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re: Divorced women (who married gay dude)?

Posted on 4/23/25 at 10:33 pm to
Posted by Havoc
Member since Nov 2015
37758 posts
Posted on 4/23/25 at 10:33 pm to
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There is a huge underground ring for oil field workers. Rigs are primetime, boats not so much, unless they are drill ships. But Rigs in the EU big time.

Dude I’m not even gay but you make it sound like so much fun.

But srzly, not gay.
Posted by OWLFAN86
Erotic Novelist
Member since Jun 2004
194854 posts
Posted on 4/23/25 at 10:37 pm to
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unless they are drill ships.
obviously
Posted by Havoc
Member since Nov 2015
37758 posts
Posted on 4/23/25 at 10:38 pm to
Dude
The first time I met a conservative gay dude (my supervisor first job out of college), I realized I didn’t have a problem with the gay thing really; it was all the woke activist agenda shite that I didn’t care for.


Still not gay tho.
Posted by OWLFAN86
Erotic Novelist
Member since Jun 2004
194854 posts
Posted on 4/23/25 at 10:41 pm to
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The first time I met a conservative gay dude (my supervisor first job out of college), I realized I didn’t have a problem with the gay thing really; it was all the woke activist agenda shite that I didn’t care for.

Log Cabin Republican

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Still not gay tho.
methinks tho doth protest too much


the loudesest most vocal anti gay politicians always turn out to be gay
one down here used to comment about my niplle same way queers from this board have
Posted by DeltaTigerDelta
Member since Jan 2017
13514 posts
Posted on 4/23/25 at 11:11 pm to
My brother married his college sweetheart 30 years ago. She was a school teacher. About 3 years into their marriage and 9 months after their first child was born she announced she was leaving him for another teacher named “Steven”. My brother knew the guy from having met him at school functions and said, “no way, he’s gay”. They were married a few months later and it lasted for 25 years. They had 3 kids. Once they were all grown he told her he was gay and was leaving her for a fudgepacker he met on their last cruise. They had taken cruises alot and he evidently always banged guys on the cruises. She went from a 9 to a fat lonely broke 60 year old pig. Karma bit her fat arse in a big way.
Posted by SuperSaint
Sorting Out OT BS Since '2007'
Member since Sep 2007
148459 posts
Posted on 4/23/25 at 11:25 pm to
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I’ve known of about five marriages that ended where I hear later the guy ends up with a male partner
get better acquaintances
Posted by dallastigers
Member since Dec 2003
9611 posts
Posted on 4/23/25 at 11:41 pm to
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I realized I didn’t have a problem with the gay thing really; it was all the woke activist agenda shite that I didn’t care for.


I don’t care to read anything remotely close to shared story in this thread by the poster writing about getting raw dogged and raw dogging anything and everything. I thought it was a joke by an alter at first, but there was way too much sharing in that post. I will just assume that “raw dogging” was not used in the same way as it is used to describe airplane traveling without using, watching, or listening to any form of entertainment for entire flight and also not quite like the term “dogging” was used on a British cop show I saw once and had to look up. That post alone should require this thread to have a NSF tag for several different reasons. That was just nasty.
Posted by rockford177
Virginia
Member since Feb 2008
755 posts
Posted on 4/24/25 at 6:24 am to
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Her mom is smoking hot


Sadly, this is usually the case. It’s extreme, they are either butt ugly or drop dead gorgeous
Posted by Will Cover
Davidson, NC
Member since Mar 2007
39919 posts
Posted on 4/24/25 at 6:42 am to
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Jenious


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Her mom is smoking hot too.


Where are you from? If you are a paid subscriber, private DM me on here.
Posted by Will Cover
Davidson, NC
Member since Mar 2007
39919 posts
Posted on 4/24/25 at 6:50 am to
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Sunnyvale


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I came out to my wife after 5 years of marriage and 3 kids. We decided because of our finanical situtation it would be a soft split.

I work offshore. So while I was out of town at work, I was getting raw dogged and raw dogging by anything that walked, even the females, the malasian galley hands, rough necks, roustabouts, anything out there. Then I would go home and play husband. The 4 week break helped the first 3 years. It was like the honeymoon phase. We both enjoyed it. But after she put on the weight I just couldnt do it anymore. She wasnt into it. And I dont theink she enoyed it anyomre. Her libdo changed so did her attitude and everything else.
But deep down. I was betraying her and everyone else. I would still sneak out to public rest areas, or attend gloy holes I found off reddit and craigslist at night when I told her I was "working Out"
Im a big bruly man. With a lot of hair. Im addicted to the natural sex sweat. It has a different smell to it. Im testosterone, on testosterone.


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So I broke it to her. She has not recovered. She sleeps on the other side of the house. We are planning on attending marriage counseling.


I mean this will all sincerity. Why?

You broke the vows of your marriage, and you broke her trust. You were intentionally deceitful for years and may still be. You are disrespectful to her, and your children. And you are incredibly selfish.

If you truly want healing — for her, for yourself, for your family — it starts with accountability. Not just telling the truth when the damage is done, but owning it, sitting with the pain you’ve caused, and committing to being better. Not out of guilt, but out of love and responsibility. Counseling might help, but only if you're both showing up honestly. Otherwise, you're just repeating the cycle in a different room.
This post was edited on 4/24/25 at 6:51 am
Posted by MRTigerFan
Baton Rouge
Member since Sep 2008
6421 posts
Posted on 4/24/25 at 6:51 am to
I've met quite a few single women over the years who claim their ex was gay with anecdotal evidence. It's pretty common in the +30 dating scene. Maybe some really were gay but I'm certain some of these women were just bitter ex's lashing out
Posted by Loup
Ferriday
Member since Apr 2019
15740 posts
Posted on 4/24/25 at 6:56 am to
one of our sales guys is gay (you'd never guess it) and we get to bullsh*tting pretty often. He said it's pretty common, especially with religious folks. He said when he was younger and dumber he hooked up with dudes married to women quite a bit.
This post was edited on 4/24/25 at 6:57 am
Posted by Penrod
Member since Jan 2011
52402 posts
Posted on 4/24/25 at 7:04 am to
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So your only evidence is that he talks a little funny and doesn't like sports?

Don’t be ridiculous. He’d never make an accusation on such scant evidence. There was also the fact that his dick tasted like shite.
Posted by Epic Cajun
Lafayette, LA
Member since Feb 2013
36486 posts
Posted on 4/24/25 at 7:05 am to
I know of one story. The guy was actually a teacher, married one of his students shortly after high school. Had a child a couple years later. Divorced shortly after and he’s been with dudes ever since. She went on to get remarried and had 2 more kids and has been married for probably around 17 years or so. They are older than me, but I’ve heard most people always thought the dude was gay.
Posted by Sunnyvale
Member since Feb 2024
2393 posts
Posted on 4/24/25 at 7:57 am to
I love my kids, and I do care about her.
We are starting marriage counseling.
I just hate to share the part where I also slept with her brother.
I still care about her. I cant imagine my life without her. So if we can work it out, im going to try.
Posted by WaydownSouth
Stratton Oakmont
Member since Nov 2018
10533 posts
Posted on 4/24/25 at 7:58 am to
I know one. Couple was in college the same time I was. The dude was in an opposing fraternity.

We all predicted he was secretly gay from the mannerisms. Forgot how long they were married, both socials have been scrubbed, but the chick just remarried about 6 months ago.
Posted by Sunnyvale
Member since Feb 2024
2393 posts
Posted on 4/24/25 at 7:58 am to
Yeah, you should try it, There are a lot of gambling, prostitution, offshore and other things that go on after shift. It can be fun. But it also can be rough work.
This post was edited on 4/24/25 at 8:06 am
Posted by N2cars
Close by
Member since Feb 2008
38020 posts
Posted on 4/24/25 at 8:01 am to
If this is a troll, it's the worst troll ever.

If it isn't, you need God in your life.


Go back and delete all that crap.
Posted by HuskyPanda
Philly
Member since Feb 2018
2261 posts
Posted on 4/24/25 at 8:15 am to
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I have gay friends who’ve met a shocking number of married men on Grindr & other apps. Nothing surprises me anymore.


Before Grindr was a thing, I worked with a gay dude whose part time job was banging married men and was surprisingly successful at it.
Posted by soccerfüt
Location: A Series of Tubes
Member since May 2013
72956 posts
Posted on 4/24/25 at 8:24 am to
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I’ve known of about five marriages that ended where I hear later the guy ends up with a male partner. Some of these marriages had kids although a couple were short lived with none.
”Asking for a friend” noted.

Thought you people only wanted your civil unions recognized?
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