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re: Divorce settlement calculators are eye opening - is it really this bad for non-custodial?
Posted on 6/5/24 at 9:54 am to Jcorye1
Posted on 6/5/24 at 9:54 am to Jcorye1
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Above a certain amount, child care amounts should be audited,
There is a statute in Louisiana that allows this to happen. It's rarely used because if it's frivolous or you can't show just cause for it, you would have to pay attorney's fees of the opposing party.
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Posted on 6/5/24 at 9:54 am to idlewatcher
When they get married, he 1000% is taking responsible for that minor. Chip in Jodie, or let the kid live with their paternal father.
Posted on 6/5/24 at 9:55 am to VolSquatch
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And also both parties can agree to waive child support altogether, and I would wager if that happens its usually by some of those "good actors". My wife has said she would if we ever split because she knows I will take care of my kid.
This works until she gets mad at you or you refuse to pay for travel ball.
Posted on 6/5/24 at 9:55 am to StringedInstruments
Don't get married and have kids with whores or sorry arse women.
Don't marry some Yuppie girl. Find you a meek, gentle, kind-spirited country girl. If she knows how to cook, and she carries her Bible and lives by it, and she loves to eat bullfrogs - now there's a woman!
Don't marry some Yuppie girl. Find you a meek, gentle, kind-spirited country girl. If she knows how to cook, and she carries her Bible and lives by it, and she loves to eat bullfrogs - now there's a woman!
Posted on 6/5/24 at 9:58 am to VolSquatch
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And also both parties can agree to waive child support altogether,
This is not true. A lot of judges won’t let you waive support.
Posted on 6/5/24 at 9:58 am to StringedInstruments
Everyone needs to stop marrying the first piece of pussy they find.
Do not marry the wrong woman. It will the biggest mistake you ever make. It touches every facet of your life.
You can make mistakes, its ok just dont frick this one up.
Do not marry the wrong woman. It will the biggest mistake you ever make. It touches every facet of your life.
You can make mistakes, its ok just dont frick this one up.
Posted on 6/5/24 at 9:59 am to Macavity92
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Marriage has nothing to do with it. If you have the kid out of wedlock you still owe child support and the same rules apply.
Says who? The US government? frick them and what they think. Having a partner and having children is a natural human thing.
Posted on 6/5/24 at 10:00 am to StringedInstruments
Divorce is trashy.
Posted on 6/5/24 at 10:02 am to jizzle6609
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Everyone needs to stop marrying the first piece of pussy they find.
Do not marry the wrong woman. It will the biggest mistake you ever make. It touches every facet of your life.
You can make mistakes, its ok just dont frick this one up.
No shite. Quit ignoring red flags and drop that bitch when the pop up. Marriage isn't going to change shite if you have a shite relationship to begin with.
Posted on 6/5/24 at 10:02 am to BoudinChicot
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Divorce is trashy.
Yes, but for many a loveless, sexless, emotionally neglectful marriage is worse.
Posted on 6/5/24 at 10:02 am to sta4ever
You serious bro? 
The court can order a paternity test & avoiding child support will frick up your life.
The court can order a paternity test & avoiding child support will frick up your life. 
Posted on 6/5/24 at 10:04 am to StringedInstruments
My ex and I split in January (it was a long time coming but that's a story for another day). She cleaned my account out, I started back at square 1. Moved on family land since I had nowhere else to go. Paid her $100 a week every week along with a $10k loan I had to take out for my attorney. Gave all my check stubs and bank statements showing living expenses and barely making it starting over while she continues to live outside of her means. They hit me with an additional $430 a month plus having to backpay the $430 a month back to February. She's getting $830 a month for one child and smiling in my face when she meets me to drop off/pick up my daughter. I have no issues supporting my daughter or being a present dad but this is ridiculous. I'm scraping by to make it and she's bragging about eating steak and getting her nails done still on my dime. (rant over) 
Posted on 6/5/24 at 10:06 am to StringedInstruments
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~$800/month
I wish.
I'm paying $2200 a month after it's all included. For 1 kid.
And you're missing the part where you really get fricked. They'll split additional costs at the assigned proportion. So, if mom doesn't make much and dad makes more, mom can sign the kids up for whatever expensive arse private lessons, clubs, etc and dad gets to write checks with no input.
This post was edited on 6/5/24 at 10:08 am
Posted on 6/5/24 at 10:11 am to StringedInstruments
Rule #1 of marriage club.
Always get a pre-nup.
Period. Accept no substitute.
Always get a pre-nup.
Period. Accept no substitute.
Posted on 6/5/24 at 10:12 am to StringedInstruments
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But the mother gets her full salary PLUS $800/month.
This is bad math.
The concept is that the parent with full custody is incurring expenses, and the $800 is to supplement and reimburse for those expenses. No one who is in or near the middle class is raising two kids on $800 a month.
Posted on 6/5/24 at 10:14 am to Snipe
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Rule #1 of marriage club. Always get a pre-nup. Period. Accept no substitute.
You can’t write a prenup to cover child support.
Posted on 6/5/24 at 10:14 am to StringedInstruments
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But the mother gets her full salary PLUS $800/month.
Isn't the presumption that she's also paying $800/month for the 2 kids (since you used the same income for both parents). I've never really factored in how much my kids cost me each month, but I would assume I would save more money if I only had to pay $400 a month per child and only had the kids every other weekend.
Posted on 6/5/24 at 10:14 am to The Torch
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Find you a meek, gentle, kind-spirited country girl.
Sounds fat
Posted on 6/5/24 at 10:14 am to StringedInstruments
You could avoid all of this if you just married a woman who makes good money.
Posted on 6/5/24 at 10:15 am to crazyLSUstudent
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You could avoid all of this if you just married a woman who makes good money.
in theory, not necessarily though
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