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re: ASK the OT - Dating tips
Posted on 5/24/17 at 12:17 pm to fareplay
Posted on 5/24/17 at 12:17 pm to fareplay
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I feel there is a generation gap here, but my friend was picked up by the women and split the date. is this acceptable now?
There's something really sad about the idea of a man standing on the side of the road waiting for his "date" to pick him up. So no, that's not ok.
Yes, it's ok for a woman to pay for half of the meal. A lot of broads go on dates with guys and say stuff like this to their friends: "Well, he's ok but at least I'll get a free meal out of it ha ha."
Asking for 2 checks when you're about to tab out is a good way to gauge how interested she really is.
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Posted on 5/24/17 at 12:17 pm to btnetigers
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Is it ever okay to PIIHB on the fist date?
If your fist can fit in her butt, just go crazy because you will not want a second date.
Posted on 5/24/17 at 12:18 pm to fareplay
McDonald's doesn't cost that much... don't be a chump
I don't text them back until after 3 days of going dark... it lets them know I don't care
I'm usually drunk by the time we're supposed to meet, so it's probably better that she drives
I don't text them back until after 3 days of going dark... it lets them know I don't care
I'm usually drunk by the time we're supposed to meet, so it's probably better that she drives
Posted on 5/24/17 at 12:19 pm to fareplay
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to be fair, women think that a guy knowing where she lives is a bit uncomfortable
if you think that woman are uncomfortable by guys knowing where they live, I'm sorry Guy but you are the creepy one Posted on 5/24/17 at 12:19 pm to TheOcean
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I'd be more poor than I am now if I took every girl to dinner on a first date. Dinner dates on first dates also screams chump.
Dinner dates aren't a great idea for a first date unless you go to a cool place where there are things to entertain you other than food.
Posted on 5/24/17 at 12:24 pm to fareplay
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Is it ever ok to ask a women to split or pay for a dinner on first date?
I do this all the time. If she is actually attracted to you she won't give a shite. If she is looking to use you as a resource extractor than she will care, but you don't want to continue things with such a woman anyway. So never pay for early dates. What do you have to lose? I've had women pay for me at times. I never pay for her share.
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Is it ever ok to text back immediately after a date?
No because it makes you look like a clingy type with no other female options. Wait at least 48 hours, preferably 72 or more.
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Is it ever ok to be picked up by the female?
No but I generally don't pick her up on early dates, I meet her somewhere.
Posted on 5/24/17 at 12:25 pm to MasterofTigerBait
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I would never ask them to split. I'm trying to get laid, not look poor.
If she is truly attracted to you, you will get laid regardless of whether or not you pay.
If you paying for her food hinges on whether or not you have sex with her, she was only using you for resources anyway, so the sex will be bland vanilla starfish transactional sex.
Posted on 5/24/17 at 12:26 pm to FearTheFish
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I have never once had a date offer to split a check, but I have also never once thought about it until now.
If I ask someone on a date, I believe it is my responsibility to pay.
Agreed. Have had several girls offer to pay their share. I know its just being polite, but it makes the gesture more appreciated.
Posted on 5/24/17 at 12:26 pm to fareplay
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Is it ever ok to ask a women to split or pay for a dinner on first date?
Is it ever ok to text back immediately after a date?
Is it ever ok to be picked up by the female?
No, If she offers it is a nice sign but the man should pay. Split it if she insists.
Yep. If you want to text her, then text her. She can frick off if she wants to play games and has a texting waiting period. You likely just spent over an hour with this person. She is either in to you or she isn't. A text isn't going to change that. I'm not saying to bare your soul to her but a quick, "I had a nice time. Look forward to doing it again." won't hurt you.
No. Just no.
Posted on 5/24/17 at 12:27 pm to goldennugget
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so the sex will be bland vanilla starfish transactional sex.
That's the best that some of these tards will ever get
Posted on 5/24/17 at 12:27 pm to TheDude
It seems like everyone has different opinions. Can you list the amount of times laid so we can check credentials?
Posted on 5/24/17 at 12:28 pm to rocket31
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why would you go to dinner on a first date?
The best question asked in the entire thread
Lunch/Dinner/Restaurant dates are recipe for disaster when it comes to the first few dates with a woman.
A woman has been taken out on the standard typical "restaurant" date a thousand times, where she sits across the table with the dude and all they do is talk and get to know about each other. In other words. BORING. The one thing that gets you a 2nd date is that you gave her a roller coaster of fun and emotions. Really hard to do that when you are sitting and talking at a restaurant. That's not a roller coaster, that's a golf cart ride on a straight sidewalk. Why would she want to do that again?
The first few dates should be something fun. Women respond to action, not words. You should be doing shite where you are doing shite, not talking. Talking = female frame. A woman can talk all she wants with her girlfriends and beta orbiters. My first dates are always somewhere fun like a bowling alley, mini golf, Top Golf, shooting range, paintball, go kart track, etc. where we do something instead of just sit there and talk.
Posted on 5/24/17 at 12:29 pm to goldennugget
Dear goldynugs,
I'm talking with this new girl right now. We went on a date recently. We were supposed to go eat out but ended up talking for 3 and a half hours in my vehicle and by then our plans were all messed up. We went back to my place where I cooked for her.
How much of a beta cuck did I make myself out to be and should I break it off?
Thanks,
Ramadan
I'm talking with this new girl right now. We went on a date recently. We were supposed to go eat out but ended up talking for 3 and a half hours in my vehicle and by then our plans were all messed up. We went back to my place where I cooked for her.
How much of a beta cuck did I make myself out to be and should I break it off?
Thanks,
Ramadan
Posted on 5/24/17 at 12:29 pm to fareplay
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Is it ever ok to be picked up by the female?
Worked for Andy
Posted on 5/24/17 at 12:29 pm to goldennugget
Or just know how to hold a fun/interesting conversation instead of taking the attention off your lack of game
Posted on 5/24/17 at 12:30 pm to goldennugget
That sounds expensive, is there an alternative for <50$?
Posted on 5/24/17 at 12:31 pm to btnetigers
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Is it ever okay to PIIHB on the fist date?
Only if you pay for dinner and let her drive
Posted on 5/24/17 at 12:31 pm to rmnldr
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Dear goldynugs,
I'm talking with this new girl right now. We went on a date recently. We were supposed to go eat out but ended up talking for 3 and a half hours in my vehicle and by then our plans were all messed up. We went back to my place where I cooked for her.
How much of a beta cuck did I make myself out to be and should I break it off?
Did you frick her? That's the only thing that matters.
Based on you talking for 3.5 hours you probably bored the shite out of her and she put you into her emotional tampon/validation machine box, and once you get placed there sex is unlikely to ever happen.
Posted on 5/24/17 at 12:33 pm to Ed Osteen
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Or just know how to hold a fun/interesting conversation instead of taking the attention off your lack of game
You can have a fun/interesting conversation at any time.
Women can have a fun/interesting conversation at any time they want with their girlfriends and orbiters.
How will you stand out by talking to her?
Actions, not words, generate attraction, especially early on in the process.
I took a girl to the Iowa State Fair for a first date once, and we did the talking while standing in line, but apart from that it was mainly us having fun.
Posted on 5/24/17 at 12:34 pm to fareplay
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Is it ever ok to ask a women to split or pay for a dinner on first date?
No. I don't care if she is a billionaire and you only have $100 left to your name. You bring her somewhere that you can afford (don't tell her how much you have) and you insist on paying for her.
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