re: ASK the OT - Dating tips

Man. You (woman) gotta be really living paycheck to paycheck to bang in exchange for a dinner

See, this is why I don't even say yes when I get asked if I'd like a drink in a bar. So many women use this kind of shite as payment for sex that now a huge % of men expect that when they buy you something. Screw that. I'll take a shot with you dude, but I'm putting it on my own tab. Too many times I've seen certain types of dudes lose their shite because a woman accept drinks from him and then went back to her own place alone at the end of the night.

Exceptions - I was in San Diego last year at a little Italian joint, sitting at the bar. Chatted it up with this very nice man. Closer to my dad's age than my own, but certainly someone who could pull women my age (clearly rich, charismatic, attractive, etc.). He finished his glass of wine and closed out his tab and left (I mentioned my SO, so he didn't ask for my # or anything). I closed out my tab a little while later and the bartender told me the guy had taken care of it before he left. Now THAT is awesome, I'll admit.

Stop posting please

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Man. You (woman) gotta be really living paycheck to paycheck to bang in exchange for a dinner

See, this is why I don't even say yes when I get asked if I'd like a drink in a bar. So many women use this kind of shite as payment for sex that now a huge % of men expect that when they buy you something. Screw that. I'll take a shot with you dude, but I'm putting it on my own tab. Too many times I've seen certain types of dudes lose their shite because a woman accept drinks from him and then went back to her own place alone at the end of the night.

Exceptions - I was in San Diego last year at a little Italian joint, sitting at the bar. Chatted it up with this very nice man. Closer to my dad's age than my own, but certainly someone who could pull women my age (clearly rich, charismatic, attractive, etc.). He finished his glass of wine and closed out his tab and left (I mentioned my SO, so he didn't ask for my # or anything). I closed out my tab a little while later and the bartender told me the guy had taken care of it before he left. Now THAT is awesome, I'll admit.

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You're not like most girls though. You have a healthier view of yourself than the average, insecure ho who needs the attention.

I was in Charleston a month ago visiting a couple of friends and we went out to some bars. There was this gorgeous girl standing by herself at the bar and no one would talk to her. I walked over and talked to her for a few minutes and then ordered myself a drink. She said "are you going to buy me a drink?" I laughed and said "hell no. Are you going to buy me a drink?" She was kind of shocked but just laughed. We ended up talking for a while and I told her I was engaged but she didn't care. I'm not sure if she was interested sexually but I got the feeling she could be if I took the convo in that direction. I had no interest in that way, but I knew I wasn't going to trade drinks for conversation. If you need me to buy you a drink in order for you to talk to me, then I don't have time for you.

I dated a feminist who insisted on paying for her own meals, wouldn't let me open doors for her, etc. It was awesome.

Now we know why username is fairplay instead of foreplay.

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dinner on first date?

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Why are you doing this to begin with?

The coveted 28 downvote post. Well done.

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my friend was picked up by the women and split the date

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Your friend was picked up by multiple women who paid for his company?

That's solid alpha male right there.