posted on 12/19/21 at 3:09 pm to Goldrush25
His deal isnt bad at all in terms of cost. We have people in here saying why not just go to bars and find some late 30s or 40 year olds to take home because its cheaper and easier. Plus, you dont have to listen to some 20 year olds problems. Yea because listening to some divorced 38 year old with kids at the bar is so much better.
This might be the most ridiculous thing said in here
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The only way this take is remotely logical is if you assume this dude in the OP can't get a few FWB on his own without having to spend 13% of his income to do so.
He could have 5 FWB at this price with money to spare and get laid way more often and not have to spend hours per week giving them "life advice" which sounds about as fun as pulling teeth.
This might be the most ridiculous thing said in here
Posted on 12/19/21 at 3:18 pm to Deactived
I dont think people have seen what it cost to drink at a bar, shite you looking at 60-100 bar tab and if you gotta go out a few times a week that could add up quick.
Plus food, gas, and time and someone that may not be a sure a thing. 1200 is basically 300 a week, so why not if it is guaranteed weekly.
Plus food, gas, and time and someone that may not be a sure a thing. 1200 is basically 300 a week, so why not if it is guaranteed weekly.
This post was edited on 12/19/21 at 3:23 pm
Posted on 12/19/21 at 3:24 pm to tduecen
And most of the turds in here arent going home with 7s at all, let alone on the regular where money doesnt start to add up. Add in keeping it strictly fwb with older women LOL.
Going out is $20-30 in Ubers alone. Drinks at a decent place is going to be $50 give or take. The chances of going home with a new 7 for a regular guy I am going to put at 25% or less.
That shite will add up quick
Going out is $20-30 in Ubers alone. Drinks at a decent place is going to be $50 give or take. The chances of going home with a new 7 for a regular guy I am going to put at 25% or less.
That shite will add up quick
Posted on 12/19/21 at 3:29 pm to LSU Grad Alabama Fan
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these websites
What would these websites be exactly? Asking for a fellow poster
Posted on 12/19/21 at 3:33 pm to LSU Grad Alabama Fan
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but I'm definitely a Splenda
You sound like a tool
Posted on 12/19/21 at 3:55 pm to LSU Grad Alabama Fan
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quote: 2) she's only fricking you for the money
That sounds like 75% of women.
Sorry you suck at life
Posted on 12/19/21 at 4:07 pm to LSU Grad Alabama Fan
So…y’all are dating.
Posted on 12/19/21 at 4:13 pm to Deactived
quote:i showed up and scored 8.4's on the reg
And most of the turds in here arent going home with 7s at all, let alone on the regular where money doesnt start to add up. Add in keeping it strictly fwb with older women LOL.
Posted on 12/19/21 at 4:13 pm to KirbySmartass
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Hell, probably go this route myself were I to get divorced.
This is most likely the truth for most men if they actually sat down and were honest with themselves.
Dating is NOT cheap, and it isn't very fun either - especially as you get older and the options become more limited, the baggage more intense, etc, etc.
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