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re: Anyone else had a crappy 2019?

Posted on 1/1/20 at 2:43 am to
Posted by GeauxGutsy
Member since Jul 2017
4715 posts
Posted on 1/1/20 at 2:43 am to
Hope you guys have a better 2020!

2019 for me personally was fantastic.
Posted by dupergreenie
Member since May 2014
5339 posts
Posted on 1/1/20 at 3:14 am to
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Failed IVF



Feel for you on this. It was basically the final nail in my marriage coffin.... (wife couldn't get pregnant and blamed me even though the doctor said it was her). Hope yall can work through it.
Posted by Chuker
St George, Louisiana
Member since Nov 2015
7544 posts
Posted on 1/1/20 at 4:46 am to
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final nail in my marriage coffin.... (wife couldn't get pregnant and blamed me even though the doctor said it was her


No offense but it sounds like if the IVF did end up working that sooner or later the kid was going to end up spending every other weekend with you.
Posted by dupergreenie
Member since May 2014
5339 posts
Posted on 1/1/20 at 5:21 am to
Possibly but after that moment in the doctor's office something changed in her and quickly. She stole money... well i guess 'hid' is a better word... we tried marriage counseling and she lied there. I did my best at being the punching bag for our lack of future kids (even though I have one from a previous relationship and the doctor told her she had zero chance) but I heard her tell her sister that it was me and thats kinda when I decided to check out.
Posted by badlands
Member since Apr 2008
2313 posts
Posted on 1/1/20 at 5:51 am to
Good luck. That is a rough situation.
Posted by SEClint
New Orleans, LA/Portland, OR
Member since Nov 2006
48769 posts
Posted on 1/1/20 at 5:56 am to
I feel distant from my family sometimes, and it's an uncomfortable feeling. Unable to enjoy things to their full potential. I dint know, maybe it's just depression.
Posted by liz18lsu
Naples, FL
Member since Feb 2009
17299 posts
Posted on 1/1/20 at 5:58 am to
No, 2019 was pretty good. Went to Europe for an amazing vacation, made the most money I ever have, installed a beautiful outdoor spa/patio, watched LSU play a dream season, nobody I love died, I didn't die...
Posted by HempHead
Big Sky Country
Member since Mar 2011
55439 posts
Posted on 1/1/20 at 6:02 am to
Ups and downs, gutters and strikes. I can't complain but I can't celebrate, either. Professional success but romantic failure.
Posted by VolsOut4Harambe
Atlanta, GA
Member since Sep 2017
12856 posts
Posted on 1/1/20 at 6:15 am to
Dude.... I literally feel your pain. Lost my job back in March and was unemployed for a month and a half. Lost one of my best friends in November. My girl and I are kind of on the outs and I am planning to break up with her. My favorite aunt and uncle separated and are likely getting divorced. It was a shitty 2019.
Posted by YOURADHERE
Member since Dec 2006
8032 posts
Posted on 1/1/20 at 7:03 am to
2019 started out well with some travelling and making changes for a healthier life the ended with some stressful business ups and downs and watching my wife's family deal with the tragic loss of a young, promising family member in a helicopter crash. I don't normally get into New Years but I'm looking forward to putting 2019 behind us, the last 6 months have been rough.
Posted by East Coast Band
Member since Nov 2010
62742 posts
Posted on 1/1/20 at 7:12 am to
This thread is depressing. I'd figure LSU fans would mostly say '19 was great,due to the football success. But, in reality, there are far more important issues in life than that.
For me, after reading what I've already read, I certainly can't complain.
Hoping everyone will have a better '20...
Posted by CoachChappy
Member since May 2013
32515 posts
Posted on 1/1/20 at 7:14 am to
I had a great 2019. I lost 30lbs, got my golf handicap well into single digits, and didn’t have any major ailments nor did anyone in my family.
Posted by Brosef Stalin
Member since Dec 2011
39172 posts
Posted on 1/1/20 at 7:53 am to
The last two years have been the worst of my life. There's always hope but it gets harder and harder to hold on to it over time.
Posted by LSU2001
Cut Off, La.
Member since Nov 2007
2388 posts
Posted on 1/1/20 at 8:04 am to
2019 had some significant challenges with my cancer treatments. It seems that the chemo I have been on for the past year or so is really starting to cause significant side effects and this forced me into a disability retirement in late 2019. Good things happened on that front as well. Had a nerve block done at MDA and it has helped a lot with the chronic pain I have been dealing with so that was a huge plus.
I am also thankful that I am still above ground and have good days here and there where I can get out and fish or work in the garden.
I am hoping 2020 brings more positive news on the cancer fight and I hope that I can adjust to retirement and continue to have a wonderful and supportive family and friends.
Posted by tiger91
In my own little world
Member since Nov 2005
36703 posts
Posted on 1/1/20 at 8:05 am to
The end sucked. While I have much to be grateful for, I’m in a funk and can’t seem to pull myself out.
Posted by LSUbase13
Mt. Pleasant, SC
Member since Mar 2008
15060 posts
Posted on 1/1/20 at 8:06 am to
Best year I've had in quite some time.
Posted by MSTiger33
Member since Oct 2007
20370 posts
Posted on 1/1/20 at 8:08 am to
Dad, father in law, and wife’s aunt died in 2019. Wife’s godfather/uncle was diagnosed with stage 4 lung cancer. So yeah, 2019 sucked.
Posted by Lsupimp
Ersatz Amerika-97.6% phony & fake
Member since Nov 2003
78377 posts
Posted on 1/1/20 at 8:10 am to
It was the worst year of a life that I am totally and completely grateful for. That’s the only way I can put it. It’s life and it entails suffering. It comes close to breaking you and somehow you come out the other side of your ordeal feeling stronger.
Posted by go ta hell ole miss
Member since Jan 2007
13616 posts
Posted on 1/1/20 at 8:21 am to
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Supremely crappy. Gained weight, screwed up relationships, didn’t fulfill my potential, and got older,


Pretty much this for the first nine months of the year for me. I finally stopped drinking in October, lost about 20 lbs, started early stages of repairing some relationships and stopped isolating from friends. Hoping for a better 2020 because the majority of 2019 was an train wreck.
This post was edited on 1/1/20 at 8:22 am
Posted by NOLAGT
Over there
Member since Dec 2012
13501 posts
Posted on 1/1/20 at 8:41 am to
I almost died from pulmonary embolism....

So yea fuk 2019.
This post was edited on 1/1/20 at 8:42 am
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