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re: Cease and Desist in marriage?
Posted on 7/13/17 at 8:58 am to mikelbr
Posted on 7/13/17 at 8:58 am to mikelbr
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Yep even in this day and age a woman can financially ruin a household with debt the husband doesn't know about.
On the flipside, husbands do this via gambling or drugs. But more often it's the wife who then cries "i was buying stuff for the family" when she's outed for having 7 credit cards maxed out at 24% on $50k.
I can honestly say that my wife doesn't have any vices that would cause her to rack up huge amounts of debt. She's just not that type. Except for 'rone. He has a spell on her.
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Posted on 7/13/17 at 9:02 am to Honest Tune
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Lawyers. Lawyers should be called.
This is true. And when it's over the Lawyers will have all the money in the account. He's screwed either way.
Posted on 7/13/17 at 9:04 am to Will Cover
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Except for 'rone
And me too. Been looking at houses in your area now that my ch7 is over 5 years discharged. I could be your neighbor, bitches.
Posted on 7/13/17 at 9:05 am to mikelbr
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Women tend to open accounts the husband doesn't know about when married and signing them up as cosigner without batting an eye
How can this happen? Married or not, how can you have some cosign anything without them knowing? I didn't know that was possible.
Posted on 7/13/17 at 9:06 am to mikelbr
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And me too. Been looking at houses in your area now that my ch7 is over 5 years discharged. I could be your neighbor, bitches.
Come on. We actually have a 3 bedroom house in our neighborhood that is really nice but not moving ... because it is 3 bedroom. Owner will go as low as $280K, which is "cheap."
There are other options as well in our neighborhood - all 4 bedrooms. All around $340K and up.
This post was edited on 7/13/17 at 9:07 am
Posted on 7/13/17 at 9:11 am to Will Cover
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My wife is on everything I have. Even my future business. I trust her
Nope, the only person on this planet that I can 100% guarantee will never frick me over is me.
This post was edited on 7/13/17 at 9:11 am
Posted on 7/13/17 at 9:12 am to Will Cover
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but I have been informed that his bank account (they shared an account) has had a "hold" placed on it.
I've been in banking for 20 years and this makes absolutely no sense. If he is an joint owner of the acct the bank has no right to put a hold on it. Only the IRS, our court order can place a "hold" on a deposit account.
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Chances are she went into a branch and wiped out all the funds in the account. I've seen it happen and the joint owner can't do anything about it.
Needs to call a lawyer pronto!
This post was edited on 7/13/17 at 9:16 am
Posted on 7/13/17 at 9:14 am to LSUBanker
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I've been in banking for 20 years and this makes absolutely no sense. If he is an joint owner of the acct the bank has no right to put a hold on it. Only the IRS, our court order can place a "hold" on a deposit account.
That's what I initially thought as well, but obviously I am not well versed in divorce, attorneys or cease and desist letters.
FWIW, my friend lives in a different state. Not sure if this plays a part in it?
Posted on 7/13/17 at 9:15 am to DirtyMikeandtheBoys
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Nope, the only person on this planet that I can 100% guarantee will never frick me over is me.
Drunk you sees this as a challenge.
Posted on 7/13/17 at 9:17 am to LSUBoo
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Drunk you sees this as a challenge.
True, but I still trust drunk me over every other person on this earth. No telling what is going through anyone's head, and sometimes people can just flip a switch
Posted on 7/13/17 at 9:20 am to Will Cover
This is why I'm going on a financial kamikaze spree if I see a hint of divorce coming. I know there are community property laws, but I'm trying to sell the house and cars and shite from under her without her knowledge. Then draining the savings and hitting the casino to launder some money.....or double up.....or just lose it all so nobody can be happy.
Posted on 7/13/17 at 9:21 am to Will Cover
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Any advice to offer him except to not get married again?
she was getting a dick.
Posted on 7/13/17 at 9:32 am to Chad504boy
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she was getting a dick.
Certainly could be the case. New ding dong has a certain appeal to certain women.
Posted on 7/13/17 at 9:36 am to kciDAtaE
It is possible. My ex forged my signature and used my salary information to obtain a loan to buy a car while we were separated. I didn't even know about it until I went to buy a house a year after the divorce was finalized and it was on my credit report. I called the loan company and they said I was on the hook and nothing could be done since we were married at the time but I could file criminal charges. He refinanced in his name only so I didn't.
Granted we did a DIY divorce because it was a starter marriage with no children or assets or debt (that I knew of) to split so I don't know if it would have been different if we had attorneys involved or if there was a legal separation.
Granted we did a DIY divorce because it was a starter marriage with no children or assets or debt (that I knew of) to split so I don't know if it would have been different if we had attorneys involved or if there was a legal separation.
This post was edited on 7/13/17 at 9:40 am
Posted on 7/13/17 at 9:48 am to RedlandsTiger
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Lawyers will have all the money
Yep. At this point, if this story is true,the poor bastard should only be concerned with his young one.
Posted on 7/13/17 at 9:49 am to mikelbr
It's a door that swings both ways. My wife's friend's husband got busted with a prostitute last year, so she filed for divorce. He lost his job around that time (we didn't know why at the time, but I'm sure it was connected to his bust), but that year he had made a tad under $300K and got a severance package of $400K+. He hid all the money. She has access to nothing. Her attorney fees are over $40K already and still climbing.
Posted on 7/13/17 at 9:51 am to Will Cover
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Wife left over a month ago to visit with her family out of town. She never returned.
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He has been of the mindset that they were going to work things out
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they have a young child together.
Your friend is a fricking idiot. Where is the kid?
Posted on 7/13/17 at 9:52 am to KG6
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This is why I'm going on a financial kamikaze spree if I see a hint of divorce coming. I know there are community property laws, but I'm trying to sell the house and cars and shite from under her without her knowledge. Then draining the savings and hitting the casino to launder some money.....or double up.....or just lose it all so nobody can be happy.
100% this. I will go out in a blaze of glory and a hail of gunfire before I step foot in a divorce court.
Posted on 7/13/17 at 9:55 am to Breesus
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Your friend is a fricking idiot. Where is the kid?
He hasn't and continues to make bad decisions.
The child is with her mother in another state. And has been. For over a month.
Not sure how this is "acceptable," "legal," or whatever.
Posted on 7/13/17 at 9:57 am to Will Cover
Record anything she sends him, dates, times, and even phone calls (after telling her he's recording of course). Start building ammunition, because it's obvious she was probably banging another person.
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