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re: Are jeans acceptable to wear to a wake?

Posted on 10/14/21 at 10:56 pm to
Posted by Sun God
Member since Jul 2009
49965 posts
Posted on 10/14/21 at 10:56 pm to
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You'll get some snooty responses, but do you think the person who passed really cares what you are wearing? We buried my grandpa in what he wanted, which was what he wore every day, blue dickies mechanic shirt and pants. Plenty of people came to pay respects right out of work, one guy even brushed himself outside before coming inside. But ya know what? They showed up to pay respects to a friend, and I can respect that



I typically wear a black suit though
Posted by SG_Geaux
Beautiful St George, LA
Member since Aug 2004
80522 posts
Posted on 10/14/21 at 10:59 pm to
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If wearing jeans all the time is how the deceased knew you then YES!!


And if the deceased really like to hang out with a lot of strippers?
Posted by Sun God
Member since Jul 2009
49965 posts
Posted on 10/14/21 at 11:00 pm to
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And if the deceased really like to hang out with a lot of strippers?

I think you phrased this question incorrectly
Posted by Tiger Ugly
Baton Rouge
Member since Jul 2008
17752 posts
Posted on 10/15/21 at 6:41 am to
What parish you in?
Posted by WMTigerFAN
Ouachita
Member since Feb 2005
4934 posts
Posted on 10/15/21 at 6:44 am to
Nowadays any attire that is clean and doesn’t draw attention to yourself is acceptable
Posted by Homesick Tiger
Greenbrier, AR
Member since Nov 2006
56127 posts
Posted on 10/15/21 at 7:05 am to
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Jeans and boots?


I see you've never been to a cowboy's wake or funeral. Being decently dressed for the occasion is what should count. Jeans and boots fall into the decently dressed category.
Posted by Harlan County USA
Member since Sep 2021
733 posts
Posted on 10/27/21 at 10:51 am to
He was. He passed away many years ago from Pancreatic cancer. He was a coal miner and didn't know he had cancer until a rib burst occurred. A rib burst is where pressure from the mountain caused the side of the mine to burst/explode out and hit him in his ribs. He was hospitalized for that and they discovered the cancer. My last memories of him were sitting next to him at the hospital watching NASCAR race at Richmond. He died shortly after.
Posted by Tiger Ryno
#WoF
Member since Feb 2007
107537 posts
Posted on 10/27/21 at 10:57 am to
As long as no cigarettes or visible tats. Be respectful.
Posted by Hoodie
Donaldsonville, LA
Member since Dec 2019
3603 posts
Posted on 10/27/21 at 11:07 am to
When dressing to attend a memorial service, I tend to wear clothing that I believe will be in tune with what the other folks there will be wearing. I have lots of family in bayou country. When attending a wake in those parts, I find dark jeans and nice, clean boots worn with a dress shirt to be perfectly fine. Hell, my uncle wore jean shorts and tennis shoes to his own mother's wake. I knew he wasn't much of a fashion-plate and didn't want to make him feel bad, so I wore more casual clothes to that service. In short, do your best to look presentable and respectful, but don't wear Armani if you're gonna stand-out.

A lot of this is generational, too. Another uncle got really bent out of shape at a wake because they younger guys weren't wearing blazers. He actually brought along a bunch of spare sport-coats in his car and made us wear them! Navy blazers with black pants! The horror!
Posted by GreatLakesTiger24
Member since May 2012
59101 posts
Posted on 10/27/21 at 11:14 am to
wear what you want. when you grow up, you realize no one cares what you wear.

-the ot, sometimes
Posted by redfish99
B.R.
Member since Aug 2007
18720 posts
Posted on 10/27/21 at 11:17 am to
Yes a dark denim pressed pant is entirely acceptable damn near anywhere.
Posted by concrete_tiger
Member since May 2020
7477 posts
Posted on 10/27/21 at 11:19 am to
When I die, I don't really give a shite what people wear. If they know me, they'll know I never once wore a suit by choice.

My uncle requested a party, and it was an amazing party with nothing but happy memories and friends telling stories. I don't have the circle of friends like he had, but that would be my wish.

Posted by Demshoes
Up in here
Member since Aug 2015
10684 posts
Posted on 10/27/21 at 11:30 am to
Gypsy wake?
Posted by Abstract Queso Dip
Member since Mar 2021
5878 posts
Posted on 10/27/21 at 11:31 am to
What is a wake? Is that entry level to to woke?
Posted by ConfusedHawgInMO
Member since Apr 2014
3578 posts
Posted on 10/27/21 at 12:11 pm to
I'd rather you come in dirty clothes than not come at all.
Posted by Saint Alfonzo
Member since Jan 2019
28369 posts
Posted on 10/27/21 at 12:34 pm to
quote:

Are jeans acceptable to wear to a wake?


What, you don't own a pair of khakis or some dress slacks and dress shirt? Or do you just not give a shite about yourself or the deceased?
Posted by QJenk
Atl, Ga
Member since Jan 2013
17227 posts
Posted on 10/27/21 at 12:37 pm to
The wake isn't formal. Wear whatever you please.
Posted by ScoobyDont
Member since Sep 2016
816 posts
Posted on 10/27/21 at 4:48 pm to
Are jeans appropriate to wear to a wake?
If you have to ask, you already know the answer.
Posted by Tempratt
Member since Oct 2013
14927 posts
Posted on 10/27/21 at 5:42 pm to
As long as you don't resemble a derelict that fact that showed up is more important.
Posted by GB1017LSU
Member since Nov 2015
1070 posts
Posted on 10/27/21 at 5:47 pm to
If you need to ask…the answer is No.
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