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re: Any advice for dating a girl who puts her career first?

Posted on 10/31/15 at 12:47 pm to
Posted by BRgetthenet
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Posted on 10/31/15 at 12:47 pm to
If you cling too tightley
Posted by BRgetthenet
Member since Oct 2011
118273 posts
Posted on 10/31/15 at 12:47 pm to
You gonna lose, gonna lose













































Lose control
Posted by Spankum
The Sip
Member since Jan 2007
63326 posts
Posted on 10/31/15 at 12:55 pm to
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would constantly pick up extra shifts....including on nights that he had already made plans for them(he would be on his way to pick her up and she would text him saying "sorry, gotta work tonight").


there is nothing wrong with putting career first, but what you describe is just her being an inconsiderate person...
Posted by High C
viewing the fall....
Member since Nov 2012
62216 posts
Posted on 10/31/15 at 12:56 pm to
And that is how I see this playing out
Posted by biglego
San Francisco
Member since Nov 2007
85576 posts
Posted on 10/31/15 at 1:00 pm to
She puts career first. You put dick in behind.
Posted by Brian12
Member since Apr 2015
392 posts
Posted on 10/31/15 at 1:01 pm to
Don't date her.
Posted by RummelTiger
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Member since Aug 2004
94053 posts
Posted on 10/31/15 at 1:02 pm to
quote:

Any advice for dating a girl who puts her career first?


Don't frick it up.
Posted by stewie
Member since Jan 2006
4032 posts
Posted on 10/31/15 at 1:02 pm to
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thankfully, she has told you up front what the deal is...you need to be honest with yourself whether that is ok with you or not. I personally don't like talking on the phone and would be totally fine with that situation, but a lot of people need much more attention. You already know what kind of person you are, so just be honest with yourself and decide whether you are ok with that situation without constantly feeling neglected.


This nails it on the head
Posted by tigersownall
Thibodaux
Member since Sep 2011
17213 posts
Posted on 10/31/15 at 1:04 pm to
That song gives sound relationship advice.
Posted by lsunurse
Member since Dec 2005
129146 posts
Posted on 10/31/15 at 1:09 pm to
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there is nothing wrong with putting career first


Depends on what someone wants long term though.
Posted by BoxmanTiger
Ohio
Member since Dec 2013
666 posts
Posted on 10/31/15 at 1:11 pm to
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Day or two without calling or texting


swe above and good job...marry that girl
Posted by N2cars
Member since Feb 2008
40407 posts
Posted on 10/31/15 at 1:13 pm to
Nail her now, but obviously, in any serious relationship, she should put you first.
Posted by Lithium
Member since Dec 2004
64393 posts
Posted on 10/31/15 at 1:13 pm to
That's awesome. You always want a girl to have something that takes up her time to free you up.I've found girls with school age kids works best
Posted by Mo Jeaux
Member since Aug 2008
64605 posts
Posted on 10/31/15 at 1:13 pm to
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marry that girl


Absolutely not. That is horrible advice.
Posted by RogerTheShrubber
Juneau, AK
Member since Jan 2009
299716 posts
Posted on 10/31/15 at 1:14 pm to
Don't get serious with her. Her idea of a serious relationship will probably differ from yours.
Posted by Cosmo
glassman's guest house
Member since Oct 2003
132696 posts
Posted on 10/31/15 at 1:14 pm to
Shes not that into you and is probably dating/banging multiple dudes
Posted by Lithium
Member since Dec 2004
64393 posts
Posted on 10/31/15 at 1:16 pm to
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quote:
marry that girl


Absolutely not. That is horrible advice.



That's the best advice ever on here
Posted by Monticello
Member since Jul 2010
16197 posts
Posted on 10/31/15 at 1:17 pm to
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If you are already thinking it might be an issue I wouldn't do it. If it ever gets serious you're going to want her to change and that's just not going to happen. It will end badly.



This. If you don't want kids anytime in the next decade, then put your pride away and go for it. Having a two income household is awesome. But if you want a family and her job is more important, that will be a huge problem.
Posted by lsunurse
Member since Dec 2005
129146 posts
Posted on 10/31/15 at 1:17 pm to
Not if he wants to have kids at some point.
Posted by Powerman
Member since Jan 2004
175706 posts
Posted on 10/31/15 at 1:17 pm to
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She's gonna be in for an even ruder awakening being pregnant after 40.


You'd think a nurse of all people might realize this is a bad idea.

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