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Dinner Host Asking for Money when you are Leaving

Posted on 12/9/20 at 6:27 pm
Posted by Skippy1013
Lafayette, La
Member since Oct 2017
512 posts
Posted on 12/9/20 at 6:27 pm
So at Thanksgiving, all of the family, wives and kids go to brother in law and sister in laws house, at their invitation. Full spread, food is great, everyone has a good time.

When everyone is about to leave, brother in law asks each family for $30 to cover the food! Of course we gave it to him. It made me a little angry, my wife says to forget it.

Now he and his wife are working, so it’s not a thing like him being laid off. Bottom line is he’s a cheap skate.

What does the OT think?
Posted by patnuh
South LA
Member since Sep 2005
6715 posts
Posted on 12/9/20 at 6:28 pm to
I woulda gave him $200 and told him to shove it.
Posted by NawlinsTiger9
Where the mongooses roam
Member since Jan 2009
34898 posts
Posted on 12/9/20 at 6:28 pm to
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brother in law asks each family for $30 to cover the food!


I have never heard of any family doing this, especially when it's not pre-agreed upon
Posted by Hogwarts
Arkansas, USA
Member since Sep 2015
18051 posts
Posted on 12/9/20 at 6:28 pm to
Did everyone bring food or did he provide it all? If he was the one who provided everything, it’s tacky but understandable.
Posted by AUCE05
Member since Dec 2009
42566 posts
Posted on 12/9/20 at 6:29 pm to
Did this include Rona?
Posted by WigSplitta22
The Bottom
Member since Apr 2014
1470 posts
Posted on 12/9/20 at 6:29 pm to
I would have laughed at that stupid fricker. You invite people over then you foot the bill
Posted by Tigers0891
Baton Rouge
Member since Aug 2017
6565 posts
Posted on 12/9/20 at 6:29 pm to
They should have asked others to contribute to the spread.
Posted by LSUBoo
Knoxville, TN
Member since Mar 2006
101919 posts
Posted on 12/9/20 at 6:29 pm to
Tacky as frick unless it was all prearranged.

I would never ask for such a thing.
Posted by Hulkklogan
Baton Rouge, LA
Member since Oct 2010
43299 posts
Posted on 12/9/20 at 6:30 pm to
If you don't have people agree to pitch in as part of the deal then it's a scumbag move.
Posted by LoneStar23
USA
Member since Aug 2019
5167 posts
Posted on 12/9/20 at 6:30 pm to
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Did this include Rona?

No you pussy
Posted by L Boogie
Texas
Member since Jul 2009
5048 posts
Posted on 12/9/20 at 6:30 pm to
I think I wouldn't invite a bunch of people over for a meal on a holiday that is known for copious amounts of food if I weren't prepared to foot the bill for it.

I also think that I would give the money without argument, but I would also never again accept an invitation of any sort from that couple. Family or not, there are right and wrong ways to do things and springing shite on your guests at the last minute is not the right way.
Posted by BackInBlackTiger
Member since Mar 2014
2309 posts
Posted on 12/9/20 at 6:30 pm to
Clearly not an OT Baller family gathering
Posted by LCA131
Home of the Fake Sig lines
Member since Feb 2008
72598 posts
Posted on 12/9/20 at 6:30 pm to
I hate that he asked but maybe you should have offered. A Lot of work goes into it... Plus food, and clean up etc.

I hope y'all work it out, he sounds like a great guy... You piker.
Posted by Otto Scorzany
Member since Nov 2020
1027 posts
Posted on 12/9/20 at 6:31 pm to
Brother-in-law in trash. Period. End of story.
Posted by go ta hell ole miss
Member since Jan 2007
13626 posts
Posted on 12/9/20 at 6:31 pm to
Time to ask him to chip in on gas money since you had to drive to his house.
Posted by RougeDawg
Member since Jul 2016
5851 posts
Posted on 12/9/20 at 6:32 pm to
$3.50
Posted by Jim Rockford
Member since May 2011
98185 posts
Posted on 12/9/20 at 6:32 pm to
With tip that's $36.
Posted by kywildcatfanone
Wildcat Country!
Member since Oct 2012
119144 posts
Posted on 12/9/20 at 6:32 pm to
Seems odd if not mentioned beforehand. I would have had to ask him if he took plastic, cause I don't carry cash.
Posted by gjackx
Red Stick
Member since Jan 2007
16523 posts
Posted on 12/9/20 at 6:33 pm to
This HAS to be a talkedaboutbeforehand sort of thing, if not...just WOW!
Posted by Loungefly85
Lafayette
Member since Jul 2016
7930 posts
Posted on 12/9/20 at 6:33 pm to
Reminds me of a trashy buddy of mine. A couple of years ago he moved into a new apartment that didn’t allow pets. He had a beautiful, but older husky and his only options were giving it away or taking it to the pound.

He didn’t have many friends so I hooked him up with another friend of mine that was willing to adopt his dog as a favor to me. The fricker asked for a $200 “re-homing fee”.
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