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re: As a Society, Do We Ignore Sexual Harassment?
Posted on 10/9/16 at 12:22 pm to LCA131
Posted on 10/9/16 at 12:22 pm to LCA131
I think a lot of people fail to make the distinction between assault or battery and harassment. But, the line is definitely being blurred by sjw morons like that bitch in the Hugh Mungus video who was screaming rape because that guy made a joke.
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Posted on 10/9/16 at 12:23 pm to GeauxxxTigers23
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Be sure to take all of these as complete and certain fact. A woman would never lie.
Posted on 10/9/16 at 12:25 pm to OweO
As a "right to work state", I embrace it.
Posted on 10/9/16 at 12:28 pm to OweO
Here are the problems with "sexual harassment" as defined today.
1) Based on the way people define it, I would estimate that at least half the married couples in America got their start based on some version of "sexual harassment" as the nutjobs currently want it defined.
2) It's fricking hard to create a policy around something where whether or not it is "wrong" is inversely proportional to how attractive she thinks you are. The blunt reality is, if she thinks you're hot, this shite you can get away with saying is substantially greater than if she doesn't. Basically, Brad Pitt and Pee Wee Herman could say the exact same words. In the case of the former, it ends in a date with sex, in the latter, a sex harassment charge and a firing.
That's a fricked up system. Period.
1) Based on the way people define it, I would estimate that at least half the married couples in America got their start based on some version of "sexual harassment" as the nutjobs currently want it defined.
2) It's fricking hard to create a policy around something where whether or not it is "wrong" is inversely proportional to how attractive she thinks you are. The blunt reality is, if she thinks you're hot, this shite you can get away with saying is substantially greater than if she doesn't. Basically, Brad Pitt and Pee Wee Herman could say the exact same words. In the case of the former, it ends in a date with sex, in the latter, a sex harassment charge and a firing.
That's a fricked up system. Period.
Posted on 10/9/16 at 1:19 pm to NoHoTiger
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Do we ignore it, no. We've actually watered it down so much that, like so many other things, it doesn't mean anything anymore. Quid pro quo or actually ongoing harassment should be unacceptable. But just because someone is offended by someone else's conversation doesn't mean they are victims of sexual harassment. It means they shouldn't be eavesdropping.
After reading the twitter link I posted, two things really caught my attention. The first being whether or not if a lot more is ignored than we are aware of, which I think that those who are quickly offended or makes a big deal over something that they could easily handle on their own actually make things worse by trying to bring awareness, because it does make it more difficult to know whether there is an actual problem or not..
But the other things is, are the stories in which some of the women say they were only a child or in their early teens and didn't know how to define the behavior of being inappropriately touched, etc. Is that something that's more common that we might be aware off?
Posted on 10/9/16 at 1:25 pm to OweO
A situation happened to me while I was in college. I was drunk but got away. A friend told me I needed to watch my behavior better and if I wasn't careful I would wind up with an STD.
The friend and I are no longer close. It was a shame to make me feel like it was my fault rather than the guy be a decent human being.
This happens a lot and it makes me sick even more now that I have a daughter.
The friend and I are no longer close. It was a shame to make me feel like it was my fault rather than the guy be a decent human being.
This happens a lot and it makes me sick even more now that I have a daughter.
Posted on 10/9/16 at 3:01 pm to marie antoinette
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. It was a shame to make me feel like it was my fault rather than the guy be a decent human being.
Women have literally come to the retarded conclusion that they should be able to do the stupidest shite possible and no one can ever point it out lest the woman claim this excuses the bad guy.
That's fricking retarded.
There are bad people in the world. There is absolutely NOTHING that can change that reality.
I don't go play in a zoo pen that I know has 999 geese and 1 lion because...... LION!
Yet women think that it's sexist to point it out when they get so drunk they are unaware of their surroundings.
That's just stupid. We are literally TEACHING our daughters to increase their odds of becoming a victim! And we are doing so because we claim we care about women.
fricking genius!
This post was edited on 10/9/16 at 3:03 pm
Posted on 10/9/16 at 3:04 pm to OweO
We don't ignore it, it get the appropriate response it always gotten.
Posted on 10/9/16 at 3:06 pm to OweO
To a large extent it is ignored but the culprit is less a woman hating patriarchy than the callousness that naturally follows false claims.
Posted on 10/9/16 at 3:39 pm to ShortyRob
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Yet women think that it's sexist to point it out when they get so drunk they are unaware of their surroundings.
That's just stupid. We are literally TEACHING our daughters to increase their odds of becoming a victim! And we are doing so because we claim we care about women.
fricking genius!
So if a woman goes to a party where everyone is drinking, having a good time.. If she has a little too much to drink and some dude takes advantage of it, its her fault for getting drunk?
Posted on 10/9/16 at 3:43 pm to OweO
quote:there isnt enough alcohol in the world for a women to be drunk enough that she's ok with you touching her
So if a woman goes to a party where everyone is drinking, having a good time.. If she has a little too much to drink and some dude takes advantage of it, its her fault for getting drunk?
I mean you specifically
Posted on 10/9/16 at 3:47 pm to OWLFAN86
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there isnt enough alcohol in the world for a women to be drunk enough that she's ok with you touching her
I mean you specifically
Your mom wasn't even drunk and she let me touch her.
Posted on 10/9/16 at 3:47 pm to OweO
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if a woman goes to a party where everyone is drinking, having a good time.. If she has a little too much to drink and some dude takes advantage of it, its her fault for getting drunk?
How much is too much, and what's taking advantage?
fricking a passed out girl is wrong, everything else is gray area. When can a guy charge a girl who fricks him during a night of ill advised "hogging"?
Posted on 10/9/16 at 3:48 pm to OweO
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So if a woman goes to a party where everyone is drinking, having a good time.. If she has a little too much to drink and some dude takes advantage of it, its her fault for getting drunk?
And there the stupidity is.
He's no less a rapist.
It is perfectly possible to guild two thoughts on your head at once.
1 rapists are scum and should be dealt with harshly
And
2 Becoming so drunk you aren't even aware of your surroundings with people you don't fully trust is stupid.
By the way. 2 applies to men also
Posted on 10/9/16 at 3:54 pm to LSU alum wannabe
quote:While in the Army, they literally trained us that having sex with a woman who says YES but is beyond the legal limit constitutes rape.
When can a guy charge a girl who fricks him during a night of ill advised "hogging"?
I once asked what happens if both parties are over the limit.
I shite you not, they told me whoever cries rape first wins.
THAT is what is fricking up the situation.
You don't create a better safer environment by creating nonsense. I submit that such stupidity cause people to ignore the training even when the sensible stuff is talked about.
This post was edited on 10/9/16 at 3:55 pm
Posted on 10/9/16 at 4:32 pm to OweO
You are the worst poster in the history of this site, You attention craving dipshit.
This post was edited on 10/9/16 at 4:33 pm
Posted on 10/9/16 at 6:32 pm to OweO
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So if a woman goes to a party where everyone is drinking, having a good time.. If she has a little too much to drink and some dude takes advantage of it, its her fault for getting drunk?
If everyone is drinking, that includes the guy. So if the womans decision making ability is impaired, then the mans is too. Why is he expected to be the one to have a miraculous drunken moment of clarity? Whatever happened to being responsible for your own actions? If you're a female and you can't control your drinking to the extent that you're fricking every thing in sight despite the fact that you had no intentions of doing so, you should take responsibility for it.
This post was edited on 10/9/16 at 6:35 pm
Posted on 10/9/16 at 6:37 pm to TheWalrus
quote:That isn't what he said. And if you don't find at least some truth in the statement, you need to get out more.
What kind of statement is that? Attractive guys can't commit sexual assault?
Posted on 10/9/16 at 6:41 pm to ReauxlTide222
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That isn't what he said. And if you don't find at least some truth in the statement, you need to get out more.
this, and the score goes up for wealthy/celeb types, I've been around that quite a bit and women absolutely, brazenly, throw themselves at guys like that, and back in the day, they just enjoyed the experience, now,if they didn't get what they wanted out of the deal they cry rape/harassment, Trump wasn't wrong about what he said, he just said it around a hot mike and got busted for it
This post was edited on 10/9/16 at 6:43 pm
Posted on 10/9/16 at 8:32 pm to OweO
I once had a female say to me: "Hey big boy!".
I responded with "Hey big girl".
She got offended. After I treated her equally.
I responded with "Hey big girl".
She got offended. After I treated her equally.
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