re: Bachelor Nation: 70% of Men Aged 20-34 Are Not Married

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she gets domiciliary status and you have to pay child support (the calculation includes her income)

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Knew a guy that fell into this category. His wife finished her degree in engineering and upon moving up the ranks, left him for a guy making deep into six figures. So, between the two, they were making almost $300K and she went after her X for every drop of child support(he made about $40K)

Now, I know I know. He's legally obligated blah blah blah.

If you go after someone for child support in that situation, especially given you moved far enough away that he basically never sees the kids, you're just a fricking count. That the courts allow it is criminal

you are overthinking it man.

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I've spent plenty of time in very urban areas, and sure, what you are talking about is out there, but it is not the dominant relationship structure

not even close really

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99% of the extreme social justice/feminism movement you read about exists only on the internet.

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more and more guys are jerking off to them and expecting that level of quality for every woman. same with the internet porn they're addicted to. they're seeing a skewed percentage of attractive women that doesn't accurately represent the real world.

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That's why I only jerk it to ugly girls. Makes you appreciate things a bit more.

American women are the fricking pits.

I'm done with them. A bunch of cardboard cut out sluts.

I hear you. I have never done online dating so I don't really know what you are experiencing but I have heard it from several folks. seems miserable.

A few rules to go by:
1. Men attract women by differentiating themselves. They find a "talent" so to speak and exploit it. You can be athletically gifted, attractive, funny, musically talented, a great dancer, witty, ect. A guy has to have something that sets him apart.

2. Most women attract men by doing the opposite. They conform to a "norm" so to speak that they believe is the template for attracting a man. Just read gossip magazines like Cosmo or visit Sorority Row. Women are drawn to conform to a standard in order to attract men whom they believe desire that template of a women.

3. What women want and what women think they want are often two very very very different things.

4. What women say they want and what women think they want and what women actually want are three even more different things (remember, they're conforming to what they think you want).

5. What women want and what they are attracted to are often polar opposites. I have seen this often with female friends who fall into the SJW category (the straight ones, anyhow). They rant and rave about misogynists and the patriarchy, but if their man doesn't defend them enough, they go apeshit. However, if their "wussy" man suddenly bowes up and acts like a man, she's on his junk faster than Speedy Gonzales on Pepperjack Cheese. Women generally desire a manly, aggressive male, but they want a weak, passive one that they can boss around.

6. The birth control pill has been proven to alter the perception of women regarding the attractiveness of their mates. Women on the pill ten to be attracted to more androgynous men while women off the pill desire more burly, stereotype "male" types. It has to do with the types of hormones used in the pill.

7. Women want security, but desire excitement. No woman gets wet thinking about a guy's 401k, but a guy who shreds like Eddie Van Halen and drives a motor cycle is generally going to be pretty attractive. However, when women are younger, they are more willing to give into their "attractive" impulses. As they age, society beats them down until they settle for "security". A guy who provides both will always win over one who can only do one or the other.

8. Women used to also be able to differentiate themselves via housekeeping skills. However, this generation, and to a lesser extent, the generation before them, has completely missed out on these essential skills. Most young women can't cook. Even fewer of them are willing to clean, know how to sew, garden, bake, or have any real useful skills. Their parents created a generation of spoiled, narcissistic women who have little to offer society but their looks, but then complain that that is the only metric by which they are judged. Sure, there are tons of intelligent career women out there. But if little sorority Susie expects to be able to attain her Mrs. degree, she better learn something more valuable than "looks effortlessly cute in her giant t-shirt and nike shorts".

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Are you a female?

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link has been pretty spot on in this thread IMO

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Hmm. Well, I generally disagree, but I was wondering about the cause of the amount of effort link was putting into criticizing guys. Thought link may be a female.

I'm just straight up and tell the truth. If you suck, I'm gonna tell you and not just cut all communication with no explanation. I don't do that to hurt the girls or try and change them. I do it because I'm a straight shooter. Maybe of more girls listened to what a guy wants, they'd be married and not bitching about guys.

What that also means is that I'm not gonna change myself just to fit into what some broad wants. Few girls are willing to put up with my bad traits, but the ones who can see that the good outweighs the bad are who I'm interested in. I'm not gonna willing to get married until I find one like that.