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re: A record-high share of 40-year-olds in the U.S. have never been married

Posted on 6/28/23 at 10:39 am to
Posted by RLDSC FAN
Rancho Cucamonga, CA
Member since Nov 2008
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Posted on 6/28/23 at 10:39 am to
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But to be fair, if you make real good money and can get constant nookie all the time why get married.?????

Some people would like to raise a family


+1 also, how many of these dudes are really pussy magnets?
Posted by teke184
Zachary, LA
Member since Jan 2007
96005 posts
Posted on 6/28/23 at 10:39 am to
If it is guys-

Either they are bringing in women without getting tied down or incels, generally.

If it is women -

A lot of them think they can just play the field forever then the music stops and they don’t have a man to settle down with



Does not help that marriage is a huge drawback in this country for men, either.
Posted by Pettifogger
Capitol Hill Autonomous Zone
Member since Feb 2012
79252 posts
Posted on 6/28/23 at 10:40 am to
The decrease in functional, healthy families is the problem. Marriages are the root of that.

A society with less and less of the population having skin in the game for the future (children) is going to have prolonged and probably not good impact.
Posted by jizzle6609
Houston
Member since Jul 2009
4216 posts
Posted on 6/28/23 at 10:40 am to
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Dual-income household has benefits


Dudes just dont know how to keep their pimp hand strong these days.

Posted by Hamma1122
Member since Sep 2016
19836 posts
Posted on 6/28/23 at 10:41 am to
I see zero issue with this
Posted by Dawgfanman
Member since Jun 2015
22446 posts
Posted on 6/28/23 at 10:41 am to
Article paints the picture that the average unmarried 40 year old is a black or Hispanic male without a college degree..doesn’t sound like a bunch of pussy magnets to me.
Posted by USMCguy121
Northshore
Member since Aug 2021
6332 posts
Posted on 6/28/23 at 10:41 am to
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men a pitiful and weak now.


imagine being a woman trying to find a man with what you see in society today.


Women have somehow gotten even more shallow and retarded over time. You can trace almost every aspect of modern cultural rot to the voting habits and social beliefs of the modern western woman.

Imagine being a man trying to find a good woman with what you see in society today. You Think you got a good one, the next thing you know they're banging Jody and he's 15 years old
Posted by REB BEER
Laffy Yet
Member since Dec 2010
16222 posts
Posted on 6/28/23 at 10:43 am to
I read the other day that there are more couples in the US cohabitating than are married.
Posted by tiggerthetooth
Big Momma's House
Member since Oct 2010
61307 posts
Posted on 6/28/23 at 10:43 am to
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Article paints the picture that the average unmarried 40 year old is a black or Hispanic male without a college degree..doesn’t sound like a bunch of pussy magnets to me.



I think marriage is about a little more than being a "pussy magnet".


It should be troubling for everyone when people are not apart of anything more than themselves.
Posted by nes2010
Member since Jun 2014
6763 posts
Posted on 6/28/23 at 10:43 am to
I work with a fair number of unmarried childless people who are at that age. They aren't really dating either. Seems lonely, but to each their own.
Posted by jizzle6609
Houston
Member since Jul 2009
4216 posts
Posted on 6/28/23 at 10:45 am to
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modern western woman.


Ahh, the most miserable mammal on the planet.

Posted by TrueTiger
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Posted on 6/28/23 at 10:45 am to

Posted by dgnx6
Baton Rouge
Member since Feb 2006
68761 posts
Posted on 6/28/23 at 10:45 am to
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men a pitiful and weak now.


imagine being a woman trying to find a man with what you see in society today.




or...


Over 40% of women are obese and 70% of them are liberal nut jobs.
Posted by Dawgfanman
Member since Jun 2015
22446 posts
Posted on 6/28/23 at 10:46 am to
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I think marriage is about a little more than being a "pussy magnet". It should be troubling for everyone when people are not apart of anything more than themselves


My comment was for the people saying “why get married when you can have a bunch of different women”. The research seems to show that might not be why they aren’t married.

Why are the African American rates more than double whites? Why the disparities based on education level?

What about being white or having a college degree makes someone more likely to get married?
Posted by DaleGribble
Bend, OR
Member since Sep 2014
6821 posts
Posted on 6/28/23 at 10:48 am to
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imagine being a woman trying to find a man with what you see in society today.


Imagine being a man, trying to find a female that's duck-lipped face isn't butchered, doesn't have fake tits, hair, and eyelashes, isn't covered in tats and isn't chasing dick on dating apps and social media...
Posted by Tdogg78
Member since Aug 2018
146 posts
Posted on 6/28/23 at 10:48 am to
I am fast approaching 40. I make low 6 figures. I get laid when I want to.

I do what I want, when I want.

Are there times when it would be better to have a partner, yes.

Do I get to miss the BS I don’t want? Yes.

I get to travel and waste my money on what I want.
No kids or wife to spend it for me.

Is this life for everyone? No, some friends are never able to be single for more than a few days.

I like my freedom.

Will I regret it when I am older, I do not know.
Posted by Giantkiller
the internet.
Member since Sep 2007
20379 posts
Posted on 6/28/23 at 10:51 am to
I'd venture to say most of my original social circle are unmarried 40 year olds. As my kids have gotten older and we've moved into more kid-centric neighborhoods, I've gotten more and more friends similar to me in family structure so this has changed, naturally. I have absolutely nothing against my old school friends (who I'm also still very close with) ever getting married if that's their thing. However, I could never make it in that realm... especially with kids. There's just no way.
Posted by BluegrassBelle
RIP Hefty Lefty - 1981-2019
Member since Nov 2010
99110 posts
Posted on 6/28/23 at 10:56 am to
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Women have somehow gotten even more shallow and retarded over time.


So have men. Dating app culture plays a lot into that. It's both sexes chasing perfection, when it doesn't exist. Or just chasing their next frick.

There's not much of the in-between anymore who accepts, especially past your 20s, that everyone has baggage. And that relationships are work.



Posted by tiggerthetooth
Big Momma's House
Member since Oct 2010
61307 posts
Posted on 6/28/23 at 10:57 am to
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I'd venture to say most of my original social circle are unmarried 40 year olds. As my kids have gotten older and we've moved into more kid-centric neighborhoods, I've gotten more and more friends similar to me in family structure so this has changed, naturally. I have absolutely nothing against my old school friends (who I'm also still very close with) ever getting married if that's their thing. However, I could never make it in that realm... especially with kids. There's just no way.



As more and more people join your friends group instead of your nuclear family community it will get worse.


More single men and women=more opportunities for married women and men to jump ship and break up families. Then include the group effects among divorced women...who tend to get divorced in groups.


People won't care and will continue with the "doesn't effect me, so why should I care?" Mentality.

Posted by Earnest_P
Member since Aug 2021
3532 posts
Posted on 6/28/23 at 10:57 am to
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Marriage has long been a central institution in the lives of Americans.


It says “Americans” as if it’s unique. Marriage is a central institution for humanity. You can’t have a functioning society without it.
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