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re: Childless middle aged baws

Posted on 6/22/20 at 9:20 am to
Posted by DWaginHTown
Houston, TX
Member since Jan 2006
10216 posts
Posted on 6/22/20 at 9:20 am to
yeah, kinda
Posted by Rize
Spring Texas
Member since Sep 2011
19855 posts
Posted on 6/22/20 at 9:20 am to
Nope. I’ve got nieces and nephews that are fun to hang out with but they go home at the end of the day.
Posted by TDsngumbo
Member since Oct 2011
51666 posts
Posted on 6/22/20 at 9:21 am to
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Not one bit. Particularly because of how fricked up things are currently.

What’s going on right now is a direct result of shitty parents. Have children, fill your life with the purest form of joy possible, and be an involved & loving parent. Teach them right from wrong and let them fail when they don’t listen. Comfort them after they fail and explain how to not repeat their failure next time. Show them you’re there to be their rock.

It’s not difficult but you will frick up many times. Just make sure you don’t more often than you do. You won’t regret it.
Posted by Centinel
Idaho
Member since Sep 2016
46784 posts
Posted on 6/22/20 at 9:21 am to
No kids here. Wasn't really planned, just the way life ended up. Wife never really pushed for kids, and neither did I, and we spent most of our 30s apart while I was deployed overseas. By the time I was home and out of the military, that ship had sailed.



Posted by fallguy_1978
Best States #50
Member since Feb 2018
53839 posts
Posted on 6/22/20 at 9:21 am to
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Naw. I love my nieces and nephews but I’m good. I enjoy my lifestyle too much to disrupt it at 42 years old

We are roughly the same age.

I don't want any more at this point but I don't regret having kids at all.
Posted by brewhan davey
Audubon Place
Member since Sep 2010
33409 posts
Posted on 6/22/20 at 9:22 am to
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I am 31 now, so I'll probably raise a child later.


Same here. My wife and I both work full time in very demanding jobs with little down time. Plus she is a medical resident, so she’s always maintained that she does not want to start thinking about kids at least until she finishes (in about 3 years). I’ve got a lot of growing up to do before I can be a father as well
Posted by Ignignot
Member since Mar 2009
18823 posts
Posted on 6/22/20 at 9:22 am to
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Let me tell you, there is nothing that will steal your heart like your baby wrapping her tiny hand around your finger for the first time. It’s indescribable. Those arms thrown around the neck. The “daddy I love you”s

You can’t buy that kind of feeling. There’s no high in the world like it.


Amen brother
Posted by danilo
Member since Nov 2008
26357 posts
Posted on 6/22/20 at 9:22 am to
I am 36 and don’t see kids anytime soon. No regrets yet
Posted by TDsngumbo
Member since Oct 2011
51666 posts
Posted on 6/22/20 at 9:24 am to
It’s easy to not regret something you have no clue about. If you ever have kids you will feel stupid for not having them sooner. 100% guaranteed.
Posted by kywildcatfanone
Wildcat Country!
Member since Oct 2012
141284 posts
Posted on 6/22/20 at 9:24 am to
I do regret it for several reasons, including the ending of my family name with me. However, when I married I knew my wife didn't want children, so I didn't walk into it blind.

We did have a pregnancy that ended in the 4th month, and were too despondent to try again because of age.

But, the world is a lunatic place today, so in that sense, I'm glad I don't have to worry about my kids and how their future will look.
Posted by Sidicous
NELA
Member since Aug 2015
19296 posts
Posted on 6/22/20 at 9:26 am to
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Regret not having kids?
Not one bit.

I don't have to worry about the future that is going to be wrought by the current crop of unparented individuals.

Here's to Hillary's Village raised kids:
Posted by deltaland
Member since Mar 2011
103954 posts
Posted on 6/22/20 at 9:27 am to
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thought it said “childish middle aged baws”


This is 90% of the OT
Posted by tduecen
Member since Nov 2006
161246 posts
Posted on 6/22/20 at 9:29 am to
So glad my life doesn't revolve around a kid... To many people have no idea who they are once the kid leaves the nest
Posted by Saint Alfonzo
Member since Jan 2019
31142 posts
Posted on 6/22/20 at 9:31 am to
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What’s going on right now is a direct result of shitty parents. Have children, fill your life with the purest form of joy possible, and be an involved & loving parent. Teach them right from wrong and let them fail when they don’t listen. Comfort them after they fail and explain how to not repeat their failure next time. Show them you’re there to be their rock. It’s not difficult but you will frick up many times. Just make sure you don’t more often than you do. You won’t regret it.


My wife and I are almost fifty, the child rearing years are well behind us. Her one child is grown and gone, we're in dink territory now. Absolutely no regrets for us.
Posted by fallguy_1978
Best States #50
Member since Feb 2018
53839 posts
Posted on 6/22/20 at 9:33 am to
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To many people have no idea who they are once the kid leaves the nest

It is a little odd when it's just me and the wife at home for a few days alone. We'll probably be empty nesters in 5-6 years too.
Posted by el Gaucho
He/They
Member since Dec 2010
60254 posts
Posted on 6/22/20 at 9:35 am to
Is this some crafty way to say “gay dudes”?
Posted by GreatLakesTiger24
Member since May 2012
61640 posts
Posted on 6/22/20 at 9:36 am to
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To many people have no idea who they are once the kid leaves the nest

seems like this happens to a large % of mothers as soon as the kid is born
Posted by whoisnickdoobs
Lafayette
Member since Apr 2012
9352 posts
Posted on 6/22/20 at 9:37 am to
37 and no kids yet. Probably start trying in a year or so.
Posted by GumboPot
Member since Mar 2009
140573 posts
Posted on 6/22/20 at 9:41 am to
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It's the one thing I feel like is missing.

Few things make me angrier than people with kids telling me how lucky I am to not have kids.


From a viable strand of DNA/RNA surrounded by a protein strand (a virus) to a multicellular, multi organ intelligent organism ALL DNA/RNA wants to replicate.
Posted by AUriptide
Member since Aug 2009
7459 posts
Posted on 6/22/20 at 9:42 am to
33 and don't regret.
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