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All this inheritance talk has me curious, fill all the cup equally? Or fill it the same?
Posted on 1/6/25 at 12:14 pm
Posted on 1/6/25 at 12:14 pm
My BILs family scenario:
If 1 sibling does significantly better in career vs others, as a parent do you split the inheritance equally or bring everyone to the same level?
Ex:
1000
50
20
Bring everyone to 1000? Or give everyone 500?
If 1 sibling does significantly better in career vs others, as a parent do you split the inheritance equally or bring everyone to the same level?
Ex:
1000
50
20
Bring everyone to 1000? Or give everyone 500?
Posted on 1/6/25 at 12:16 pm to fareplay
Give it all to the good kid and tell the losers to pull themselves up by their bootstraps
Posted on 1/6/25 at 12:16 pm to fareplay
The best thing to do and most non-controversial is to divide it equally amongst the kids.
Posted on 1/6/25 at 12:17 pm to el Gaucho
Believe it or not that’s their plan. They said the other kids can’t afford to manage their estate and have to trust the older brothers.
Posted on 1/6/25 at 12:17 pm to fareplay
I could definitely see one of my sisters trying to get more than the rest of us. Not happening!
Posted on 1/6/25 at 12:18 pm to fareplay
Whoever wipes my arse when I can’t.
Put me in nursing home and it goes to charity
Not a nonprofit, stripper named charity
Put me in nursing home and it goes to charity
Not a nonprofit, stripper named charity
Posted on 1/6/25 at 12:23 pm to fareplay
My son would blow it all in 6 months. And have zero to show for it.
My daughter will build upon it and live off the interest
I’ve already told her to be prepared to get it all and take care of her brother.
My daughter will build upon it and live off the interest
I’ve already told her to be prepared to get it all and take care of her brother.
Posted on 1/6/25 at 12:24 pm to sparkinator
But wouldn’t that sever the relationship between your kids
Posted on 1/6/25 at 12:29 pm to fareplay
Your posting pattern suggests that you are overly obsessed with money. I've known several people with this affliction and no matter how much they get, they never have enough.
Posted on 1/6/25 at 12:29 pm to fareplay
He would hate it worse being homeless. Which is what he would be in about 6 months.
Posted on 1/6/25 at 12:30 pm to fareplay
Unless one of my kids has a meaningful disadvantage like a disability or illness, I'm going to split it evenly.
Posted on 1/6/25 at 12:31 pm to sparkinator
quote:Put his equal share in a trust for him with her (or someone neutral) as the trustee. This is what my FIL has done for my wife and SIL. SIL is insane, and it'll be a PITA for my wife, but more legally sound than just giving it all to her with vague instructions to take care of her sister.
My son would blow it all in 6 months. And have zero to show for it.
My daughter will build upon it and live off the interest
I’ve already told her to be prepared to get it all and take care of her brother.
This post was edited on 1/6/25 at 12:35 pm
Posted on 1/6/25 at 12:32 pm to fareplay
Only real option is equally.
It is each individual’s job to manage their own situation.
It is each individual’s job to manage their own situation.
Posted on 1/6/25 at 12:33 pm to yellowfin
quote:
goes to charity
Yes!
quote:
Not a nonprofit, stripper named charity
oh...
Posted on 1/6/25 at 12:33 pm to fareplay
Skip a generation and give it to the grand kids.
Posted on 1/6/25 at 12:33 pm to GreatLakesTiger24
quote:
I could definitely see one of my sisters trying to get more than the rest of us. Not happening!
The only time you don't have a sibling fighting for more inheritance is when you have no siblings. I had an uncle who thought he deserved an equal share of the liquid assets and 100% of the house because he "moved in to help them out." Nah, dog, you moved in because your wife threw you out and divorced you when you got arrested for smoking crack.
Posted on 1/6/25 at 12:36 pm to Galactic Inquisitor
quote:Or if they aren't assholes. I have a large family on both sides and none of my aunts/uncles fought over any inheritance from my grandparents (which was a decent amount but nothing crazy).
The only time you don't have a sibling fighting for more inheritance is when you have no siblings.
This post was edited on 1/6/25 at 12:37 pm
Posted on 1/6/25 at 1:02 pm to Gravitiger
quote:
Or if they aren't assholes. I have a large family on both sides and none of my aunts/uncles fought over any inheritance from my grandparents (which was a decent amount but nothing crazy).
I'm one of 4 and would be stunned if me and my siblings were fighting over an inheritance when our parents pass.
Posted on 1/6/25 at 1:09 pm to fareplay
Just depends on what you think should happen to you money. Some believe equal division is best....some want their money to do the greatest good....no rules.
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