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re: 9-year-old commits suicide after coming out as gay to his classmates
Posted on 8/28/18 at 8:12 am to Bustedsack
Posted on 8/28/18 at 8:12 am to Bustedsack
How the hell does a 9 year old know what gay really is?
Posted on 8/28/18 at 8:14 am to RollTide1987
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Does that make them less human? Should we ridicule and degrade them? Most definitely not. I believe in the practice of loving your neighbor, no matter the differences, because that's what God intended. But it's a scientific fact that men and women were born to be together so they can promulgate mankind.
I couldn't agree more. It's nature.
I believe the mother failed to get help for her very confused child when he first started showing signs of being "different"- which is a shame.
Sadly, kids are at times very cruel to other kids they recognize as different or weak. It's been that way since the beginning of time. That doesn't make it right- but we've all seen this type of treatment take place. Some kids are so confused and mentally exhausted they just can't go on. Sad stuff.
This should NEVER be allowed to take roots in the first place- a 4 year old can't possibly "decide" for his or her self what sexual preference they are. Far more likely the mother was an enabler. Wait for the lawsuit.
Posted on 8/28/18 at 8:45 am to oleheat
I went to same school from 1-9 grades with practically the same kids. One kid I was good friends earlier on later was pretty normal but started showing tendencies in 9 grade and moreso in HS. He had his DL first and seemed cool carting me around to meet up with chicks although he would never really hit it off with the girls friends. I heard at one point a pretty hot chick went to kiss him and he jumped back and knew something was up.
He came from a household with a domineering truck driver looking mom and wimpy dad. Another guy was always a little off in a nerdy artsy way and also did the 90s version of coming out in HS, which wasn’t really the same as nowadays. And I’ve also known some guys that were effeminate but never went gay, got married and still always seemed straight overall. One thing I’ve never seen personally is the situation where a guy was hugely masculine and later came out as gay.
No real conclusions here just some anecdotal observations.
No real conclusions here just some anecdotal observations.
Posted on 8/28/18 at 8:55 am to Tester1216
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I’ve seen many 2 kids, one boy and one girl from birth display gay tendencies. These kid come from decent people and lived very privileged lives. Sexually is not a learned existence.
Yes it is for the majority of people. Now are there people that are born with it just like any other issues....possibly. But we are talking about a smal percentage of the small percentage of this countries homosexuals. What 3% of the country say they are gay? So definitely less than .5% of the population can come close to claiming the possibility of this "birth defect". Not enough for society as a whole to change everything to accommodate.
Many of gay men lacked fathers around at childhood. Similar affect on girls who are sluts, and seek male attention. I also think that lower testosterone as a man gets older can contribute to his want for younger bois, etc.
Posted on 8/28/18 at 9:04 am to TOSOV
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Yes it is for the majority of people. Now are there people that are born with it just like any other issues....possibly. But we are talking about a smal percentage of the small percentage of this countries homosexuals. What 3% of the country say they are gay? So definitely less than .5% of the population can come close to claiming the possibility of this "birth defect". Not enough for society as a whole to change everything to accommodate. Many of gay men lacked fathers around at childhood. Similar affect on girls who are sluts, and seek male attention. I also think that lower testosterone as a man gets older can contribute to his want for younger bois, etc.
What?
This post was edited on 8/28/18 at 9:07 am
Posted on 8/28/18 at 9:15 am to fallguy_1978
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How does a kid in the 3rd-4th grade know they are gay
The same way I knew I liked girls when I was in K.
Posted on 8/28/18 at 9:19 am to Bustedsack
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I just dont understand how a 9 year old kills himself let alone know what his sexuality preference is.
I knew then I liked tits and arse
Remember seeing Happy Gilmore which came out when I was 9, and the dream scene with Happy's girlfriend in lingerie definitely did it for me
Posted on 8/28/18 at 9:21 am to Bustedsack
Way we get info nowadays cuts short these kids childhoods. Parents leaving kids with the internet as tv doesn't help.
Posted on 8/28/18 at 9:23 am to Das_Wanda_kid
quote:This cant be real
9 year olds don’t have a sexual preference unless they are told so.
I distinctly remember watching Jerry McGuire, Happy Gilmore etc etc when I was 8-10 and lead filling my pencil when hot chicks were on
Maybe you are bisexual if you didnt have a preference at that age.......
This post was edited on 8/28/18 at 9:24 am
Posted on 8/28/18 at 9:33 am to northshorebamaman
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Agree with this. When dealing with my own children I consider how things are. Not how things should be. As much as I wish it wasn't this way, the fact is little kids are assholes, and some things are better off keeping to yourself at that age.
I've had to have this conversation with my oldest a number of times. He just started middle school and the basics I've told him is just prepare for kids to be complete assholes for the next seven years of your life. At some point you will get teased and probably for the dumbest reason. Just let it roll off your back. If it gets to a point where it becomes consistent and overboard let me know and I'll take it up with the school.
When it comes to fighting, I've told them the school has a zero tolerance policy about. You fight. You get suspended. I've explained it is just BS CYA nonsense from the district. I don't agree with it, but it is what it is. If he ever has to stick up for himself or another kid getting hit by fighting back he'll never get in trouble with me even if he does at school.
Hopefully shite won't get to heavy for him. He's very well behaved and pretty much looks like a normal kid. There isn't much to pick on him about in a traditional sense. Just hope he can navigate the next seven years well.
Posted on 8/28/18 at 9:40 am to fallguy_1978
Leftist teacher told them they were gay to use them as a tool for their own personal beliefs is usually how this works.
Posted on 8/28/18 at 11:46 am to Bustedsack
This is how you know you F'd up as a parent. Sad situation.
Posted on 8/28/18 at 11:51 am to TOSOV
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I also think that lower testosterone as a man gets older can contribute to his want for younger bois, etc.
What the frick? No. This isnt true at all.
Most dudes who go for young boys were likely molested when they were younger. In fact, I bet a lot of those Catholic priests were molested as young kids by other priests which is why the cycle continues.
Testosterone has nothing to do with it lol.
Posted on 8/28/18 at 12:00 pm to tommy2tone1999
We've got some serious homophobes around here. Reminds me of the 50's when whites wouldnt use the same water fountains as blacks.
Posted on 8/28/18 at 12:04 pm to Fourteen28
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We've got some serious homophobes around here.
Drama queen
Posted on 8/28/18 at 12:05 pm to Fourteen28
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Reminds me of the 50's
how old are you ?
Posted on 8/28/18 at 12:05 pm to Fat and Happy
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At 9, i was playing hide and seek, building forts in the Woods by the House, riding my bike, playing sports, etc. I legit had no clue what suicide was until i was in my teens. And i dang sure has no clue about sexuality till i was somewhere between 11-12
yep
the only reason i knew about suicide in the 4th grade was bc a friend of mine down the street hung himself.
I was an emotional wreck bc at that age you just can't comprehend that shite, esp when you have no idea what it is.
But i knew what sex was by that age and i liked looking a boobies, bc i would watch cinemax after dark all the time
This post was edited on 8/28/18 at 12:18 pm
Posted on 8/28/18 at 12:06 pm to Fourteen28
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We've got some serious homophobes around here. Reminds me of the 50's when whites wouldnt use the same water fountains as blacks.
We've got some serious SJWs on here who feebly try to equate lifestyle choices, and bad parenting with a person's race.
Posted on 8/28/18 at 12:09 pm to fallguy_1978
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How does a kid in the 3rd-4th grade know they are gay?
Because they like it when daddy PITB
Posted on 8/28/18 at 12:09 pm to brgfather129
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The same way I knew I liked girls when I was in K.
You think that's apples to apples?
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