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re: Divoced baws of the OT. How did it go down?
Posted on 2/17/20 at 11:13 am to boxcarbarney
Posted on 2/17/20 at 11:13 am to boxcarbarney
That's messed up..
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Posted on 2/17/20 at 11:17 am to Commandeaux
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Then 6 months later after getting that pussy ran through by Tinder Chads and realizing that she was just getting fricked and no one really likes her like that...she texts the husband and asks the cliched question to gauge his interest of getting back together..."Whatcha doin big head".
I’m working with a person that is going through a separation. She was a big girl about six months ago. Today, she’s not. The transformation has been incredible.
I foun’t out that her husband was verbally abusive to her, saying she will never get anyone because she was too fat. So she made it her mission to lose weight and water cooler talk has it, she is banging every Joey and Chad on Tinder with quite the frequency.
Sad, comical and expected are three thoughts that have crossed my mind.
Posted on 2/17/20 at 11:18 am to sportsaddit68
I'm a single dude and these stories always scare me.
I was close to taking the steps to getting married to my last girlfriend but thankfully we split amicably.
I don't want to be a part of these stats and stories.
I was close to taking the steps to getting married to my last girlfriend but thankfully we split amicably.
I don't want to be a part of these stats and stories.
Posted on 2/17/20 at 11:18 am to fightin tigers
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I'm simply stating that monogamy goes against human nature. Monogamy is something we force ourselves into.
I mean, it's no different than 1000 other things in my life that I choose to do/not do that aren't immediately gratifying. I get up in the morning. I eat healthy. Exercise. Work. etc. etc. etc.
Each of those enhances my life a hell of a lot than the alternative.
Obviously, we all have sexual desires. Is that your only point?
Posted on 2/17/20 at 11:24 am to greenbean
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Women see the "Facebook lives" of their friends and want that, even though it is probably not real.
I guess I'm lucky in one aspect, my wife sees right through all the phony FB fairytale lives alot of her friends live.
Posted on 2/17/20 at 11:25 am to lsunurse
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infertility
This shite is tough. A friend of mine has wanted to be a mom since she was a little girl, just an absolute nurturing type of girl through and through, but has been struggling to have a baby. She's 34 and she's had 2 miscarriages. Her (now ex) husband refused to go get his sperm tested and all the other things you can do on the male side of the equation. She was/is really torn up about it, feels like she's a failure for not being able to fulfill her biological purpose etc. It was only one factor in their divorce, but I think it spoke to the larger issues like - lack of communication and inability to see/understand your partner's desires.
Posted on 2/17/20 at 11:26 am to Cosmo
Wife's former best friend destroyed her husband in divorce.
She had obviously been planning for several years.
Got him for 15 months alimony.
Guy just got rocked.
She had obviously been planning for several years.
Got him for 15 months alimony.
Guy just got rocked.
Posted on 2/17/20 at 11:27 am to Privateer 2007
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Got him for 15 months alimony.
That's not very much alimony.
Posted on 2/17/20 at 11:28 am to Boring
Man, frick that guy
Posted on 2/17/20 at 11:31 am to Boring
Photos?
Posted on 2/17/20 at 11:31 am to moneyg
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. I get up in the morning. I eat healthy. Exercise. Work. etc. etc. etc.
So you equate these to not cheating?
Not even close.
Posted on 2/17/20 at 11:33 am to fightin tigers
We are not animals. We have a conscience. We are given a brain and the ability to make judgments and determine right from wrong. We are given the capacity to constrain ourself against the desires of the flesh for the greater good.
But you do you.
But you do you.
Posted on 2/17/20 at 11:34 am to redstick13
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15 months isn't very much
When both are professional degree holders and he makes barely more than her it is.
I just hate alimony.
It's basically retroactive prostitution.
Posted on 2/17/20 at 11:34 am to Pettifogger
quote:I’m thinking the former is becoming more and more like this
OT/SECR speak as going from Alabama grad (good hearted, reasonably smart, forward looking) to Alabama sidewalk fan (good hearted, not smart, nearsighted, townie).
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On the other hand, jaded, overly educated, urbane types get married older. They're more mature, may be in more secure spots professionally and probably know what they can handle/not handle in relationships. T
Posted on 2/17/20 at 11:35 am to Privateer 2007
I know someone who has to pay alimony to his ex wife for the rest of their lives. 15 months is child's play.
Posted on 2/17/20 at 11:36 am to boosiebadazz
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Man, frick that guy
He's your typical country baw. Can't face the fact that his swimmers might be a little fricked up from years of drinking and smoking, thinks doctors/medicine/science is all a bunch of medical mumbo jumbo. Probably still thinks babies come from the stork, but I tried to explain to him that humans don't frick storks.
Posted on 2/17/20 at 11:36 am to Boring
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infertility
This shite is tough
I think for us it's just the stress from it all. Past 5 years of our life as been centered on it...with no results. It takes a toll on your marriage in so many ways. Anyone that has struggled with infertility can attest to that. Add in I'm helping a mentally ill parent and didn't have better established boundaries with my father (so took the marriage for granted) and it doesn't take long for things to go south.
Obviously baby stuff is paused right now. And I have to be honest. As much as I would love to be a mom one day...I want my husband and my marriage more. He knows this as well. Give me the choice that I can either have a baby or have my husband and I'm 100% without a doubt choosing my husband.
I'm not the one having doubts about us though...he is. So it sucks cause ball is totally in his court. I mean I can work on me and the issues and try and give him what he needs from the marriage. But in the end...he can decide he doesn't want this marriage anymore and there is nothing I can do at that point. Game over.
Posted on 2/17/20 at 11:36 am to fightin tigers
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I'm simply stating that monogamy goes against human nature. Monogamy is something we force ourselves into.
The problem is that you’re not simply a biological organism. If “human nature” drove all of our decisions and actions we’d all still be raping women and clubbing each other over the head for food.
Saying monogamy goes against “human nature” is just a way of justifying avoiding what is perhaps the most important kind of relationship from a social perspective. I’m not saying everyone should get married, but the majority of people probably should. De-normalizing monogamy is a terrible and flawed idea.
Posted on 2/17/20 at 11:37 am to boxcarbarney
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I know a guy who got divorced a few months after the wedding. He had surgery, and his wife never picked him up from the hospital. He got a ride home, and opened the door to find the house cleaned out.
That's it? There was no underlying issue in their marriage, or he didn't see any red flags prior to marriage?
Posted on 2/17/20 at 11:38 am to fightin tigers
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Humans aren't meant to be monogamous.
Best I can tell is that it spreads from there.
Let me know how many polygamist societies succeeded in history..
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