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re: Dinner Host Asking for Money when you are Leaving
Posted on 12/9/20 at 6:34 pm to Skippy1013
Posted on 12/9/20 at 6:34 pm to Skippy1013
frick that!
When we have a party, I expect to foot the bill and clean up. If someone offers to bring something and/or help clean up I accept, but never expect it and would NEVER ask for money.
When we have a party, I expect to foot the bill and clean up. If someone offers to bring something and/or help clean up I accept, but never expect it and would NEVER ask for money.
Posted on 12/9/20 at 6:35 pm to Skippy1013
Pay the 30, then grab a bottle from his liquor cabinet on your way out and say “thanks”
Posted on 12/9/20 at 6:36 pm to Skippy1013
quote:
brother in law asks each family for $30 to cover the food!
WTF is wrong with him?
Posted on 12/9/20 at 6:36 pm to Skippy1013
I think this is why no one's ever come for dinner at my house. I've invited a lot of people but no one ever accepts.
Posted on 12/9/20 at 6:37 pm to Skippy1013
I would’ve given it, then walked back in and grabbed the pan of green bean casserole, mac & cheese and turkey, then walked the frick out.
Posted on 12/9/20 at 6:38 pm to Skippy1013
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my wife says to forget it.
Just listen to her
Posted on 12/9/20 at 6:39 pm to Skippy1013
I love this website. I’ve been hit up to cover a portion of 3 different hosted events this month.
Mind you I’ve hosted 2 events this month myself and wouldn’t want a single dollar from anyone. Because that’s how you host.
Mind you I’ve hosted 2 events this month myself and wouldn’t want a single dollar from anyone. Because that’s how you host.
Posted on 12/9/20 at 6:41 pm to Hogwarts
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but understandable.
Absolutely not. Don’t host a party you can’t afford.
Posted on 12/9/20 at 6:42 pm to NawlinsTiger9
Sounds like multi level marketing
Posted on 12/9/20 at 6:42 pm to Skippy1013
Wtf?
As a good host you assume all the reasonable costs.
As a good guest you should always bring gifts, food, offer to help.
But you never, EVER ask for payment, unless it was somehow specified beforehand.
As a good host you assume all the reasonable costs.
As a good guest you should always bring gifts, food, offer to help.
But you never, EVER ask for payment, unless it was somehow specified beforehand.
Posted on 12/9/20 at 6:42 pm to Skippy1013
That’s crazy to me and completely ruins the dinner party honestly, especially if not talked about beforehand. I think socializing and the norms of it have completely been lost in the internet age
Posted on 12/9/20 at 6:42 pm to LouisianaLady
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love this website. I’ve been hit up to cover a portion of 3 different hosted events this month.
Mind you I’ve hosted 2 events this month myself and wouldn’t want a single dollar from anyone. Because that’s how you host.
Wow. 5 events in 9 days... You must be exhausted... Ha
Posted on 12/9/20 at 6:44 pm to Skippy1013
Should have given him a bill for $40 for providing entertainment. Then just told him to call it even. See you at Christmas.
Posted on 12/9/20 at 6:45 pm to LCA131
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I hate that he asked but maybe you should have offered.
If I invite people over to eat and drink I’m not asking anyone for anything, the thought of someone doing that makes my skin crawl.
Posted on 12/9/20 at 6:45 pm to LCA131
My brother is getting married. Not all of the events are this month. I’ve just been hit up from them all this month.
Posted on 12/9/20 at 6:46 pm to LouisianaLady
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This post was edited on 12/27/20 at 9:53 am
Posted on 12/9/20 at 6:47 pm to gizmothepug
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If I invite people over to eat and drink I’m not asking anyone for anything, the thought of someone doing that makes my skin crawl
Right!? It’s anathema to good hosting etiquette. And if you do have some conditions like bring a dish or BYOB, you specify it in the invite
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