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Posted on 4/17/18 at 9:52 pm to The Torch
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I've tried for years to help her, spent thousands of dollars, lost 100's of hours sleep, cried, went to therapy with her, got her out of jail multiple times etc etc etc etc etc. I just can't take anymore
Good lord, that sounds like a nightmare. I'm almost hesitant to say that you should go ahead with the divorce, but it sounds like you've done all you could do short of chaining her to something in the house so she couldn't leave. Man, that really sucks.
Posted on 4/17/18 at 9:55 pm to 50_Tiger
I have noticed Jody mentioned in some other threads. Judy? what is the story?
Posted on 4/17/18 at 9:56 pm to FLBooGoTigs1
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Whatever makes you happy.
Thanks. All I can say is right now life's awesome and I'm happy!
Posted on 4/17/18 at 11:07 pm to The Torch
Do not get married unless BOTH of you are willing to love each other enough to sweat blood. If your love is not at that level, then you do not yet have marital love.
Posted on 4/17/18 at 11:27 pm to djmicrobe
I’m not good at it, but I didn’t ask her to change. I changed myself. Things are great now.
Posted on 4/17/18 at 11:37 pm to The Torch
Until I get strange. Then you wonder why you were with that heartless bitch to begin with.
Posted on 4/17/18 at 11:37 pm to The Torch
Look at like this: you should have never gotten married in the first place.
A lot of people I know are unable to function as a single person and go from one shitty relationship to another. They think I'm strange for my preference of staying single. I think they are strange for their inability to be single.
A lot of people I know are unable to function as a single person and go from one shitty relationship to another. They think I'm strange for my preference of staying single. I think they are strange for their inability to be single.
This post was edited on 4/17/18 at 11:38 pm
Posted on 4/17/18 at 11:45 pm to The Torch
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got her out of jail multiple times
Wut?
Posted on 4/18/18 at 2:15 am to cajunangelle
Posted on 4/18/18 at 2:44 am to The Torch
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I've tried for years to help her, spent thousands of dollars, lost 100's of hours sleep, cried, went to therapy with her, got her out of jail multiple times etc etc etc etc etc. I just can't take anymore
Just curious, is she at a point where she admits she has a problem and wants help? If she is and the drinking is y’alls only problem, maybe she’ll accept some help when she sees you’re serious about walking out the door for good. If your marriage is still a valuable thing to you, give her an ultimatum and stick to it. If she’s not at that desperate point or if you’re finally just DONE with it, walk away confidently knowing you did all you can. If it’s a matter of finding help for her, email me at username@gmail and I can help you with a game plan. If not, I wish you the best in your new life...
Posted on 4/18/18 at 5:12 am to OceanMan
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You must be in a low place if you are asking for input from people that are “good” at getting divorced.
The ot: giving great advice about how to lose since 2003
This post was edited on 4/18/18 at 5:13 am
Posted on 4/18/18 at 6:27 am to GeorgeTheGreek
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frick the vowels huh?
Engaging in sexual congress with just vowels is sorta limited when there are far more consonants to choose from. I guess if feel like really walking on the wild side, why not have sex with Y.
Posted on 4/18/18 at 6:36 am to The Torch
Was married for 24 yrs. Divorced 6 years ago. I chose to leave. We have 2 children, 18 & 25 now. It was pure hell. Horrible. Time helps a lot. It may not feel like it, just remember the sun will always come up tomorrow.
Posted on 4/18/18 at 6:47 am to The Torch
My method for a breakup has always been the same..and if makes me a terrible person.
We have sex. I mean the type of sex she won't forget for the rest of her life. Head shoved in the freezer while I eat her arse and make her sing the Flintstones theme song kind of sex.
The next morning, when she's still all relaxed and happy. I walk her to her car, kiss her goodbye, then sever all contact permanently.
We have sex. I mean the type of sex she won't forget for the rest of her life. Head shoved in the freezer while I eat her arse and make her sing the Flintstones theme song kind of sex.
The next morning, when she's still all relaxed and happy. I walk her to her car, kiss her goodbye, then sever all contact permanently.
Posted on 4/18/18 at 10:30 am to X123F45
My gf and I broke up a week ago after four years. The past week has been kind of rough, but I am feeling better each day. I haven't been through a long term relationship break up in ten years.
It was a mutual breakup(kind of), and we weren't fighting or anything, actually quite the opposite. We are just in different places right now(literally and figuratively.) I never thought we'd make it even four years because we are pretty fundamentally different in many ways, so I think we had a good run. A lot of good times. I'm beginning to look forward to getting back in the mix, though.
It was a mutual breakup(kind of), and we weren't fighting or anything, actually quite the opposite. We are just in different places right now(literally and figuratively.) I never thought we'd make it even four years because we are pretty fundamentally different in many ways, so I think we had a good run. A lot of good times. I'm beginning to look forward to getting back in the mix, though.
This post was edited on 4/18/18 at 10:35 am
Posted on 4/18/18 at 10:34 am to Evil Little Thing
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It’s hard to imagine remarrying
One and done and never again.
Of course, women typically need a man.
Posted on 4/18/18 at 10:37 am to The Torch
Sorry that you guys could not work it out. Make sure your children are top priority and put aside the differences for their sake.
Posted on 4/18/18 at 10:39 am to The Torch
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Now I'm drowning myself in liquor.
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skipping down the road kicking horse turds grinning from ear to ear
These two usually go hand in hand for me
Posted on 4/18/18 at 10:39 am to Morty
Between spouses who each have at least a 4 year degree, 90% of divorces are initiated by the woman.
In relationships where the woman doesn’t have a degree, it’s close to 50/50.
In relationships where the woman doesn’t have a degree, it’s close to 50/50.
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